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My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/20/2008 11:10:16 AM   
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I just spent a wonderful weekend in GA visiting a long time friend from CM who needed a sub for a presentation she was doing called "Fire & Ice"; covering getting started in cupping, wax play, fire play, and ice play on a budget of less than $20 each.  She also wanted to introduce me to her leather family plus she needed a sub to serve her at a formal dinner her leather family was holding.  I've known her for a year and a half, but we'd never had the chance to meet face-to-face.  I needed to get away for a break from things, and this seemed like the ideal opportunity for us to finally meet.
 
I felt like I was "Cro-Magnon man" when I had to shave off a LOT of hair in order to be her sub for the wax play she had planned for her presentation; one in which she intended to completely cover my chest with it, then remove it with a HUGE, SHARP, KNIFE; as it turned out, all while people were making jokes that were causing me to want to laugh!(whew)  
 
You probably know the woman I speak of from her many posts here as Lady Pact.  With her husband currently out of country in harm's way and her sub also on duty elsewhere in the service, it seemed as though it was the perfect time to meet the woman who's been such a very good friend to me during the time I've known her.  She's always been there for me when I've needed someone to talk to; a friend that I could count on to listen.  She invited me to come to visit when things began to fall apart with other plans I'd tried to make.  She knew I needed to be surrounded by good company, just as she always seems to know what I need when things are troubling me.
 
To say I learned a great deal and made many new friends during the trip would be quite the understatement!  Her leather family was full of absolutely wonderful people to be around and welcomed me with open arms.  On Friday evening I took a class in formal service from a man who really knew his stuff.  It was very interesting to attend and something I hope to use again.  
 
During her presentation, Lady Pact used shot glasses and bottle caps to teach people how to get started with cupping at a very inexpensive cost.  For fireplay she taught them to use mentholated alcohol (an advantage is it's green instead of clear to help people distinguish it between water for safety) and wood stemmed q-tips as a starting point.  She also demonstrated how to use waterless hand cleaner too; both spray and gel!  I was impressed what one could do with it.  And oh the mind fucks she pulled on that sub who was scared to death to try it!  I have to give him a great deal of credit for the leap of faith he took. 

For the ice play, we went and bought fresh strawberries the day before which she froze overnight and used along with ice cubes and frozen steel knives.  It was absolutely yummy to watch!  She used a crock pot full of wax on me instead of just candles to lay down a base, then later used different colored candles she held at different heights to add color as she decorated me like a cake.  She also filled cookie cutters to make various designs.  I thought she was very creative to say the least.  I took photos of most of it, except of course when I was part of the demo.  I'm hoping someone else will have taken photos of the waxplay she was doing on me.  I'd really like to see what that looked like before she removed it with the BIG SHARP KNIFE, a previous hard limit of mine!  Did I mention the knife was HUGE and SHARP?

Later that night there was a play party at a local establishment.  Many who attended the presentation got to experience and/or receive hands on training in the kinds of fireplay and cupping she showed them earlier in the day.  When finished with that, it was time she'd set aside for play with me; something I rarely do in public except with someone I've known for a long time and trust a great deal.  I guess you'd say Lady Pact qualified in that regard as far as I was concerned.  She's known for being adept at Florentine style flogging and I know she used it on me at various times with what I believe to be dragon tails of that I'm absolutely certain!  I honestly don't know all of what she used on me, but my bottom is still sore today and will likely be black and blue for the remainder of the week.   I even had to call a "yellow" once as I didn't know if I'd make it past another strike like the one she'd just delivered.   That woman's one genuine sadist when she gets revved up! 
 
 
After only a few hours sleep, as the play party had ended very late at night, she rushed to drop me off to help with preparations along side the other servers for the formal dinner dressed in the outfit she'd chosen for me (full body leather harness, leather jock strap w/no back, black maid's apron with white ruffles, white cuffs and white gloves).  It's safe to say that in my outfit the marks from the previous night were very visible to all and I received numerous compliments on them.   I also needed a blanket while wearing it to stay warm when not busy helping with my assigned tasks.  LOL!  Without my usual body hair to insulate me and a bit more in the way of clothes, this subbie was rather cold!
 
