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cuckolding - 8/22/2008 6:42:40 PM

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does a woman enjoy her lover more or get more aroused when her lover humiliates and orders her cuckold around and do they laugh about it later or is the cuckold the furthest thing from their mind when they are together?

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RE: cuckolding - 8/22/2008 8:09:37 PM

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does a woman enjoy her lover more or get more aroused when her lover humiliates and orders her cuckold around and do they laugh about it later or is the cuckold the furthest thing from their mind when they are together?

Hi plslaughatme, welcome to the boards :)
I am having a hard time understanding the question, could you word it a little differently please? I would love to answer it, as I am a huge fan of cuckolding. I just dont understand the question, or my program is skipping words, Im not sure, which is right.

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RE: cuckolding - 8/22/2008 8:50:54 PM

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*wank alert*

I can only speak for myself of course, but when the day comes that I cuckold my slave, my bull will be in submission to me also. But the bull's humiliation will be a secondary, lovely byproduct of the situation. To me the main point of cucking is not even my own sexual gratification, but the extreme humiliation of my slave. Therefore everything will be done in his presence, with him ordered to watch closely (when not blindfolded). Also he will be cleanup boy, and possibly fluff boy to my bull. But since my bull will be in full submission to me also, the bull will be subject to my torture as well. Therefore, for example: if my bull cums inside me without my permission, my slave will watch while the bull is being punished.
Of course if my slave does not perform well enough as cleanup boy (or possibly fluff boy) to my bull, the bull will watch while I punish my slave. I've not done any of this yet but I do dream about it quite a bit so it does stand to reason that it will be in my slaveboy's future, FYI. But in no case would I have my bull or my slave verbally humiliate each other. That privilege will be reserved for Me. ( And believe Me, I will heap it on both of them. Verbal humiliation is so sweet!) The exception would be if I ever allowed my bull to give my slave any instructions on how to be a better cleanup boy, during his use of him. That is possible but I dream of having the bull gagged or just ordered not to speak, while he fucks my slaveboy.
The same goes for the various tortures I might inflict upon them each, while the other is made to watch. In no case would I have one of them punish the other. They each will be in submission only to Me.The inequity would be this: my slave is for the bull to cum inside. When the bull fucks Me I do not wish him to cum inside me, the great majority of the time. When I do wish it, I will order it but apart from that he is to cum in My slave's mouth or ass... And as for My slave; he is never to cum inside my bull of course. To the contrary: I might only allow him to orgasm while being penitrated by the bull. I love that idea. That may be the only time My slave is let out of chastity, during the whole experience. I may allow him to jack off, or I might suck him off, while the bull fucks his ass. Or let him jack off, or cum in my mouth while the bull deep-throats him.
When either boy's penis is not specifically in use, it will be locked in a steel chastity cage. But I digress...
OP, to finish answering your question: My concept of the bull is that he's merely a tool, an object I will use to humiliate My slave. Of course, what a lovely way to humiliate and objectify the bull too, huh? Yummy...

My apologies if I've jacked your thread, but I hope I've answered your questions. Anyone who wants to know more is encouraged to perv both pages of my journal.

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RE: cuckolding - 8/22/2008 9:31:14 PM

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does a woman enjoy her lover more or get more aroused when her lover humiliates and orders her cuckold around and do they laugh about it later or is the cuckold the furthest thing from their mind when they are together?

That is going to vary from female to female who is into it.

I'm not into it (I just don'thave it in me to cause distress to a person I cared about and I don't care to used for a free show- he can go rent a porno.. the cheap bastard!).. but if I were, I'd be more inclined to not be watched by the cuckhold or even have him listening. The torture of him not knowing exactly what is going on would be the thrill.

< Message edited by LotusSong -- 8/22/2008 9:33:57 PM >

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RE: cuckolding - 8/22/2008 9:47:48 PM

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Cuckolding doesn't do anything for me in the first place. Sorry, OP.

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RE: cuckolding - 8/23/2008 3:09:31 AM

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as submissive whos been cuckholded in the past . Jve never seen where the Bull / Dom has been under the power of a Mistress that is something ive never seen or much less heard others talk about . are there realy bulls who whould go thru cucking with a Mistress in contorl of both of them ? i fully understand the cuck being order and Dominated by both a Mistress and the Dom / Bull . and i my have had other twist too my cuckholding...

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RE: cuckolding - 8/23/2008 3:18:10 AM

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Cuckolding is a lot like forced bi for me. It's something that has always been part of my fantasies, and something when I read about in erotica I find VERY exciting, but I know in real life it would be a terrible idea for me. Regardless of the nature of my relationship, anything I'm involved in would have to be monogomous. Though the idea of going down on my Princess's lover sounds sexy, inviting another person into the mix would end it for me.

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RE: cuckolding - 8/23/2008 1:20:39 PM

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Well as I say, I haven't done it yet. But I just would not cuckold my slave unless with another submissive who accedes to my control. That's why I'm the Domme.

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RE: cuckolding - 9/1/2008 7:45:33 PM

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That's alot like what I am going thru right now.

It SOUNDS like a great idea to be cuckolded, and is great fantasy material. Truthfully, I am scared to death of it.

I trust my Domme completely...its her future lover that I can't trust.

The only reason it has come up...is that I am not overly endowed and she wants to be filled with something other than a huge vibe or dildo.

More on this later...

zam ...ty for letting me vent.

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Cuckolding is a lot like forced bi for me. It's something that has always been part of my fantasies, and something when I read about in erotica I find VERY exciting, but I know in real life it would be a terrible idea for me. Regardless of the nature of my relationship, anything I'm involved in would have to be monogomous. Though the idea of going down on my Princess's lover sounds sexy, inviting another person into the mix would end it for me.

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