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Coreyx -> How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 2:42:20 PM)

I find I mostly squirm and cry but maybe that’s just me.   Are there any Sub/Slaves who actually enjoy being punished?   Mwah xx




DesFIP -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 2:44:46 PM)

Depends if it's meant as punishment or pleasure (his or mine). One that is supposed to be a punishment will devastate me. One that's just for fun is easier to handle. But he enjoys me squirming and whimpering. And if he wants me to enjoy it then he makes them lighter and plays with me as well.

Are you talking about very painful experiences, and does your top want you to be still or not?




maat -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 2:56:43 PM)

I hate beeing punished becuse that meens i did something that called for me to be punished = not a good thing. Now a spanking can be fun play, it can be painfull, it can be punishment, It can be all kinds of things so it depends on the context.




peppermint -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 3:20:45 PM)

In our household spankings are pleasure.  Punishment is taking my books away so i can't read.  Punishment is NOT supposed to be enjoyed. 




stef -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 3:23:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Coreyx

Are there any Sub/Slaves who actually enjoy being punished?

If you're enjoying it, it's not punishment, it's play.

~stef




Quivver -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 4:23:27 PM)

All depends on why ...
Spankings supposed to be fun isnt it?? 




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 4:51:01 PM)

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harder

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KatyLied -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 5:07:47 PM)

quote:

Are there any Sub/Slaves who actually enjoy being punished?


Um no.
If punishment is done correctly it shouldn't be enjoyable.




lizcgirl -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 5:26:27 PM)

If I'm being punished I am not allowed to move or pull away and after each spank I have to say 'thank you Sir, may I have another', which is harder than actually taking my licks so to speak. Do I enjoy the punishment? No, not at all. If it's punishment, they're hard spanks, sometimes with something other than my Master's hand like a paddle or a riding crop. But at the same time, He'll come up to me at random times and spank me, or while we're having sex He'll spank me. Those spanks are just HOTTTTT, they're not as hard as punishment, and He always has that evil little glint in His eyes when He does it..... yummmmm




silkncarol -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 5:47:51 PM)

I absolutely hate being punished...rarely have been.....and never by anything that was or had been incorporated into play time.  I think i punish myself far worse than my Dominant could....The look, the lecture, the discussion and perhaps being ignored for awhile....just knowing i've disappointed. that gets to me.... 


quote:

ORIGINAL: Coreyx

I find I mostly squirm and cry but maybe that’s just me.   Are there any Sub/Slaves who actually enjoy being punished?   Mwah xx




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 6:21:04 PM)

spanking as a punishment?   lol - i would enjoy it too much to think of it as a punishment

but that's just me and how i view love taps (spankings)




Sandyshores29718 -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 7:22:47 PM)

*fast reply* 
I've never been punished. I love spankings though. I like the somewhat heavy ones and then the really heavy ones allow me to release all the emotions I have built up. So, i cry/wimper/moan/sometimes cuss. It really depends.




littlewonder -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 7:29:54 PM)

If I'm enjoying it then it isn't a punishment.

I react differently to a spanking depending on how hard he's hitting and why.

If he's hitting me hard as a punishment then I'm not enjoying it at all. It just hurts!..physically and mentally. Nothing at all pleasurable about it.

If he's hitting me hard and I'm in a masochistic streak then I'm enjoying the endorphin rush.

If he's spanking me in a sensual manner then I'm enjoying the moment of tenderness and eroticism from him.





softpjOS -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 7:58:21 PM)

i tend to giggle and that wouldn't be a good thing if being punished. 
 
Mistress doesn't use spanking as punishment, She has much worse things and i tend to avoid them at all costs. 




kittengirl8 -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/24/2008 8:02:46 PM)

Oh my goodness, peppermint. If I'm in a serious relationship at some point in time, never EVER mention it again. I have a feeling that's the sort of punishment that shall be inflicted on me.

Doms can be kind of evil that way.




OsideGirl -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/25/2008 7:45:33 AM)

Spanking isn't punishment in our house.




littleone35 -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/25/2008 8:01:18 AM)

I have been punished only once and never again want to experience a punishment spanking.  It was painful and not at all enjoyable.  When Master gives me a sensual play spanking i might jump a little, but mentally the submission part gets to me and my body responds accordingly .  It is not pain it is the submission.

Matt's littleone




phoenix92901 -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/25/2008 8:12:36 AM)

Spankings are never pleasurable for me.  Perhaps that's because I was physically abused as a child and spankings were hardly ever delivered with a bare hand.
 
My Sir hasn't punished me but knows that there are so many other things he could do in place of "corporal punishment" to show his displeasure with me. 
 
My ex-husband deemed himself a dominant towards the end of our marriage.  One time I questioned whether he was in touch with a mistress that he swore was no longer in his life.  His response was to deliver a harsh, very angry spanking that left me in tears and feeling very humiliated.  I didn't cry out because I didn't want our children to hear.  What made it worse was that I was right and he was in touch with that woman... in fact he moved in with her shortly after.  That was the very last time I was spanked
 
I realize that my marriage was an abusive relationship as well but I don't think I could ever view spanking as enjoyable.




Usako -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/25/2008 8:17:35 AM)

Never been spanked as a punishment. It's always been enjoyable (minus the times I didn't like the person doing the action) and I usually yelp and wriggle about.




servantheart -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/27/2008 3:59:14 PM)

I hate being punished because it means I failed at pleasing Master.  Physically, I do not enjoy pain but can usually remain still and in position.  The exception would be if Sir decided to use any implement that "thuds" more than stings.  That type of pain makes me angry and I tend to lash out.




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