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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/12/2008 12:59:01 PM

LichPrincess

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I should mention, one of his roomates is his brother, and his mom is at his house very often. If the roomates were just random people, it wouldn't bother me, but I'm really not keen on his family hearing me be spanked.

Turning music on is an excellent idea that I've never really done before. A bit of loud, throbbing EBM music should take care of some of the noise.

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/12/2008 1:04:37 PM

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If telling the roommates to buzz off won't work maybe we should brainstorm. What about a small storage unit? Sounds silly but many here are very private, have electricity and small ones are cheapish depending on the region. What about advertising for house sitting? You know take in the newspaper and mail, turn on and off lights...use their very private living room. I'd just say don't do anything in their beds because that's crossing a line but hey, living rooms or basements work. Might even pick up some extra cash too. I'm sure if we all put our smutty brains together we can come up with other ideas.

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/12/2008 1:47:15 PM

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Depending on how much room you have make a sound cage that comes apart. Use cheap plywood and egg crates over sample carpet squares glued to the inside walls and make it so that it breaks down flat and goes under the bed. You can use hooks on the inside to hang things from if you like..... however... once the box is up you coldnt hide it if anyone was to wonder into the room... kind of like a big dog house...lol it would cost about $200.00 probably by the time you are done.

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/12/2008 1:52:34 PM

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We do a lot of dog-sitting/house sitting, and some of the best, filthiest, steamiest sex has occured in the living-rooms of vacationing family friends:)

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/12/2008 4:53:15 PM

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Split the cost of a hotel room for the night. Really thats the best way to go. Both of my roommates know I'm into BDSM, but for a heavier scene...a room is in call. I so cant wait till I get my own place.

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/12/2008 8:16:41 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LichPrincess

We do a lot of dog-sitting/house sitting, and some of the best, filthiest, steamiest sex has occured in the living-rooms of vacationing family friends:)

A different take on doggy style.

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/12/2008 8:30:50 PM

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I have this issue, since I have wee ones (well, not wee, school age) at home, but we manage okay. I am lucky that my "wing" of the house is a converted garage, so its not so easy to hear the crazy happenings within, but not impossible. One solution? I put my radio and vanity near the entrance to my room, and turn it up if things are going to get boisterous. Metallica, NIN, Atreyu and such are wonderful to drown out my loudness.

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/20/2008 10:51:35 AM

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Crops leave a good sting but aren't very loud and honestly there are some padded/"fur" lined paddles that don't make much of a racket either.

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/20/2008 6:15:09 PM

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White noise machine, tv with an action movie, and music. Layer the sounds so no one can say definitively what caused that one noise.

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/20/2008 6:29:08 PM

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I'm sure someone else has said it...but, can you go to your house?

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/20/2008 6:42:09 PM

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I never had the problem of the toys making too much noise. It was my sub screaming that bothered so many of the neighbors. Yeah, yeah, that is what a gag is for, but have you ever heard a sub scream through a gag? He could. I loved his screams. My neighbors didn't. Solution? Move to a remote area, which I did and no longer had the neighbor problem <s>

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/20/2008 6:54:52 PM

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As long as they dont mind "loud sex" (and find me a single guy who doesnt like listening to it!!!) it shouldnt be a problem. I agree with loud music and a gag. If you are not using the mattress, that can go up over the door to provide sound buffer too. :) Rubber spatulas are good too. Nice "thwack" without a loud "crack".

As for hotel rooms, they have thin walls too. We ended up really pissing a guy off one nite (it was loud sex! LOL) he actually starting throwing stuff at the walls,calling our room, and banged on the door. Guess the sex lasted longer than he could.....lol.

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/20/2008 6:56:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Tell me...do you still hear the soft swish of the whip before it hits it's target?
<said in a most effective Dr. Lector voice>

Mmmmmmmmmm.......that sounds yummy......

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/20/2008 6:57:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LichPrincess

We do a lot of dog-sitting/house sitting, and some of the best, filthiest, steamiest sex has occured in the living-rooms of vacationing family friends:)

Bondage and whips to go!

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/20/2008 8:52:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HornyToadsMI

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Tell me...do you still hear the soft swish of the whip before it hits it's target?
<said in a most effective Dr. Lector voice>

Mmmmmmmmmm.......that sounds yummy......

lol the idea was to frighten, but yummy is good too <s>

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/20/2008 8:55:13 PM

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Earplugs for the housemates.

Seriously, if they're guys, chances are they're going to hear ass-smacking and moaning and the minute your boyfriend walks out of the room they're going to high-five him.

Other than that, turn on some music to disguise the sound. They'll probably figure you're having sex but they won't be able to hear the kinkier aspect of it, which I'm assuming is mostly what you're trying to keep under wraps.

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Tell me...do you still hear the soft swish of the whip before it hits it's target?
<said in a most effective Dr. Lector voice>

Oh thanks, MoGa! I really needed my Hannibal Lector fetish to get fired up tonight!

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/20/2008 9:19:00 PM

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I experienced much the same problem at a similar age. I made it a priority to get my own place, and by that I mean buying something, not renting. This afforded the privacy I required and allowed alterations to be made, and it became a good financial step as well.

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/20/2008 9:39:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: DMFParadox

Spelling note: Dom and Domme sound the same out loud, so to hell with the extra 'me'.

Hear, hear!

LOL

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/21/2008 1:15:59 AM

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Chances are if you are concerned about the noise factor, your roomates are too. You may just want to suck it up and ask them about it. My old roomate and I had a deal there was at least a little scheduled time when the other could scram for some hours. Your roomates may be willing to "go to the grocery store" for a couple hours on tuesday if you're willing to "run errands" for a couple hours on thursday.

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RE: BDSM sex, in a house with thin walls... - 8/21/2008 1:19:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: LichPrincess

We do a lot of dog-sitting/house sitting, and some of the best, filthiest, steamiest sex has occured in the living-rooms of vacationing family friends:)

You are HORRIBLE! :))

< Message edited by VMistressV -- 8/21/2008 1:20:13 AM >

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