It was a pleasure and honor to serve dinner to Lady Pact and her friends as well.  I was equally proud not to have spilled anything on her lovely black lace formal gown (she looked marvelous!).  Serving her at that dinner was an experience I'll never forget. 
 
Afterward, everyone mingled and had a great time.  We even watched some amazing cutting that was like nothing I'd ever have imagined.  The host cut the most beautiful angel's wings on his femsub's back; something he repeats on a regular basis.  It was an absolutely mesmerizing sight to behold!  I'd never have thought I'd find cutting so fascinating and beautiful to watch.
 
After lots of hugs and handshakes all around, it was time to say goodbye to the members of the leather family that had made me feel so welcome, seeming to have adopted me as one of theirs, as we departed the formal dinner.  After only a few hours rest, it was time to leave for the airport so I could return to TX.  Lady Pact and mastershepard drove me to Atlanta in the middle of the night so I would be there in time for a 6:30 AM flight and she'd also arrive safely back in Augusta in sufficient time for work.  I know that was a lot for her to take on after the long weekend we'd had of one event happening after another. 
 
I can't say enough about the many things I learned and the new special friends I unexpectedly made.  It was also a treat to meet people from CM like RumpusParable and mastershepard.  Thank you Lady Pact for the invitation.  It was a fabulous weekend that I'll never forget.  I genuinely enjoyed serving you immensely! 
 
Until we next meet again... (warm smile)
 
 - pixel
 


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RE: My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/20/2008 11:25:34 AM   
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sounds like a great time pixel!  mmmm wax... mmmmmmmmmm sharp knives.......  *giggles* yea, sounds like a LOT of fun.  Glad you got some time to decompress and meet some great people.
 
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RE: My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/20/2008 11:54:14 AM   
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Thank you so much for sharing that in such great detail! Oh it sounds like you both had a wonderful time.

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RE: My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/22/2008 10:06:00 AM   
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Thank you so much for sharing that in such great detail! Oh it sounds like you both had a wonderful time.


Thank you camille.  Indeed we did have a wonderful time, one that I'll always cherish!
 
As for sharing in great detail, I could have written a book about the experience!  You just got the Cliff's Notes.
 
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RE: My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/22/2008 10:09:31 AM   
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Glad you got some time to decompress and meet some great people.



Oh, that I did!  Am finally recovering from all the decompressing too!

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wanders off daydreaming of knives and wax



Sounds like we've been sharing the same daydreams!
 
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RE: My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/23/2008 12:12:15 PM   
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I am so happy for you that you got  to meet with a  Forum participant. One that we all trust and look up to. She is a wonderful person and Mistress.

I know from some recent posts that she has been rather lonely but handling it well. It was good for you to be there and I am sure gave her some much needed support and companionship.

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RE: My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/23/2008 3:35:55 PM   
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How neat, Pixel!  Thanks for sharing your weekend!

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RE: My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/24/2008 9:27:30 AM   
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sounds like it was alot of fun and well i hope i have as much if not more when i got to see master on spring break.

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RE: My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/26/2008 8:16:11 AM   
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I am so happy for you that you got  to meet with a  Forum participant. One that we all trust and look up to. She is a wonderful person and Mistress.



I was very happy too.  She was beaming with excitement when she met me at the airport and we talked non-stop for hours (well, I talked when I could get a word in edgewise since she was so excited ).  She is indeed a wonderful person and Mistress!
 

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I know from some recent posts that she has been rather lonely but handling it well. It was good for you to be there and I am sure gave her some much needed support and companionship.



It would be safe to say that I think she helped me more than I did her in that regard.  She has a wonderful leather family there that's been incredibly supportive of her.  They truly made me feel as though I'd been adopted and was a part of the family too!
 
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RE: My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/26/2008 8:18:30 AM   
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How neat, Pixel!  Thanks for sharing your weekend!


You're welcome Lady Hibiscus!  How could I not share such an exciting and life-changing experience with my friends here on CM??
 
