Arastella -> RE: The ability to let that which does not matter truly slide (8/26/2008 9:43:37 PM)
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I think he is explaining that from the time of our youth, we are taught to believe what those older, "wiser", tell us. Not to doubt, not to delve into something not shown to us. And that, what we really need to remember is not to let the words of those who shun us affect us, not to doubt our desires, that which gives us pleasure, but to open our arms to it. Embrace it. A LARGE number of us involved in the "lifestyle" have gone through some pretty rough experiences in our time, and some have pushed BDSM out of their lives, because either they were hurt, or shunned because of it. The key is not to give up on that which makes us happy, gives us pleasure, fullfills us. I'm a big reader so I get into long posts all the time.
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