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MHOO314 -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/22/2005 12:22:04 PM)
and why is it that just because we are in the L/life, the odds are lower for finding someone or we can't be selective?? Im not going to trust implements of destruction to be used with someone I don't know--so how many vanilla girls have you dated??? its no different and gawd--ditch that approach--that ranks up there with hey sailor buy Me a drink--

veronicaofML -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/22/2005 12:38:27 PM)
that ranks up there with hey sailor buy Me a drink-- ========== i always wanted some gal to say that to me........but it never happened. i just aint THAT cute! i have never in my time had ANY woman come up to me anywhere........ chuckling.....at least i know............i am not one of those pretty boys. unlike some old men i have seen in bars giving a hard time to a young skirt behind the bar coz they are too chicken to go home to their ole lady. THAT ranks up there with the same kind of old men that sit in a grocery store deli giving the young teens a hard time.

MHOO314 -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/22/2005 12:53:51 PM)
well dear I can't say that to you now, Mistress Laura would kill Me, but if things don't work out, I promise contact Me and I'll use the line--smiles

veronicaofML -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/22/2005 1:27:06 PM)
aint like She reads anything here.........coz She don't do msg boards...and what the hell a joke is a joke aint like Ya couldn't say it anyway.......it's just for shits n giggles. take care p/sYour profile says YOU don't do femme boys anyway.............................

LadySonelle -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/22/2005 2:49:17 PM)
The majority of males who identify as subs and slaves are NOT submissive, nor are they actually slave material! I just spoke with a slave who went on for ever about "I would be your slave I would perform oral service on your friends, you could sell me out to play with other Dommes for money, I would love you to use me as your toilet, I would, I would I would I would....." So I asked him "Would you take My clothes to the cleaner's? Would you shovel the snow away from my door when it falls? Would you get up at 5:00 am to walk My odg?" Blank stare. "I would let you use me with a strap on! I would worship your feet! I would..." "Would you work 40 hours a week and then give Me 10% of what you make?" "No!.... but I would let you sit on my face, I would crawl in front of your friends, I would let 6you turn me into a woman, I would...." You see the disconnect? 99.9% of males want to be done not to do for. and they get weeded OUT very fast! I am going blind. In a while I will no longer be able to work or do many of the things I used to. Now I ask slaves to begin to take up the slack. They RUN! The slaves who DOP offer SINCERELY to BE THERE for a woman, and back their play, find that mistresses are actually WAITING for them! I have actually SEEN two Ladies quarrelling over the SAME slave while twenty others looked on without a Mistress of their own! If you (or any slave!) desire to BECOME that valuable slave that Dommes fight over, then DO FOR HGER the things a Mistress ASKS! Most Mistresses, including Myself, have things that they need. Some have them posted on websites, as I do. Read what they want or ASK them and they WILL tell you what is needed. No fakes, no topping from the bottom, no agendas, just humbly offer Her what she NEEDS and you will FIND your Mistress! Trust Me! This is true! Lady Sonelle

LadySonelle -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/22/2005 3:00:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale76 i got 7 replies just now who said they are intrested in me ... let me know whats rude in my email thats what i sent to everyone " respected mam , do you need submissive e-mail" however replies i am getting on this message board are very rude and it sounds that i am being publically humilated duh dont you ladies have respect for males at all ? is that how you treat your subs. I have GREAT respect for true slaves and subs! Great respect indeed! Perhaps this email would get you better results, IF you mean it when you sned it: "Respected Lady Mistress: I am a submissive/slave male who has little experience. In facxt, I am a virgin. I an willing to learn, willing to be trained and willing to give My time to you as you require it. I have read your profile and I find that your interst in housework (or whipping or feminization etc) is the same as my onw, and I would love to be able to learn it form an experienced and talented Lady such as yourself! If you have a profile, website or blog elsewhere, I would like to read it to learn more of what you desire in a slave. Please tell me what you find desireable in a slave and I shall try to develop those abilities under your guidance. If my email has come at a wrong time or you are not interested, a simple return reply of 'no I am not intersted at this time' will suffice and I shall email you no further. I thank you for your time and attention to my letter and if you have any questions I shall be very willing to answer them, including things I would like to learn or do, my age, occupation etc. You have only to ask. Sincerely slave n." That letter would show the Lady that you were WILLING to study (read her profile) learn and above all SERVE! I would bet you get a LOT more responses with that than a simple one line "do you want a slave?" email. Try it. Lady Sonelle

veronicaofML -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/22/2005 3:06:05 PM)
Would you work 40 hours a week and then give Me 10% of what you make?" ========= 10%? jeez..........i turn over everything and i have zero in my pocket.........gawd You are TOO nice! """No fakes, no topping from the bottom, no agendas, just humbly offer Her what she NEEDS and you will FIND your Mistress! Trust Me! This is true! Lady Sonelle """ i know THAT is as REAL as it gets. that's why "I" am a domestics only....... i have had 2 now r/t Ms...one in calif and one now in wisconsin.

Cloudz -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/22/2005 8:27:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pollux [image]http://members.roadfly.org/m3newb/850369.5205070.jpg[/image] Here. You're gonna need this. Welcome to CollarMe. Thanks pollux, one of the funniest posts I have ever read!

