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alwayzwatchingu -> Task for slave (8/12/2008 10:53:43 AM)

Hello...I am interested in humiliating tasks any Mistresses have given their slaves/subs? I would also like to know what items you think would be most emabarrasing for a male slave to purchase in an adult store....Looking forward to hearing some great ideas and opinions :)



MamaDomme1 -> RE: Task for slave (8/12/2008 10:58:47 AM)

cleaning litter boxes are pretty good.....  ;)

emptying slop buckets.....

purchasing gay porn, if the sub is straight.... and discussing it at length with the cashier......



sillyslaveboy -> RE: Task for slave (8/12/2008 12:46:10 PM)

There are some also in this thread:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1863595/mpage_1/tm.htm



sillyslaveboy -> RE: Task for slave (8/13/2008 7:06:18 AM)

i will mention again how hilarious might be to send male slave in shopping with cum on his breath. i will never forget some Girl cashier's faces, inspecting me. Oh yes, i bet they knew the taste and smell too. :) The best way i found to make it noticeable is that slave mix it in mouth for half an hour before going out and to swallow it right before he reaches the cashier Girl. he must smile and remain communicative all the time.

For those who don't have stomach for this, a strong Female perfume on male slave would do either.



MistressOfGa -> RE: Task for slave (8/13/2008 7:32:18 AM)

Humiliation at a toy store? Have him try on shoes (The higher the heel the better). Make him stand up and look at himself in the mirror, all the while saying how pretty he feels.

I think that the above covers both aspects of the OP's question.

Sillyslaveboy, that is just sick! lol I love it.




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Task for slave (8/13/2008 7:45:15 AM)

let's see - i made my pet try on and buy black baby doll lingerie ...also weaing it under his clothes while attending business/dinner meetings.



MistressOfGa -> RE: Task for slave (8/13/2008 8:06:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

let's see - i made my pet try on and buy black baby doll lingerie ...also weaing it under his clothes while attending business/dinner meetings.

Hi smlg,
I have a question..if he is enjoying wearing the lingerie under his work suits, how is that humilation for him? Unless, it is the fear of getting caught?



sillyslaveboy -> RE: Task for slave (8/13/2008 10:07:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa
Sillyslaveboy, that is just sick! lol I love it.

Thank You Mistress of Ga.

There were also hidden things present, like pushpins in panties. Heads of pushpins were in form of a disc (not a cylinder) which allowed them to be held still between two pairs of panties. slave wears one panties, pins penetrate those panties, second panties pressure pins and ensure they don't fall out. The tighter, the more hurtful). But i didn't feel need to mention them since they're more a painslut thing. :)

<dry turnoff stuff>
Everything needs to be clean, pins must be made of a material that's not likely to cause infection and whole-day wearing is not advisable to those who are afraid of health issues.
</dry turnoff stuff>



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Task for slave (8/13/2008 11:42:02 AM)

in the macho career he has (project site manager for a construction co), it's the fear of getting caught by his boss.



MamaDomme1 -> RE: Task for slave (8/13/2008 1:23:19 PM)

I love doing that!  My former boy worked for Brown & Root as an electrical engineer, building a nuclear power plant and was the liason between B&R, Westinghouse & the Nuclear Regulatory Commission.  His secretary would call me each Friday to give me his scheduled meetings for the next week.  When he had the "big" meetings, I would make him wear pretty, lacy & frilly, pink panties.



JstL00k1ng -> RE: Task for slave (8/14/2008 1:13:28 AM)

I would say, send him into the toy store wearing heels that he stumbles in. If he's used to wearing and walking in them, get them a bit small so they're hard on his feet, put something in them like a sharp rock or something to make walking harder, etc... the point is to make sure it's noticable that HE is stumbling around in heels. People will make their own assumptions from whatever angle their minds come up with.

There's always crossdressing. Could be humiliating, or exciting, depending on your sub.

While he's there, have him ask for assistance for EVERY thing he's there to get. And make reference that the item is for himself. For a vibrator... I need something that's really powerful, or it just doesn't do it for me. Or, I need one that's going to give me some flexibility so I can move around with it in. Course, depending on the store, these could be more embarassing for the clerk then himself, but that depends on your little pet. [;)]



MistressMandy1 -> RE: Task for slave (8/14/2008 1:53:41 AM)

I sent my sub out in a nappy and plastic pants under his trousers, the bulge was quite noticable and every time he took a step you could hear the rustle.
Also took a cd sub out shopping to buy some lingerie dressed him perfectly makeover the works he felt great until he got to the counter to pay for his purchases and my bracelet purposely caught his wig and pulled it from his head the look on the assistance face said it all. How humiliating for him.



MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: Task for slave (8/14/2008 4:56:24 AM)

Gawd......I sound like a stuck record on this topic.

Only you know what really pushes your humiliation buttons.  Humiliation is a feeling and only you can choose how you will - or will not - feel. 

