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Msfrauline -> Hubbe cleans bathrooms for me while nude and collard. (11/20/2005 11:39:24 AM)
Just wanted to say that I had my husband cleaning the bathrooms in his collar and rubber gloves and nothing else. I enjoyed this mentally. He seemed to enjoy it and yet kept asking me what I got out of it. I told him that I liked it and it was mentally stimulating. That was it. He still seems to want more description and I do not know what to tell him. Any thoughts?

AAkasha -> RE: Hubbe cleans bathrooms for me while nude and collard. (11/20/2005 11:50:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Msfrauline Just wanted to say that I had my husband cleaning the bathrooms in his collar and rubber gloves and nothing else. I enjoyed this mentally. He seemed to enjoy it and yet kept asking me what I got out of it. I told him that I liked it and it was mentally stimulating. That was it. He still seems to want more description and I do not know what to tell him. Any thoughts? He wants to be stimulated. Submissives who do service don't just enjoy the service, they seek something out of it. If that 'something' is missing, they will be unhappy. What does he need to be fulfilled other than just doing it? He wants one or more of the following things: * Punishment or correction while doing it * Praise and appreciation (beyond just a simple thank you) * A connection to his femdom's arousal * A feeling that the femdom got off on his predicament * A threat of humiliation You have to set some boundaries right now regarding what he "needs" when he does service submission. If he completes a 20 minute cleaning act and needs 45 minutes of stimulation before, during and after -- you need to tell him it's easier for you to clean the toilet or hire a maid. The best case scenario is that he just needs to get off on the idea of what he did, and how it affected you. Instead of "I enjoyed you cleaning the toilet" he needs to hear "I love controlling you and making you do nasty things for me, like cleaning naked except for the gloves. It turns me on to know you are there on your knees scrubbing while I'm relaxing. You are such a whore for me, cleaning like a maid, naked. What if my girlfriends knew about what you did?" Etc. Also, turn it around on him. Ask him, "So does it turn you on to clean naked? Does it make your dick hard? Tell me why it turns you on to be a maid for me. Does it embarrass you? Does it humiliate you?" Akasha

RosaB -> RE: Hubbe cleans bathrooms for me while nude and collard. (11/20/2005 12:42:31 PM)
That's great. I had to let someone go because of this exact feeling. It was way more work for me than it was for the submissvie. Being very new to having a service submissive, I had no idea it would turn out to be so mentally and physically exhausting. Setting rules, boundaries and learning what his needs are is definately great advice. quote: You have to set some boundaries right now regarding what he "needs" when he does service submission. If he completes a 20 minute cleaning act and needs 45 minutes of stimulation before, during and after -- you need to tell him it's easier for you to clean the toilet or hire a maid.

jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Hubbe cleans bathrooms for me while nude and collard. (11/20/2005 12:46:16 PM)
ms frauline,my most humble greetings, nude a necessity ,by "science," and, what is learned, in concentration-camps ,and, what's necessary for the psychology ,of oppression, and ,murder.(it's ,by degrees,and, i would die, for you;it's a matter ,of degree,our deaths,or opression.... ) 8 steps: de-nuding isolation the big lie labeling threats ,of death, for no reason. random punishment ,for no reason sepparate from support systems the big secret, if all present ;according ,to the limits, and ,degrees ; you got, as perfect an oppressed slave, as is possible.....

veronicaofML -> RE: Hubbe cleans bathrooms for me while nude and collard. (11/20/2005 2:54:04 PM)
RosaB That's great. I had to let someone go because of this exact feeling. It was way more work for me than it was for the submissvie. Being very new to having a service submissive, I had no idea it would turn out to be so mentally and physically exhausting. Setting rules, boundaries and learning what his needs are is definately great advice. =========== thank god(?) that "I" am NOT part of that i need something syndrome. "I" do MY domestic service daily and i ask for nothing in return. i am here 24/7---and i do not expect or ask for anything. as a matter of fact,........MY Mistress claims SHE feels bad because i DON'T ask for anything. "I" was trained to-be-in-service is it's own reward. and "I" have no fetishes to worry about. but then? maybe "I" am STILL ...THEE exception to the rule. i KNOW i see a lot of weird things "boys" write to Her on Her yahoo messenger and i can only shake my head. all the high maintenance i-want-sex stuff from these guys.......and demanding to be put in cages 24/7 and stuff. it is SO hard to keep a straight face. some of these guys have NO clue about everyday life,...cooking, cleaning, washing, upkeep, vac'ing,...dishes,...on and on. and no mention of outer yard care no less. hey! where in hec do these come from? ah wellllllll. SIGHS as long as it isn't ME i guess "I" don't care. everyone have a good day.

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