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RE: You had me at hello. - 8/12/2008 4:13:15 PM

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softness: or misstrubation was hogging all the totty

I have no idea what this means, but it sounds REALLY dirty. Especially in an upper-class Brit accent.

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RE: You had me at hello. - 8/12/2008 4:57:18 PM

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Play with strangers? Sure, I've done it a number of times. However, the less I know someone I'm about to play with the more questions I tend to ask. Just so I know what they are into and not into, what they can handle and what they can't, and any restrictions they or others have in place.

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RE: You had me at hello. - 8/12/2008 5:14:43 PM

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Would you / do you play with relative strangers?

Yup

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If you do / would what safety precautions do ou put in place?

Know that you will stick to what you need to for yourself to be fulfilled and bring condoms.

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RE: You had me at hello. - 8/12/2008 5:14:49 PM

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I have always questioned the sanity of someone who would go to a club and play with someone who is a stranger. Judgemental yes i know, but i have. I have changed my mind though now, well either that or i am insane! One of the two lol.

Saturday i spent a few hours in the company of a woman along with a friend (who already knows her) and then we went to a club. I had no intention of playing at all, i was just having a nice evening out and getting the chance to wear some fet wear and real heels.

However after being in the club for about twenty minutes i was shackled to the wall, blindfolded and breasts out! No negotiation, no limits discussed, no safe word in place. I had never done breast play before either.

It has been about 8 months since i played last so i admittedly didn't last very long, maybe twenty minutes tops and i for me it wasn't didn't overly heavy play. However i had a really fantastic time and my top being virtually a stranger, no limits, no negotiation made it an extremely hot experience.

So my questions are......
Would you / do you play with relative strangers?
If you do / would what safety precautions do ou put in place?
If you wouldn't play with a relative stranger why not?

And just for clarity this woman really did have me at hello !! There was just something about her that made me throw all my so called safety values right out the window.

I would worry about the sanity of someone who let a perfect stranger tie them up in a private place, more so than someone who played in a club.

I still wouldn't play under any circumstances without some sort of discussion of at least physical limitations, previous injuries, medical conditions, and so forth.

'Snatch and grab' makes for a nice fantasy...until they go into a diabetic coma, or an asthma attack, or their shoulder pops out of it's socket, and you have no clue because you were too cool to waste time with such unimportant things.
Or until you find out a week or so later that they are complaining loud and long that you went too far and hurt them without their consent.

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RE: You had me at hello. - 8/12/2008 6:27:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

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softness: or misstrubation was hogging all the totty

I have no idea what this means, but it sounds REALLY dirty. Especially in an upper-class Brit accent.

E.

Sorry to shatter your illusions but it just means i will be selfishly keeping all the good looking men / women to myself.

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RE: You had me at hello. - 8/12/2008 6:29:54 PM

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I would worry about the sanity of someone who let a perfect stranger tie them up in a private place, more so than someone who played in a club.

Thats my plan for this weekend. Oh well i'm insane

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RE: You had me at hello. - 8/12/2008 6:42:20 PM

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You may be right...