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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

I'm a pretty passionate person in general.  Lust, well I'm pretty lustful.  I have an appeitite for passionate, lustful sexual moments.  I also have a passion and lust for being near water, standing on a beach watching the waves, listening to the waves, feeling the breeze on my skin, smelling the air.  Things that fire off all my senses.

In fact I try to capture memories, like Kodak moments in soul.

Every relationship I have ever been in, I have captured some moment in my mind.

Lust, Passion, and Sex.  Yes... along with sensual, painful, dark, and even moments of laughter and humor.


Owner,

Now personally I can relate to your thoughts as a mirrow of my own.

CP

A the sounds of sleepy sighs while drifting to sleep together after having shared an experience together.  Waking up and they are near.

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ORIGINAL: IvyMorgan

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: IvyMorgan

Lust, pass, Passion, yes, and Sex, sometimes.

I say sometimes because it's usually there, in the background, or on the edges.  In private, sexual elements will be brought in, which can sort of deaden the sex element for my headspace.  But, there are some scenes when it's *all* about something else (S&M springs to mind), and one relationship I have where it is purely platonic, revolving around fetching wardrobes and things of that nature, there's passion in that, but no sex.

Ivy,

Well then it appears that they can be mutually exclusive for you; now that is mind control.

CP

I guess that's becasue sex is pretty much purely a physical act.  Like breathing, or scratching my nose.  Sometimes, my nose really itches, and then I want to scratch it, but mostly, my nose is just my nose and not itchy.  In some ways, my nose being itchy and wanting to scratch it is a more pleasurable sensation/feeling that actually following through and scratching.

Lust is a feeling, I guess.  I can't really define it, because I've never really felt it.  I've felt cravings, but, I've never seen someone and wanted to jump their bones.  Or gone to bed at night and woken up in the morning with the last and first thoughts being "I need that person, physically".

Passion is an energy, a buzz, something that burns inside, and in the connection between me and my partner.  That's always there, however strongly, because there is always some sort of connection between me and the person I'm playing with.  Obviously, the more it burns, the more intensely, the better.

Does that make sense?

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

In a relationship, I want, and live, all three. 

Passion, however, is something I am in most aspects of my life.  I am passionate about my work, about my friends, about my interests, but not lustful and sexual with them.  With someone I am in love with, however, lust and passion come with the package.

It has been years since I have participated in casual sex.  I don't know if I will again.  If I do, then to do so without passion and lust would likely be boring for me.

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

What is with the name change? just when I get to know og you pull a change up?

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On the post. who could disagree?

CP

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ORIGINAL: candystripper

Well, have had lust alone -- no regrets but not something I am willing to repeat.
 
Have had passion -- not reciprocated -- and certainly hope to experience new heights as a submissive than I was ever able to as vanilla woman.
 
Sex -- every conceivable sort, emotionally.  From the utterly vaccuous to the terrifying to the transcendent to the comforting and beyond.  I cannot imagine feeling fulfilled as a submissive without *great* sex of whatever mind-numbing varieties there may yet be to come.
 
candystripper

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ORIGINAL: masamichi

i cant see where anyone who does this for life can do so without passion. passion does not have to be something in your face, mostly it is just the fire in your soul. i do know plenty that dont factor in the lust but for myself in all my sexualness i think lust is a must.

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ORIGINAL: NeedingMore220

All three terms can be applied to me in my D/s relationship.  I love the 'must have it/gotta have it' lusty feelings for my Dom that go along with the passion and sex, and I love how he controls my lust, giving what he desires, not what I feel that I need.

I believe my Dom has less of the lust feelings, some of the sexual and a lot of the passion.  He is a quietly intense passionate person - I see it in his eyes when he is really in the moment with me.  I'd almost say that it was lust, but it's not of a sexual nature, so that's not right.  But his eyes fairly burn with emotion, which I've never seen before.  

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ORIGINAL: kallisto

Lust, passion, sex - inclusive.   I want all.   I'm passionate about every relationship I have (D/s, family, friends, work-related, etc.).  I'm passionate about my work, my home, my yard, my hobbies, everything I do and am involved with.   Lust is that deep, dark, hunger and desire sparked by my Dom, that can fulfilled with sex or a very intense scene with Him.     Sex can be had without the lust and passion, but it's just sex.    Add lust and passion and you've got "have to have it sex".     

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ORIGINAL: BrokenSaint

It really depends. Ideally one wants all three I'd think. At least I do. Though sometimes elements are there where you don't get all 3. They're like all things. Always in flux, shifting and changing with the flow of events.

That being said I usually start relationships on a very low key basis. Where I get to know the person a fair bit before any of those even comes up. It puts some people off, as I might go out with them and make no particular advances, but I'd always much rather get to know the individual before those things rear their head and make things substantially more complicated. Then too, with a worst case scenario you end up with a new friend, best case you find you have all of those things in that person. Kind of a win/win situation.

Getting more back to the original question though I'd have to say in-between. Sometimes they aren't all there, but ideally they're inclusive.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

They come and go. But for us having all three would make for a good scene since sex for us is integral to our playtime.

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ORIGINAL: corsetgirl

I will take all three of the elements because I enjoy that inclusive part of a D's relationship.  Now, if I could just find the right partner to incorporate those areas, I would be one happy sub.