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cruisin4bruisin -> How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 11:22:16 AM)
Hi, I've been on the search to find a slave for the longest and still haven't found any? Is there a special way to approach a slave or a place to pick them up. Cheers

Lynnxz -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 11:26:22 AM)
A place to pick them up.... what like a certain streetcorner? You do realize when it boils down to it, you are trying to attract a person for a relationship. Start with that, then worry about trying to master someone.

thishereboi -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 11:31:52 AM)
Try finding real life munches and events. Volunteer to help at said events and you will meet people. Take it from there.

katie978 -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 12:04:05 PM)
Having a profile will help you a lot when picking up a slave. How can you expect to find what you're looking for when you can't even put the thought into writing a sentence about the kind of man you are or the kind of woman you're looking for. Also, personally, I'd be wary of a switch looking for a slave. To me, it either means that: a) he'll want me to dom sometimes (which I'm not keen on doing) b) he'll want to play with others (which ain't happening) c) there's something I can't give him (a bad start to a relationship) d) he's in this for sex (not my thing). Also, be warned, there are considerably more men than women in the lifestyle. It's going to be relatively difficult to find a girl, and it's going to take time. Be patient, write a thoughtful profile, and suss out what you're looking for. or e) he doesn't know what he wants (in which case, not interested).

RedMagic1 -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 12:58:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: katie978 Also, be warned, there are considerably more men than women in the lifestyle. I'm not certain this is true. There are certainly far more men than women registered on web sites like CollarMe, but doing this real time? I've never counted, but aren't more than half the message board posters female, mostly female submissives? Also, I haven't seen a dramatic imbalance between the sexes at the events I've been to. Once you delete the horny net geeeks, there might be more female subs than male doms. And the same goes for there being more female doms than male subs. People talk about female dominants being such a rarity. I just don't see it. I have female dom friends who bemoan the fact that their inboxes attract nothing but ickiness. Any man who is honest and believes in treating a woman like a real person -- instead of a fetishistic blowup doll -- has a good chance to attract quality partners.

Priaxis -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 1:59:03 PM)
Okay, I've been in a Dominant relationship with most of the women I've known in the last decade. If they weren't subs they were when I was done. And, I understand the profile needs re-writing and it is trying to meet someone so there's all the amenities and social skills required for that. But there's no response to enquiries here. I know,from friends that women are inundated with requests and I'm not sure being here will allow me to be found among the masses of people out there looking. I'm in a position to have a pet, slave fucktoy etc and know that she's whatever I tell her she is. I treat her well, and have past toys still wanting me. I want one that I want and I haven't found her yet. Perhaps I need to turn it over to the professinals and pay a finders fee?

DarkSteven -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 2:09:23 PM)
Priaxis, I'm confused. Are you the same person as OP?

DesFIP -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 2:23:03 PM)
Be the kind of person that the kind of woman you want would be interested in. Don't give your word unless you can keep it, once having given it do keep it come hell or high water. Be respectful. Be on time. Be interested in her as a person. Share her interests, care about her well being. Be able to model those behaviors you want her to have. Expecting her to keep your place spotless when you throw dirty clothes everywhere won't get what you want.

MamaDomme1 -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 2:23:13 PM)
~~FR~~ I find 'em at the local Slave Market, of course.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 2:25:17 PM)
(Yellow Pages?)

angelspassion4u -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 3:54:33 PM)
*slave R us or maybe McSlaves ( over a billion served )*

IrishMist -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 4:00:58 PM)
Wal-mart has a special every second Sunday from 9am to noon.

Jeffff -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 4:07:18 PM)
Yeah but most of those slaves are made in China..................... lead based paint and all Jeff

beargonewild -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 4:15:32 PM)
Yep, vewy vewy cawefully. It's like hunting wabbits, unique on them and BAMM you got one! - Bear, purveyor of high quality slaves since 1982-

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 4:18:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cruisin4bruisin Is there a special way to approach a slave or a place to pick them up. Make sure you stick your hand out so they can sniff you first or you could get bitten. [sm=bite.gif] And when you pick them up, place your hands underneath their belly and chest, and cradle them close so they feel secure. Oh wait, that's a puppy............ nevermind. [sm=sad.gif]

Quivver -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 4:19:06 PM)
I had a smart assed comment when I thought, make yourself irritable .. then I realized that is actually good advise.

purelea2003 -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 4:23:23 PM)
I've often wondered why they don't just sell them here. Heck I'd even pay extra for speed delivery service.

MamaDomme1 -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 4:24:50 PM)
Quivver, don't ya just hate it when the snarks backfire and are actually good? lol-- I know I do!

angelspassion4u -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 4:27:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Quivver I had a smart assed comment when I thought, make yourself irritable .. then I realized that is actually good advise. *Do you mean irresistible if not.....I not sure what you meant by irritable do you mean as in grumpy? Sorry just curious.*

KyttynTheMynx -> RE: How do you find a Slave? (8/24/2008 4:33:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cruisin4bruisin Hi, I've been on the search to find a slave for the longest and still haven't found any? Is there a special way to approach a slave or a place to pick them up. Cheers The newer models have a lojack style device implanted into their left thighs. Ya just gotta know a guy who can get you a detector...

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