|
StrongSpirit -> RE: ...True thoughts, real person (8/12/2008 8:50:00 PM)
|
First, please note that if you have talked with multiple people and think they are all bullshit, then, just maybe, the problem is you.
The truth is that it is really not that hard to find a serious dominant. The majority of people on this and similar website are NOT about bullshit. The problem generally is:
a. Finding a dominant that plays the way you like to play. It does no good to get a role-player if you are into Pain with a capital P.
b. People that go looking for a handsome/beautiful perfect person and THEN check to see if they are dominant.
------------------------------
A lot of the time, people are not very clear about how they play. If you like Pony play, but are putting forth a 'dominate me' vibe, then you get all these people that just want to command you and don't want want to ride you. Then you think "They are not really dominant." But they ARE dominant, just not the dominant the way you want.
The other time, people see the multitude of dominants and put forth the wrong set of criteria. You have to put your sexual preferences FIRST, not your shallower ones. I know you see all these people, but the 'catches' are either already taken or have a reason why they aren't taken. Honestly, how long do you think say, Jeri Ryan would last on this website, if she was interested in experiencing what she rejected? You and I both know that she would be snapped up by the first sane person that talked to her. That would happen even if she was a poser. When you go put shallow reasons first, such as beauty, height, weight, then you end up ignoring most of the people worth talking to. Once you have already screened people for having the right kink, then you look at physical appearance, age, etc. Screen for them second and you will do a lot better.
|
|
|
|
