What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual

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pompeii -> What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 1:57:28 PM)
What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual to you? For me, I'm trying to figure out why it's so exciting to me, that I almost always unwillingly cum very soon thereafter, after I rather roughly thrust my hands in a sub's mouth, grasping her chin and lower jaw in my forefingers, and moving her head to my beat. Thinking about the "why", I suspect there's the semblance of "penetration" perhaps, or the control of the face, or??? what? I don't know. Is it just me or do others find controlling someone's inner mouth, tongue, lips, cheeks, jaw, etc., is a turn on like no other? Or am I just weird? It would be nice to know how you feel about fingers controlling a warm hot mouth in the BDSM D/s sense.

GreedyTop -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 2:04:31 PM)
I've been with guys who have done that to me.. so you are not alone in your enjoyment of it (although, personally I hate it, and these days WILL bite if it's done to me)

DesFIP -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 2:06:15 PM)
Just watch out for the gag reflex please. I don't know why his fingers in my mouth makes me gag so badly but I'm always instinctively trying to pull back just a bit.

MamaDomme1 -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 2:15:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop I've been with guys who have done that to me.. so you are not alone in your enjoyment of it (although, personally I hate it, and these days WILL bite if it's done to me) I echo you completely!

lostkitten2 -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 2:22:33 PM)
I watched the movie Sade (about the Marquis de Sade) and he did it too. It was even hot as hell to watch. Well, it was the hottest thing in the movie. I think it is having so much control. If you control the head, the body follows, or falls over. Some people like to be that dominated. Some don't. It's also an invasion of a very personal space, most people don't have oral invasions other than at the dentist or for bjs. For me, it's hot, and offensive, which is why it's hot.

everhope -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 2:23:54 PM)
controlled. fingers or cock...either one in my mouth makes this cunt wet.

christine1 -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 2:24:14 PM)
i happen to love this, but i'm pretty good with almost anything being forced into my mouth....that wierd oral fetish i have and all. i think it comes down to feeling controlled and helpless, even of what is in my mouth. if he wants his hand in my mouth, then that's where it goes. okay, off for a cold shower now.

Prinsexx -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 2:46:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pompeii What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual to you? For me, I'm trying to figure out why it's so exciting to me, that I almost always unwillingly cum very soon thereafter, after I rather roughly thrust my hands in a sub's mouth, grasping her chin and lower jaw in my forefingers, and moving her head to my beat. Thinking about the "why", I suspect there's the semblance of "penetration" perhaps, or the control of the face, or??? what? I don't know. Is it just me or do others find controlling someone's inner mouth, tongue, lips, cheeks, jaw, etc., is a turn on like no other? Or am I just weird? It would be nice to know how you feel about fingers controlling a warm hot mouth in the BDSM D/s sense. i can only speak from the other side and say: yep an amazing turn on having Him open my mouth and putting His fingers inside my mouth....kneeling at home or out at a cafe in public....leaves me speechless......[:D]

angelslave77 -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 3:57:53 PM)
I love it to, I think it is a control thing, a fairly simple gesture that reminds me of my place and that I am his to do with as he wishes

angelspassion4u -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 4:03:29 PM)
As a sub I love sucking on his fingers while he is behind me "doggie style" big turn on. Fingers from one hand in my mouth and his other hand pulling my hair. I also like when cuddling with him on the couch watching T.V. just grabbing his hand and slowly suck on his fingers one by one. Well I use to love to do these things lol kind of hard now when you don't have anyone lol.

Jeffff -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 4:15:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop I've been with guys who have done that to me.. so you are not alone in your enjoyment of it (although, personally I hate it, and these days WILL bite if it's done to me) Makes a mental note of this Jeff

subsong -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 4:29:02 PM)
Oooh - one of my very favorite things ! And it can be done just about anywhere ! Discreetly , or not quite so - out in public . Or ever so slow and sensual , when in private . For me , it's a combination of me needing to cooperate and be receptive - along with the invasive quality of it , which just oozes control and power from the one making the invasion . It's your mouth afterall - such a warm , wet, private place .... Gets my absolute complete attention - it does . Instantly . Drool ! [:)]