So if you find it humiliating, it is humiliation

If you don't find it humiliating, it isn't

It is a bad idea for any of us to try to guess how to humiliate you.  We don't know you.  We don't know what would be (a) just boring, (b)erotically embarrassing or (c)give you a full blown nervous breakdown.  That is your Mistress' job. 

Humiliation is a state of mind in the individual, not a list of 'things' Mistresses do

I have had subs that could not wait to be stripped naked and show off their nudity (exhibitionism).  And I have had subs that cringed with embarassment when told to strip (humiliation)

Same play: totally different psychological response

Same dilemma with strap on play, golden showers, forced bisexuality, ass insertion, age play, cuckoldry etc etc ......one sub's fun humiliation is another sub's abuse. Humiliation is edge play for Mistress and sub.

How can a bunch of strangers guess what will push your buttons without f*cking you up or ruining your D/s relationship?  Humiliation needs to be carefully tailored to the individual.  That takes one on one communication. 

We can throw out a whole lot of pornagraphic ideas to titillate you, but I recommend that your Mistress give you a BDSM Checklist (google it) and ask you to tick the ones that you think would be fun humiliation, not degrading (or - maybe worse - a boring waste of time).

Good luck and have fun



MistressOfGa -> RE: Task for slave (8/14/2008 5:13:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

in the macho career he has (project site manager for a construction co), it's the fear of getting caught by his boss.

I thought this might be the case. Thank you for answering my nosy question lol

God I love being a Domina! <s>



MistressOfGa -> RE: Task for slave (8/14/2008 5:19:40 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

Gawd......I sound like a stuck record on this topic.

Only you know what really pushes your humiliation buttons.  Humiliation is a feeling and only you can choose how you will - or will not - feel. 

So if you find it humiliating, it is humiliation

If you don't find it humiliating, it isn't

It is a bad idea for any of us to try to guess how to humiliate you.  We don't know you.  We don't know what would be (a) just boring, (b)erotically embarrassing or (c)give you a full blown nervous breakdown.  That is your Mistress' job. 

Humiliation is a state of mind in the individual, not a list of 'things' Mistresses do

I have had subs that could not wait to be stripped naked and show off their nudity (exhibitionism).  And I have had subs that cringed with embarassment when told to strip (humiliation)

Same play: totally different psychological response

Same dilemma with strap on play, golden showers, forced bisexuality, ass insertion, age play, cuckoldry etc etc ......one sub's fun humiliation is another sub's abuse. Humiliation is edge play for Mistress and sub.

How can a bunch of strangers guess what will push your buttons without f*cking you up or ruining your D/s relationship?  Humiliation needs to be carefully tailored to the individual.  That takes one on one communication. 

We can throw out a whole lot of pornagraphic ideas to titillate you, but I recommend that your Mistress give you a BDSM Checklist (google it) and ask you to tick the ones that you think would be fun humiliation, not degrading (or - maybe worse - a boring waste of time).

Good luck and have fun

Very sound advice, but is the OP talking about herself? I was under the impression that this was just curiosity about what we have done to humiliate our subs. Of course, if this is about the OP, then just skip my answer. I do not know you at all. I can't suggest things that *you* could use, I was just saying what *I* have used. Only your own Mistress can determine what is best for you, not a bunch of Ladies on a message forum. We mean well, and I hope it helps your own Mistress, but if you really want to learn what it is that she can do to or for you, you need to speak to her about it.

Nice catch, MsC!

Edited because I didn't look at the OP's profile, and just realized that she is a woman. So really my original suggestion is pointless, as I thought (my fault) that the OP was a man, and yes, prancing around in stiletto's and saying I feel pretty would be humiliating, but not necessarily for a woman. [8|]



youngsubgeoff -> RE: Task for slave (8/14/2008 5:57:31 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Humiliation at a toy store? Have him try on shoes (The higher the heel the better). Make him stand up and look at himself in the mirror, all the while saying how pretty he feels.



Why do I have the feeling that this is in my future?



MistressOfGa -> RE: Task for slave (8/14/2008 6:04:33 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: youngsubgeoff

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Humiliation at a toy store? Have him try on shoes (The higher the heel the better). Make him stand up and look at himself in the mirror, all the while saying how pretty he feels.



Why do I have the feeling that this is in my future?

<bats eyelashes> I don't know. Because it may be? <smiles evilly>



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Task for slave (8/14/2008 7:04:41 AM)

<cheered at the thought of Geoff doing a Rocky Horror routine for MoGa>



alwayzwatchingu -> RE: Task for slave (8/14/2008 7:23:04 AM)

Thanks for all the replys so far....Actually I wasnt asking in reference to myself...or anyone in particular...Just curious....yes yes i know it killed the cat lol :p



MistressOfGa -> RE: Task for slave (8/14/2008 7:27:34 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: alwayzwatchingu

Thanks for all the replys so far....Actually I wasnt asking in reference to myself...or anyone in particular...Just curious....yes yes i know it killed the cat lol :p

Yes, but remember that satisfaction brought it back <g>



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