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boym68107 -> name or sir (11/22/2005 3:10:42 PM)

just something to ask .when you met a dom do you call hem sir or call hem by his name....



sub4hire -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 3:15:14 PM)

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when you met a dom do you call hem sir or call hem by his name


I call them by their name until they earn some sort of respect from me.



slavejali -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 3:43:05 PM)

i would take my lead from how im introduced...what the person themselves prefer etc.. i dont have any qualms about calling someone Master or Sir.. i love formalities...i gotta admit too, when someone calls me slave even tho they arent my Master..it does make me perk up and smile and get all those feel goods going *grin*



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 3:56:40 PM)

I call them by their name or the name with which they introduce themselves.

I expect the same.



sweetpettjenny -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 4:36:44 PM)

i use their name until they earn a title of respect



fastlane -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 4:52:22 PM)

ummm..whatever they want to be called, but sometimes "Asshole" seems to rise to the occassion......go figure...Sir?



ameha21 -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 4:53:28 PM)

in privacy i expect to be addressed as sir or master and in public, depending on if im with friends or family, either sir or by name.



krikket -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 6:02:30 PM)

If it's the first meeting or two, and we're in publick, i use their name. If the talks have moved to a more private area where things get more personal i use Sir. i have to admit, however, that it's been so long for me, Sir is no longer as automatic as it used to be. <sigh>

jimini


quote:

ORIGINAL: boym68107

just something to ask .when you met a dom do you call hem sir or call hem by his name....




fyreredsub -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 6:23:43 PM)

de ja vu.........dont we have like 20 pages of this going on somewhere?

usually by their nic on profile. unless another name is given.



girl4you2 -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 7:41:24 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I call them by their name or the name with which they introduce themselves.

I expect the same.

i second that



jamesthehumanrug -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 7:47:18 PM)

dear
boy
greetings,
anyone can ask,
if i met a dom; it was a woman,
and,
i don't sew.
..,if i met a top' man'
i call him master ,or sir,
but,
i get tired and i can slip, and, i might say" massa"..... and, then they might think i'm making fun ,of them...
,that's like: a lesbian can say:"ok,.... that's it:.... HEY, LEZO,!!".... ,
to her lovers' face... (maybe....), but,
no one else can
call the person, that...,
.but, if you're having a' moment'
you can call anyone anything ,without asking, but, i would, just ask:" how MAY I adress you?....
,from ,now ,on?....( is it o.k.?)




nenakajira -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 7:49:58 PM)

Normally I refer to them as 'Master' unless I'm introduced to them in a setting where that isn't appropriate. (Such as when small children are along)

-nena{R}



littleone35 -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 8:10:10 PM)

I call them by their given name unless we have moved on to a more formal address (if we ever do). Then i call a Dom Master, i never got into the habit of calling him Sir.

littleone



AkaMystery -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 9:44:51 PM)

Ineresting timing on this post

I always thought it was so funny when in a channel, chat room or even in IMs being addressed as sir but once you met they suddenly address you by name. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind, I've even let it be known in chats be they one on one or groups that sir was not required. Yet, they still say errrrrr type it.

IMO, go with the name unless this is someone you seriously respect and want to call sir.



imtempting -> RE: name or sir (11/22/2005 10:28:33 PM)

Be their name unless im submitting to them.

I dont even call people sir or ma am online..



smilezz -> RE: name or sir (11/23/2005 4:28:38 AM)

I called Him, Sir. I have posted many times that it was for the most part how i was raised.

I now call Thorns: Master, Sir, Ya Evil Rat Bastid, Evil Man,and sometimes....yes, sometimes i even say: You Evil Fuck!!
Rarely do i call Him by His given name, but there are times for when i have too.

Happy Pre-Turkey Day!

~smilezz~



Tapestry -> RE: name or sir (11/23/2005 4:43:53 AM)

I asked.
He instructed.
I obey.



Rowena -> RE: name or sir (11/23/2005 9:01:16 AM)

well Mistress actually



BeingChewsie -> RE: name or sir (11/23/2005 3:33:43 PM)

I call my owner by his first name. He requires it. I call other people I meet by name. My owner does not like me calling people sir.

Sue



ImpGrrl -> RE: name or sir (11/23/2005 4:32:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: boym68107

just something to ask .when you met a dom do you call hem sir or call hem by his name....


When I meet anyone, I call them by name.

If we enter into an authority transfer relationship with me on the bottom end, I address them however they like. Until then - their name is as formal as I get.



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