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Goodbye - 8/20/2008 7:33:09 PM

CrappyDom

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I am leaving Collarme for the foreseeable future but I wanted to say goodbye. I have learned much here, grown immensely, but the growth I need to do now, requires me to learn to provide my validation from the inside rather than externally, which is what I used Collarme for. I have deleted SimplyMichael’s profile and will delete this one after I have posted this.

I want to thank those who have called me on my shit, like LA and others. I want to thank those amazing Dominants like MadRabbit who has shown me that youth is no bar to talent, Knight of Mists for his wisdom and insight, Merc for being a friend, Iron Bear for showing me that some Goreans deserve respect. Suhlut for allowing me to use her. Certainly there are many others who have crossed my path who I respect; the above is way too short a list. Even Mod 11 has helped me grow.

I most want to thank the many out there who complimented me on my advice, my wisdom, my willingness to share as deeply of myself as I dared. I was at something of a low point in my life when I came to CM and in this forum I found much of my self worth that had been lost to me. I grew and became strong again. I dropped this name and adopted SimplyMichael as a sign of that growth. That growth pushed me to the point where I could attract the most amazing woman I have ever known.

Sadly, it was not enough to make the relationship work. My insecurities ate at us and in the end destroyed us. I am not yet ready but leaving CM is I hope, part of the path that will get me to the place I need to be so that when someone amazing once again enters my life, doubts will not follow in her shadow.

To my many many friends, I bid you farewell and wish you well on your journeys. Be at peace knowing I am on mine.

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RE: Goodbye - 8/20/2008 7:44:45 PM

completenz

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we have always enjoyed your postings, under both names.
Be happy and good luck with your continuing journey
C & c

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RE: Goodbye - 8/20/2008 7:45:49 PM

sweetnurseBBW

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Sorry to see you go as I have enjoyed your postings. I hope everything works out for you and all the best.

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RE: Goodbye - 8/20/2008 7:48:32 PM

BitaTruble

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~FR~

Michael, I don't know if you're still going to be reading, but, please drop me a note on the other side before you go so I can get you my phone number if you still want to hook up when Himself and I get to CA next month. If nothing else, we'll be at Folsom and hoping to meet with Merc and Beth for the after Folsom party.

The first time you posted, I never thought I would be saying now .. I'm going to miss you.

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RE: Goodbye - 8/20/2008 7:48:43 PM

NeedingMore220

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Thank you for sharing so much of yourself, and I wish you only the best on your continued journey.

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RE: Goodbye - 8/20/2008 7:57:10 PM

beargonewild

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Sorry to see you leave Michael though I wish you all the best on your journey. Though you and I haven't gotten to know each other fairly well, I still learned much and Thank You.
I'd like to pass this on to you:

May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.

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RE: Goodbye - 8/20/2008 7:58:53 PM

Jeffff

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BE well............

Jeff

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RE: Goodbye - 8/20/2008 8:01:15 PM

lusciouslips19

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You are loved and respected here. I wish you wouldnt go. But if you must, you must. Feel free to come back whenever you can. Thank you for your wisdom and for showing how loving a man can be.

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RE: Goodbye - 8/20/2008 8:01:19 PM

AquaticSub

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Michael,

I didn't get to know you as well as I would have liked to. I hope your road leads you to wonderful places and I hope that we will meet somewhere along the way. If you ever coming through the area, please drop us a line.

Aqua

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RE: Goodbye - 8/20/2008 8:47:29 PM

NuevaVida

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

The first time you posted, I never thought I would be saying now .. I'm going to miss you.

Me too. I truly wish you well.

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RE: Goodbye - 8/20/2008 9:19:27 PM

zumala

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I didn't get to know you well, but I want you to know that I wish you the very best along your life's individual journey. Fare thee well, Michael.

zuma

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RE: Goodbye - 8/20/2008 9:23:46 PM

BRNaughtyAngel

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I hate to see you go Michael. You've given me food for thought so many times, and I am very grateful to you for sharing those sacred and scary parts of yourself with us.

I wish you all the best.

Monica

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RE: Goodbye - 8/20/2008 9:25:25 PM

KCherry

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I always admired you and I hope you are well on your journey from here.

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RE: Goodbye - 8/20/2008 11:12:19 PM

scifi1133

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I have always enjoyed your posts. Be well.

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RE: Goodbye - 8/21/2008 12:59:39 AM

Prinsexx

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I would have advised staying on collarme and sharing your real feelings...
but you might never read this as you are deleting yourself even before reading the responses.
One thing i have learned is that a problem shared is a problem shared.
I wish you well whomever you really are.

< Message edited by Prinsexx -- 8/21/2008 1:01:47 AM >

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RE: Goodbye - 8/21/2008 1:09:52 AM

KMsAngel

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take care michael.

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RE: Goodbye - 8/21/2008 1:12:36 AM

ResidentSadist

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/Good Journey

...peace

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RE: Goodbye - 8/21/2008 1:57:32 AM

stella41b

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I'm really sorry to hear this and I'm really sorry to hear that the relationship didn't work out. I wish you the very best and pray that you both find the happiness, good fortune and healing needed at a time like this.

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RE: Goodbye - 8/21/2008 2:02:34 AM

badlilthang

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good luck on Your journey. You will be missed.

~s~

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RE: Goodbye - 8/21/2008 2:11:53 AM

mistoferin

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Michael,
This is a very sad thread you have started. Over time I have learned so many things about myself through you. I feel like you really are one of the pearls in a sea of shells. I wish you would stay but I also understand the need to follow the path that pulls at you. I just want to thank you for all of the times that you helped, without ever knowing it or being thanked. I hope that you find that place that will bring you peace and light.

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Peace and light,
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