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questions to ask when finding a Dom/Domme/Master/Mistress - 8/22/2008 1:03:25 AM   
Switchmenow


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Status: offline 		What are some good questions you would ask when looking for a Dom/Domme/Master/Mistress?

Background information being, you are a switch, own a slave, and are looking for one for both of you.

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RE: questions to ask when finding a Dom/Domme/Master/Mi... - 8/22/2008 1:11:49 AM   
GabrielleSlave


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Status: offline 		Surely this depends on who is asking the questions and what they are after....?  Much too vague sorry...

However, i would want to know their philosophy on punishment, training and overall expectations on how i could be the right slave for them.  It's a whole compatibility thing afterall when two human beings come together. 

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RE: questions to ask when finding a Dom/Domme/Master/Mi... - 8/22/2008 1:21:40 AM   
Owner4SexSlave


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Status: offline 		What are the Qualities and things you are looking for in a partner.  What kind of activities, do you have a similar mindset and views upon BDSM and other aspects of life.  

You are looking for somebody to have a relationship with right?  Just think about everything you want, need and desire in a partner.

Gear your questions towards specific concerns, and things you yourself want to screen for.

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RE: questions to ask when finding a Dom/Domme/Master/Mi... - 8/22/2008 1:25:00 AM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		How about getting to know them as people first rather than interviewing them with prepared questions?

Doms tend to be human the same as everyone else.

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RE: questions to ask when finding a Dom/Domme/Master/Mi... - 8/22/2008 1:53:36 AM   
Owner4SexSlave


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ORIGINAL: stella41b

How about getting to know them as people first rather than interviewing them with prepared questions?

Doms tend to be human the same as everyone else.


This is what impresses me the most with somebody I'm talking with or exchanging emails with.  I want somebody to know me as a person and I want to get to know them as a person as well.

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RE: questions to ask when finding a Dom/Domme/Master/Mi... - 8/22/2008 5:11:30 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Just how much do you want to know before you decide to become their slave? Where is the stopping point?

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