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wellclad -> outing (8/23/2008 3:33:42 PM)
I was recently asked if I would do an outing with a domme. I am a straight bottom male. Before responding I thought I wold ask what types of activities in public areas can be anticipated in a daytime city setting. I hope someone reading this has had experience and can give me a general idea. Thanks, Welly

Pyrrsefanie -> RE: outing (8/23/2008 3:35:30 PM)
I smell a request for wankage. OP, it's going to be up to your Domme and whatever kinds of things she likes. If she's just asking to go out and meet you then don't expect kink on the first "date."

AAkasha -> RE: outing (8/23/2008 3:59:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wellclad I was recently asked if I would do an outing with a domme. I am a straight bottom male. Before responding I thought I wold ask what types of activities in public areas can be anticipated in a daytime city setting. I hope someone reading this has had experience and can give me a general idea. Thanks, Welly Maybe she just wants to have lunch and see if there's any chemistry? Don't assume anything. Akasha

Alixandria -> RE: outing (8/23/2008 6:06:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wellclad I was recently asked if I would do an outing with a domme. I am a straight bottom male. Before responding I thought I wold ask what types of activities in public areas can be anticipated in a daytime city setting. I hope someone reading this has had experience and can give me a general idea. Thanks, Welly Hmm. Let's see. Drinking coffee in a coffee house. Having a glass of wine in a bistro. Going for a movie. Perhaps a walk in the park. But most importantly, checking out if you have the social skills to be with a woman without making a total nuisance of yourself. And perhaps inspiring her with the wish to see you again (or not). Alix

chamberqueen -> RE: outing (8/23/2008 6:29:10 PM)
Maybe she wants you to carry her bags as she goes shopping. : ) Really, it could be anything her heart desires.

UmbraDomina -> RE: outing (8/24/2008 11:58:06 AM)
try asking her what she expects from you, so you know...... duhhhhhhh none of us have the ablity to crawl inside her mind and tell you. Alexandra ~

lateralist1 -> RE: outing (8/25/2008 11:32:25 AM)
If a sub asks me what I expect at our first meeting I always answer just be yourself. I prefer to be asked out rather than do the asking but I usually end up arranging things to suit both of us because people are often too selfish or too selfless. But then as your a bottom I wouldn't be meeting you as I am only interested in meeting the right submissive male. Oh and some people meet people just because they fancy an outing. Or a one off play session. If I wanted that I would make it quite clear. There are people who don't turn up to meetings just because they get a better offer or change their minds and they don't think it's important enough to let the other person know.

thishereboi -> RE: outing (8/25/2008 1:49:06 PM)
Oh you can do lots of things in a public setting... You can go out to lunch go to the park and feed the birds go bike riding go to a movie Just use your imagination, you'll be fine,

pixelslave -> RE: outing (8/25/2008 3:37:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wellclad I was recently asked if I would do an outing with a domme. I am a straight bottom male. Before responding I thought I wold ask what types of activities in public areas can be anticipated in a daytime city setting. I hope someone reading this has had experience and can give me a general idea. Thanks, Welly You seem to be making a lot of assumptions. Rather than doing that, why not just ask her what she has in mind or would like to do? It really doesn't have to be any more difficult than you decide to make it. [&:] - pixel

igor2003 -> RE: outing (8/25/2008 4:06:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wellclad I was recently asked if I would do an outing with a domme. I am a straight bottom male. Before responding I thought I wold ask what types of activities in public areas can be anticipated in a daytime city setting. I hope someone reading this has had experience and can give me a general idea. Thanks, Welly You need to clarify what it is that you are asking, I think. It seems that most of the people here read your question differently than I did. The way you wrote "do an outing" made me think that she was wanting to "out you" in public, or in other words let the world know that you are a submissive. If you had said "go on an outing" it could mean almost anything from meeting for coffee to going on a picnic, to who knows what? As others have said, though, the best bet is simply to ask her what she has in mind.

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