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ozziegimp -> Gimp/Slave/Boi/Sub (8/20/2008 5:43:53 AM)

Thank you for reading my question Sir's Masters and fellow bottoms.. could anyone please explain what the differences are between Gimp, Slave, Boi and sub's so we can correctly advise Sirs and Masters what we correctly are.. thanks 



slaveluci -> RE: Gimp/Slave/Boi/Sub (8/20/2008 5:46:58 AM)

With all due respect, can't you "correctly" advise someone on "what" you are without some such label?  Tell them about YOU.  What you like, don't like, will do, won't do, what you desire and don't desire, etc.  You don't need to slap someone else's definitions/labels onto yourself.  Just open your heart and mouth and tell them honestly all about YOU...............luci



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Gimp/Slave/Boi/Sub (8/20/2008 6:25:25 AM)

what luci said

i can call my pet any name i chose. depending on my mood, he's my slut, sissy, bitch or wimpy fuck toy. on the flipside, it's Daddy's right to call me whatever name he chooses.

now to answer your question - what's the difference between gimp/slave/boi/submissive?  no difference. merely names for any dominant to call their slave/submissive.



NeedingMore220 -> RE: Gimp/Slave/Boi/Sub (8/20/2008 6:47:59 AM)

My advice is to figure out how you would describe yourself, then you can talk with the Dominant about how you identify and what your needs/desires are - rather than just slapping a label on yourself which means different things to many people. 



*Written b.c. (before coffee).  Edited to clarify.  lol



missturbation -> RE: Gimp/Slave/Boi/Sub (8/20/2008 7:08:27 AM)

quote:

now to answer your question - what's the difference between gimp/slave/boi/submissive?  no difference. merely names for any dominant to call their slave/submissive

Have to disagree here and i think most people would.
There is a difference between them all but what that difference is has not been universally decided, it's individual.
 
Like slave luci tell them honestly about you and go from there.



FlamingRedhead -> RE: Gimp/Slave/Boi/Sub (8/20/2008 7:12:27 AM)

Since no one else here seems willing or able to answer your question, I will.  They are not all the same.  *rme*
 
gimp:  A male BDSM rubber/leather slave.  Specifically, refers to slave in full-body suit, e.g. rubber leather enclosure suits and (this is the key thing) a full head mask.
 
slave:  In a BDSM relationship, giving of oneself willfully, openly and completely to another.
 
boi:  In the BDSM community, someone who presents themselves in a young, boyish way and is usually a bottom or submissive.
 
submissive:  A person in BDSM who submits to a dominant person.



beargonewild -> RE: Gimp/Slave/Boi/Sub (8/20/2008 8:01:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FlamingRedhead

Since no one else here seems willing or able to answer your question, I will.  They are not all the same.  *rme*
 
gimp:  A male BDSM rubber/leather slave.  Specifically, refers to slave in full-body suit, e.g. rubber leather enclosure suits and (this is the key thing) a full head mask.
 
slave:  In a BDSM relationship, giving of oneself willfully, openly and completely to another.
 
boi:  In the BDSM community, someone who presents themselves in a young, boyish way and is usually a bottom or submissive.
 
submissive:  A person in BDSM who submits to a dominant person.


Though most often, boi/boy, slave/submissive are used interchangeably and usually it is the person who takes on the label which they feel is best suited for themselves.
From my experience, the Lesbian community generally uses the term "boi" and the gay male community is more apt to use the "boy" in reference to a gay submissive.



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