offeredup -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 4:29:04 PM)
When my owner puts her fingers into my mouth, i experience it as this as total, intrusive, humiliating, intimate, total loss of control to her. There is absolutely nothing i can do but take it. i must open wide and make a soft palate and throat so as not to gag, and i must let her control my breathing when her fingers go deep, just same way as it would be if she where "deep throating" me with a dildo or a bull. A big difference, for her, however, is that she can feel my submission with her sensitive fingers and use this as a test and a means to deepen it at will. She can play with it, probing in and out for as long as she wants, keeping me in sub-space for what may seem like hours. The mouth and the hand are the first and second most sensitive organs in our bodies -- with more nerve endings than sexual organs -- so both Owner and slave respectively, get an incredible sensual experience out of it, not to mention the humiliation factor, which is profound. After all , as a slave being penetrated this way, i am made utterly helpless and vulnerable, in private or in public, but in public there is the exposure to the curiosity and prurience of others to my mouth-fucking in a way that safely skirts any potential prosecution for lewd acts -- even though, frankly, it feels lewd as hell.. LOL.

HagiaSophia -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 4:31:08 PM)
Mmm... It's one of my favorite pleasures with the boy I'm playing with now. I love the way he parts his lips and looks up at me with trusting eyes, waiting for me to slide my fingers into his mouth. And he has such a sweet, wet mouth, unbelievably soft lips, all of it delicate and vulnerable. We're working on his gag reflex. For me it's part sensuousness and part implied threat.

silkncarol -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 4:37:09 PM)
What she said!! BIG turn on.....His fingers in my mouth, moving my head....sucking and licking his fingers.... OH MY! <fanning myself> quote: ORIGINAL: angelspassion4u As a sub I love sucking on his fingers while he is behind me "doggie style" big turn on. Fingers from one hand in my mouth and his other hand pulling my hair. I also like when cuddling with him on the couch watching T.V. just grabbing his hand and slowly suck on his fingers one by one. Well I use to love to do these things lol kind of hard now when you don't have anyone lol.

abcbsex -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/24/2008 10:02:28 PM)
I have to say that I have the best orgasms from Alpha doing that to me while we have sex!

proudsub -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/25/2008 12:02:14 AM)
My first dom did this and i loved it. It was like putting a bit in a horse's mouth, i knew he had just taken control over me.

MistressRouge -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/25/2008 1:12:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: offeredup When my owner puts her fingers into my mouth, i experience it as this as total, intrusive, humiliating, intimate, total loss of control to her. There is absolutely nothing i can do but take it. i must open wide and make a soft palate and throat so as not to gag, and i must let her control my breathing when her fingers go deep, just same way as it would be if she where "deep throating" me with a dildo or a bull. A big difference, for her, however, is that she can feel my submission with her sensitive fingers and use this as a test and a means to deepen it at will. She can play with it, probing in and out for as long as she wants, keeping me in sub-space for what may seem like hours. The mouth and the hand are the first and second most sensitive organs in our bodies -- with more nerve endings than sexual organs -- so both Owner and slave respectively, get an incredible sensual experience out of it, not to mention the humiliation factor, which is profound. After all , as a slave being penetrated this way, i am made utterly helpless and vulnerable, in private or in public, but in public there is the exposure to the curiosity and prurience of others to my mouth-fucking in a way that safely skirts any potential prosecution for lewd acts -- even though, frankly, it feels lewd as hell.. LOL. What a wonderful expression [:)]

MistressRouge -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/25/2008 1:20:01 AM)
To me invading an oriface, is stimulating sexually to me also. The mouth, the drool, saliva heightens it, the more the better lol. The gag reflex is also great to play with, which also can be trained regarding deepthroat training. The gentle probing and stretching of the cheeks, distorting the facial features/expression also adds a hint of humiliation. Gags are ok, but a few fingers, or an open palm is much more personal and intimate. I also enjoy having my hands in contact with a sub's face, adminstering jaw grabbing, gentle face slapping, and probing with my fingers or leather gloved digits, is very satisfying to me [:D]

tammystarm -> RE: What is it about placing fingers in a sub's willing mouth that is so very sensual (8/25/2008 4:45:06 AM)
i agree its an amazing feeling when His hands are in my mouth. Dr Ruth would say to a woman to always keep her mouth open during sex, larger orgasim. there is that certain path from the mouth to all parts of the body.

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