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Sadly, New to Cybersex - 8/15/2008 12:10:02 PM

CelestineAndSir

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I was hoping this very wonderful community could help with a very embarrassing situation. I haven't cybered in at least 8 years. But thanks to the openness and generosity of my Master, I am looking to regain that part of my sexuality. But after all these years, I do not know how it works anymore.

I'm not soliciting for partners! But could anyone tell me... what is the protocol "these days"? Where is an acceptable place to look for online partners? How does one solicit for online partners?

Thank you so much!

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RE: Sadly, New to Cybersex - 8/15/2008 12:18:49 PM

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Well, for a woman to find cyber partners... she just needs to be on any given website for a few minutes. LOL!

Seriously though, what is it that you're looking for?
Just practice with someone so you can improve your skills for your Master?

A good idea, would be seek sexual people that you know and can trust to be discreet. I have a few ladies that I know that would happily help me in that regard. And we know that anything shared remains private.

If your Master has any friends he would like you to practice with, that always works.

The problem with finding partners for it... is that most men online are a-holes.
They don't care about "good" cybering... they just want to spout perverted nonsense to anyone who'll listen. They won't try to find out what works for you, and find ways to make you enjoy it all the more.

Honestly, the best thing to do would be practice with your Master.
Learn his cyber needs, and adapt to them. He will appreciate the effort.
I know I would.

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RE: Sadly, New to Cybersex - 8/15/2008 1:19:42 PM

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Well... create a new profile of just a woman... they will come to you, by the hundreds. Or try a chat room. Protocol? I know of no such thing in cybersex or with finding a partner. Things haven't changed that much in eight years... lol...

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RE: Sadly, New to Cybersex - 8/15/2008 1:28:24 PM

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You might want to get your master's opinion on camming because it seems most men that want to cyber also want to take it to web cam. To make cybersex fun you need a good imagination and you need to be very explicit in what is typed. JMHO.

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RE: Sadly, New to Cybersex - 8/15/2008 2:10:20 PM

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I could post up something that a lady and I shared at one point (removing names of course).

We'd saved it to enjoy later (which I've done a few times).
Of course, it does involve a certain fetish of mine.

Is that acceptable here?

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RE: Sadly, New to Cybersex - 8/15/2008 2:27:09 PM

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it seems most men that want to cyber also want to take it to web cam.

rather they wont cam themselves but want to see the woman on cam...there is a video chat here...its filled with men...but maybe a handful of women...

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RE: Sadly, New to Cybersex - 8/15/2008 2:29:05 PM

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I don't know about that. The women I know are constantly complaining about random idiots who pop MSN, turn on their webcam, and flash their privates at them.

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RE: Sadly, New to Cybersex - 8/15/2008 2:35:48 PM

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I don't know about that. The women I know are constantly complaining about random idiots who pop MSN, turn on their webcam, and flash their privates at them.

i dont use those crap things as they are not moderated....and too much spam mail.

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