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/22/2005 11:35:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadySonelle The majority of males who identify as subs and slaves are NOT submissive, nor are they actually slave material! I just spoke with a slave who went on for ever about "I would be your slave I would perform oral service on your friends, you could sell me out to play with other Dommes for money, I would love you to use me as your toilet, I would, I would I would I would....." So I asked him "Would you take My clothes to the cleaner's? Would you shovel the snow away from my door when it falls? Would you get up at 5:00 am to walk My odg?" Blank stare. "I would let you use me with a strap on! I would worship your feet! I would..." "Would you work 40 hours a week and then give Me 10% of what you make?" "No!.... but I would let you sit on my face, I would crawl in front of your friends, I would let 6you turn me into a woman, I would...." You see the disconnect? 99.9% of males want to be done not to do for. and they get weeded OUT very fast! I am going blind. In a while I will no longer be able to work or do many of the things I used to. Now I ask slaves to begin to take up the slack. They RUN! The slaves who DOP offer SINCERELY to BE THERE for a woman, and back their play, find that mistresses are actually WAITING for them! I have actually SEEN two Ladies quarrelling over the SAME slave while twenty others looked on without a Mistress of their own! If you (or any slave!) desire to BECOME that valuable slave that Dommes fight over, then DO FOR HGER the things a Mistress ASKS! Most Mistresses, including Myself, have things that they need. Some have them posted on websites, as I do. Read what they want or ASK them and they WILL tell you what is needed. No fakes, no topping from the bottom, no agendas, just humbly offer Her what she NEEDS and you will FIND your Mistress! Trust Me! This is true! Lady Sonelle I don't believe I could add a single word to this. Beautifully written.

michaelMI -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/22/2005 11:54:49 PM)
they don't get it, do they? it's not about "I"...it's about "You". actions speak louder than words in most cases.

DominaMame -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/23/2005 6:24:47 AM)
I will flatly turn down any submissive male asking me that as I view it as one who doesn't understand the lifestyle and actually believes that taking a submissive on entails merely asking to be taken. As with all types of relationships, D/s M/s is no different; time, getting to know, creating a bond. NOT "can i be your slave Mistress??" I get that question 10 times a day also sub males who have given up their masculinity and are whiney beggars can hit the door as well,,,,,,,,at the end of my foot! [;)] Be Well, Domina Mame quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale76 oh to verify the fact i am sending private message to every dommy enters in room ... asking " maam are you intrested to be my mistress " sent about 60 requests .. recieve 7 replies with answers "no" lol either all mistresses r lesbians or they dont want virgin slaves[:)]

DominaMame -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/23/2005 6:26:38 AM)
Indeed!

DominaMame -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/23/2005 6:30:34 AM)
Exraordinarily true and what I have found. The makes can be exteme seeking kink only and the use of the word I gives it up for me every time. It is rare to find a natural make submissive, though in 15 yrs I have found 2 truly "born submissive" males. P.S. The ineed was for the post this regards. Be Well, Domina Mame

liasubby -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/23/2005 6:41:11 AM)
Dear Lady Sonelle, Thank You for this post. i believe this is the best advice for a letter of introduction i have ever seen. Although i would never suggest just copying and pasting but it certainly helps me to write my version of a proper letter in the future. (i am on break but still reading for now) i actually believe You have just helped me to better express my wants and desires properly in a letter. Thank you very much. respectfully, -lia

submissivemale76 -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/23/2005 9:10:54 AM)
well go away you all ladies stink i am not sub anymore ...thats not the way one should be treated .. i am not gonna post on this forum anymore ... i am not begging for anything ... i thought it would be a deal both me and anyone intrested in me will enjoy it ... and there is no way to contact anyone without emailing ....and yes thats frustrating tooo..

submissivemale76 -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/23/2005 9:16:08 AM)
mistress== ladies who are not capable to do there own work .. they need someone to serve them because they are not able to fulfil there needs of there own..i earlier thought only orphans need someone's help ... but i was wrong these r mistresses .. and probably mistresses/slaves need mental help too .. because they must understand they are human beings before being there subs

KCMOLucky -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/23/2005 9:38:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JohnWarren quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale76 oh to verify the fact i am sending private message to every dommy enters in room ... asking " maam are you intrested to be my mistress " sent about 60 requests .. recieve 7 replies with answers "no" lol either all mistresses r lesbians or they dont want virgin slaves[:)] You ARE kidding I hope! I can't think of an approach (aside from "Hi, I'm a serial killer; would you like to be next?) more likely to get rejection. Women have the idea that they should be desired for who they are rather than what they can do for you. Until you see them as people, rather than interchangable inflatable dolls with whips, you are doomed to be alone. Nope, he's not kidding... I got one from him, too. :D I guess I'm one of the 7 replies that said "No"

JohnWarren -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/23/2005 9:53:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale76 and there is no way to contact anyone without emailing ....and yes thats frustrating tooo.. No way? We had a few dozen people over the house this weekend and I met three new people. At the last munch I attended, I think I met five. Libby and I went to Orlando Bash this year and I can't count how many I met. Online isn't the only way to meet people... I don't think it is even the best. However, I suspect the OPs major problem isn't the medium. The major problem can best be seen in the mirror.

Oumae -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/23/2005 10:29:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JohnWarren However, I suspect the OPs major problem isn't the medium. The major problem can best be seen in the mirror. maybe Mom doesn't let him out past the front yard. [;)] Oumae

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/23/2005 10:53:25 AM)
quote: well go away you all ladies stink i am not sub anymore Yay!

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