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Seeking Training - 8/23/2008 8:24:20 PM   
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Hi. This is my first time posting in the forums. I thought it would be a good place to get advice. My name is Faye. I am a young crossdresser exiting her teens. Very interested in feminization, being dressed by Mistress, and being transformed into a young woman. I would like to be taught how to walk properly in high heels, how to dress sexily for a man, how to apply make-up seductively, and how to please a man orally and sexually.

My fetishes include Leather, Latex, Rubber, Knee High and Thigh High Boots. I have also have a fascination for leather and latex bondage. Ballgags, Bit-gags, Spreader Bars and restraints.

If there are any Women or Mistresses who know where I should turn to, please let me know here. Thankyou! xxx
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RE: Seeking Training - 8/23/2008 8:39:31 PM   
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I'd recommend this book:  http://www.amazon.com/Miss-Veras-Cross-Dress-Success-Resource/dp/0812991958/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1219548974&sr=8-1

I absolutely love it!  It's about time crossdressing got the style treatment... it should help with at least some of your questions.

As far as walking in high heels, I find that balancing your weight on the balls of your feet as opposed to the heel make it a LOT easier.  Kitten heels are also a lot simpler than pumps to start off with, as well as more comfortable.




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RE: Seeking Training - 8/23/2008 9:15:56 PM   
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Thanks Pyrrsefanie. I will definitely check out the book. I wasn't sure if you are supposed to balance your feet at the heel, and take strides, or balance near the toes and take small steps?

I'm also interested in different types of heel, and the different messages a type of heel can give off. I would like to hear more replies if anyone is reading. Thankyou!

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RE: Seeking Training - 8/23/2008 9:33:01 PM   
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I wasn't sure if you are supposed to balance your feet at the heel, and take strides, or balance near the toes and take small steps?


Small steps are best -- long strides with weight on the heel can snap some of the thinner heels and lead to you falling on your arse!  Just remember that you're in no rush to get where you're walking to in heels.  Stand up tall and let them get a good look while you walk past.  Of course you shouldn't be going completely at a snail's pace, either.  As you get more used to wearing heels you'll eventually be able to take longer strides, or do the Charlie's Angel run.

As far as the different types of heels, you have kitten heels which tend to be lower (probably about an inch) but are the same width as a regular pair of pumps, though they're set further in on the heel of the shoe rather than dropping down from the back.  I find they tend to distribute the weight a lot better and are ideal for running errands or going about town.  They're cute and flirty, yet practical.

Stilettos are the super-skinny heels that are about the width of a pencil.  A cheap pair can snap on you, though, so be careful -- they're also a bit more difficult to balance in.  I refer to these as "fuck-me shoes" since they've got a really seductive look to them. 

Of course you've also got your regular pump-style heels which are your classic femme look, and the big super-chunky heels which... meh, I don't really care for.  They look too clunky in most cases, so really use your judgement.  You don't want to look like you're wearing Frankenstein's boots!

When figuring out the exact height of a pair of heels take into consideration whether or not there's any kind of "platform" under the toe area.  For example, I have a cute pair that are listed as a four-inch heel, but there's about an inch's worth of sole underneath the toes, serving as a platform.  Therefore subtract that inch from the total height of four inches and you're actually only walking in three inches.

Some heels can be uncomfortable and have pressure points which will cause painful blisters.  You can combat this by getting some of the moleskin pads that they sell at drug stores and hiding them inside the shoe on those pressure-causing areas.  The worst areas I've found are at the back of the heel right over the Achilles' tendon and over my pinky toe, so that's typically where I put the moleskin pads on mine.  It may vary based on your foot structure, though.

God, I should not know so much about shoes. 


< Message edited by Pyrrsefanie -- 8/23/2008 9:34:40 PM >


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RE: Seeking Training - 8/23/2008 10:01:23 PM   
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Thankyou Pyrrse

That sure is a lot to take in, but I think I'll be able to digest it. I've never worn a pair of heels yet, but I am very interested in doing so. I've always liked the idea of looking very ditzy in a pair of high heels; Trying to run in them but only being able to take short quick steps, flailing my arms and my hand bag around as If I'm late for an appointent.

I also have quite the fetish for a nice pair of boots, (We're talking Knee High here) but so far I have only taken a sexual interest to trashy Fuck-Me Boots. I would love to be able to wear a nice pair and pull off a nice cute and flirty outfit. I have heard Suede is a much nicer material than Leather (Although I can't help but want a leather pair. I'm thinking brown.)

Could you help me out with what boots might suit me also? Thankyou Pyrrsefanie! : )

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RE: Seeking Training - 8/23/2008 10:12:30 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Effeminate

I also have quite the fetish for a nice pair of boots, (We're talking Knee High here) but so far I have only taken a sexual interest to trashy Fuck-Me Boots. I would love to be able to wear a nice pair and pull off a nice cute and flirty outfit. I have heard Suede is a much nicer material than Leather (Although I can't help but want a leather pair. I'm thinking brown.)

Could you help me out with what boots might suit me also? Thankyou Pyrrsefanie! : )



Suede looks really nice, but if you get it wet or muddy or anything like that you're kind of screwed.  Appearancewise though, ohhh yeah, a nice pair of suede boots can be super-sexy!

Knee-high is always my favorite length.  I'm a fan of pointed toes and thin heels, but of course those are also some of the most painful to wear... the problem with knee-high is that if you have thicker legs, you may have a problem getting them to zip up, in which case you'd need to check out plus-size stores or, as someone suggested on another thread, a couple inches of elasticity can be added by a shoemaker with an extra panel.

Two shoe places I've had great luck with are http://www.electriqueboutique.com and http://www.pierresilber.com as both stock shoes in higher women's sizes.  I forget the exact sizing chart for women's to men's but my boy wears a size 15 women's and I think he's a size 12 or 13 men's.

Edited to add:  Leather stores like Wilson's usually sell a moisture-sealant for leather/suede goods that you just spray on.  Depending on the boots you buy, you may need to do something like this to stop them from falling apart in the rain or snow.


< Message edited by Pyrrsefanie -- 8/23/2008 10:13:43 PM >


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Ти артистична в неволі,
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Ти синтетична до болю

Read my series, Taking Jessica, on http://www.akashaweb.com !

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RE: Seeking Training - 8/24/2008 2:59:34 AM   
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Ok. Thankyou for the links and the adivce. I will see what I can find there. : )

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