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RE: My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/27/2008 2:22:02 PM   
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I've been remiss in not posting My half of this wonderful first face to face meeting.  In fact, I haven't been on the boards too much lately, so I haven't had the time I wanted to dedicate to writing My own response here. 

There couldn't be a better title for this section than "positive" experiences.   From the time that the last minute arrangements were confirmed until the visit was over, there wasn't one thing that I would consider less than terrific.  As many folks know, the first opportunity to meet someone face to face in the physical world, after knowing them electronically for some time, is like being introduced to an old friend.  This was exactly what the feeling was like when I  found him at the airport.

I was on cloud nine that he had come all of this way for Me.  All of the last minute arrangements really were exactly that.  The very last minute!  I think that added to My excitement that he was actually making it out here.  I feel like I should admit to the fact that I did talk non stop on the way back from the airport.  It's a habit of Mine when I am happy and excited.

This whole visit was such a whirlwind that I couldn't possibly mention everything.  Believe Me when I say we were busy.  From the time he got here until the time he left, there was always somewhere to go and something to do.  Thankfully, this also involved a lot of driving, so there was plenty of time to talk as well.  I think that was what added to the comfort level.  There weren't any of those uncomfortable silences that many people experience when they just don't know what to say to each other.  In fact, I think it took Me more than the first whole day he was here to find a time that I actually shut up.  LOL.

What can I say about how much fun this was for Me?  Getting to have him here for all of the things he described above was nothing short of fantastic.  It may sound silly in these simple terms, but we had made an agreement for him to be My "borrowed" sub during his time here.  This was something that fell so easily into place.   I know to most people, putting in those first little nuances of D/s is something that has to be worked on.  It didn't go that way with this.  It seemed to flow so naturally.  Putting a few simple protocols in place was something that was really good for both of us.

Speaking of things that are good for you, I want to specifically mention that any post that anyone reads from pixel about his abilities in the areas of his knowledge about massage are completely true.  From the time he started rubbing My feet during the service class, I was absolutely hooked!  He did a wonderful job at giving Me a quick rub for My shoulders to relax Me before the demo on Saturday afternoon.  (Anyone who knows Me knows that I get a bit tense before these kinds of things, even if it is a small crowd.)  There was a huge amount of tension in My shoulders that he was quickly able to help Me let go of, even with the flurry of activity.

He did an absolutely wonderful job serving during the formal dinner.  I was so proud of him!  Later, I was told how nervous he was at the whole event, which made Me smile that he found serving Me to be so important to him.  I had heard later that during discussion amongst the servers about the arrangements that he came 1,000 miles to be of service to Me, and that was exactly what he  intended to do!

By that afternoon, he started using the name I had given him.   I had told him through various emails quite some time ago that, if he were My sub, I'd have named him bleaux.  The reasons for it are too lengthy to get into here, but I was very pleased when he re-introduced himself to everyone using that name.  Somehow, it was like the final piece of the puzzle had fallen into place for him feeling at home here.  I can't help Myself but to smile thinking about that.

Like My bleaux said, there are too many wonderful things about this short visit that could possibly be described here.  For Me, they are great memories.  Certainly ones that I will always cherish.


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RE: My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/27/2008 4:16:24 PM   
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LadyPact,
How exciting for you and Pixel. I can't wait to post on here my experience with meeting Geoff and Lady Hib. and whoever else I meet in Michigan. Thank you for sharing with us what was clearly a wonderful, fulfilling experience.
 
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RE: My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/28/2008 3:40:30 AM   
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Oh my, I missed this until now!

It was lovely meeting you, Pixel; you were most pleasant and courteous.  I'm glad you were able to fly up and join the fun and also arrived home safe!

Smiles,
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RE: My wonderful trip to GA for "Fire & Ice" - 8/30/2008 7:43:20 PM   
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Oh my, I missed this until now!

It was lovely meeting you, Pixel; you were most pleasant and courteous.  I'm glad you were able to fly up and join the fun and also arrived home safe!

Smiles,
Rumpus


Thanks Ms Rumpus, it was my pleasure as well!
 
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