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coldmemory -> Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 2:06:44 PM)

Okay, my master and I are a bit apart in the age section, I'm younger than he. He finds my childish happiness and yet my strong intellect refreshing, some think I'm far to much apart from him to be correctly understood by him, but He understands me for who I am, Do you think I should just tell them to go away, or give them an answer why I don't care, If so, what?




Quivver -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 2:10:23 PM)

If your Gut say's all is well, then it is........

Q




IrishMist -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 2:10:45 PM)

If your Master is happy, and you are happy...No one else should matter.




IronBear -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 2:15:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: coldmemory

Okay, my master and I are a bit apart in the age section, I'm younger than he. He finds my childish happiness and yet my strong intellect refreshing, some think I'm far to much apart from him to be correctly understood by him, but He understands me for who I am, Do you think I should just tell them to go away, or give them an answer why I don't care, If so, what?


Lass, take no notice of what others think. If you both are happy then tell anyone who interfers to take a running jump. My Wife, (Lady Neets) and I have a 30 year age gap ~ I'm 60 and she's 30) We lost a number of pseudo friends and gained many more genuine ones.. Just be happy in your relationship.




Littlepita -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 2:18:27 PM)

I agree the only thing that matters is what the two of you think and feel. I'm 22 years younger then my Sir. He is very serious and I'm very childlike in many ways. We feel we balance each other out nicely.




LacieDoll -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 2:24:40 PM)

I've always believed that physical age is just a number. You are as old as you feel or want to be. Its really no one elses business about your age difference and if you make one another happy then great for you! As for the people who think otherwise, you really don't have to respond to them at all. However, if you feel the need to - just tell them that its your business and you would appreciate them respecting that.




veronicaofML -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 2:26:00 PM)

if ya are happy.........kick back and enjoy.

tell the world to stay away and ignore em.
take care




coldmemory -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 2:29:15 PM)

OH THANK YOU ALL! ^_^ It truely makes my day when people see the way I do! -giggles- Well, I love you all like my family, each day you teach this girl somthing new, love, A.




GentileDomNY -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 3:08:54 PM)

I would, in a very nice and polite way, tell them that its your business, not theirs.
You don't say how much the age gap is, but I've been involved with people 26 years older and 31 years younger, and that works, and I have a friend who is now involved with someone with a 43 year age difference, and it seems to work for them.
Very nicely, and politely, and with a smile, tell them to get lost.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 3:16:08 PM)

If you're old enough to get into a relationship with someone, you're old enough to decide for yourself what's best for you.

Age distance relationships are far more common than most people think.

Just be as happy when most people give you opinions and advice that's NOT yummy and what you want to hear. In the end the only thing that matters is what works for you.




Sunshine119 -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 3:19:08 PM)

If the most important thing in your life is Your submission to him, and you feel fulfilled in his company, all else is just noise. You're over 18 and perfectly able to make your own choices. Sometimes an older man commands more authority than a younger one. There are those of us who find submission to a man who has lived more life than us very, very attractive. Go for it and tell everyone you are happy. When they realize that, they will begin to believe it too.




jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 3:24:11 PM)

GREETINGS COLDME MAMORY
GREETINGS,say it is your preference,now....
sex gotta be more exciting with those who know and have more experience or mature looks vs,same grade stuff....
tell everyone ,to STAY OFF THE SUBJECT ,OF AGE-ISM; ITS DESCRIMINATION ,AND ,WE ALL KNOW WHAT YOURE PARENTS ARE LIKE KINDA THING,now
that youre inclined to be "predjudiced",
when i was young i liked older people, esp. woman ;life is boring, with ,just get me tots ,to talk, to all day...,or same age homogeneous age groups
SO DUMP IT ....,in favor ,of what,s really attractive ,to you (diverse attraction.)
cant discourage love no matter how bad ,vs. no love ,at all situation, for the same 2 persons

IF YOU LIKE SOME 1
,JUST know it's a game;,with people who are predjudiced,for you ,i wasted my whole life ,with anyone, but, the woman i wanted because she was older than me, now it's, too late
both our lives lost appart

anytype of biggot will pick your mate ;size ;rank; food ;and, neighborhood, too ,so nip it, in the bud ,or go ,on ,with all ,of it, forever ;confronted;on it...
next week it will be his nose and looks are not as defined ,as the rest ,of us ,he is sneeky
or he smells;
hes dirty;
he is stupid;
he steels ;
he is lazy;
he is oversexed;

(which may be true ,but ,not ,when you start ,with the "age"- card; first,then form you're kind opinions ...)
if its true- you have ,to hear it from an objective unbiased party ,not an interested one ;like these age priority folks....
only justice is someday even ,with no education ,or never having, to sit next to the guy ,with the "younger one"
;these biased persons will GET SENSITIVE-get old, too!face their own predjudiced treatment)
SEE IF THEY, PUT HIS CHANGE down instead ,of handing it, to him ;never directly hand, over anything in his "mits"
all symptoms of predjudice;
another few determining questions:
ask if theyd like to live next door to the guy
,or would he be able to marry in the family
or become their neighbor,
or live next door!?
can he marry a relative
...thats when you know you gotta possible future gangup ,on him ;start a rumor ,or riot against the poor guy....
if the answer is no never!,
and,not ,in my family!
you got some kinda igno biggot
i have no time, for embarrassing myself or who im with with thick-opaque personality disorders(it's permanant!)
he cant even be seen holding a ciggarette !they'll call it a joint
good luck-
pick your circles
i lost my whole life ,to this ,instead ,of being ,with a gentle; brilliant; older female
they even threaten her ,now....my life gone is'nt ,enuff...

i'll never know
WHAT SHE would have been ,in bed
is probably THE,OTHER worst thing ,for my young life ,to have lost

finished, by loosers ,with opinions, about age....or preference or s and m or clothes or kink ,or gay;
a town without pity is what you'll live ,in, if you don't talk, to them, and ,make things clear, asap,
other people made ,up my intimacy, money,and ,survival,up, to, today!,and,
got rid ,of everyone ...
i had ,to deal ,with bias all my life
i ,just laffed ,at igno people; called them igno ,and, kept ,on going.... now look who's in charge...




sweetpettjenny -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 3:28:34 PM)

If you and he are happy what else matters?




lovingmaster45 -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 4:19:43 PM)

You will get a kick out of this story. Head Bitch Barbie is 2 years younger than my daughter. I was accosted by a woman in her 50s at the club Saturday night. "I see you are one of those men who gets his jollies being with much younger women."...Barb overheard her...Oh Shit.

Barb levels this woman. "Bitch, I was the oldest one living with him when we got married."

Then amanda walks up. Barb fills her in. She turns to this woman and says; "He is my Master. I am his 3 hold slut and I am younger than his granddaughter."

You should have seen this woman turn tail and run.

Some people just don't know when to mind their own business...screw em...or as Lenny Bruce would say; "unfuck em"




FemDomHouTx -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 4:27:32 PM)

Do you suppose a portion of their disdain is just simple jealousy?
I have seen this many times in every sort of relationship. If you are happier than they, you must be doing something wrong is their mindset.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Appropriate Age (11/21/2005 4:29:30 PM)


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ORIGINAL: FemDomHouTx

Do you suppose a portion of their disdain is just simple jealousy?
I have seen this many times in every sort of relationship. If you are happier than they, you must be doing something wrong is their mindset.


There's something to that...but there's also something to the fact that a lot of older men ARE looking for young naive pussy to take advantage of, not establish a real long-term relationship.

However, IMO it's pretty easy to figure out who they are and if the girl is happy with it, what's the problem?





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