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MistressJadeSTL -> Seeking Training (8/25/2008 6:10:19 PM)

Greetings,

I am seeking someone who is willing to assist me in learning to become a Domne.  My current boyfriend wants me to Domne him and cockold him and I am unexperienced in this.  If you are willing I would be happy to meet in real life or discuss over the internet.

Thank you,
Jade



Pyrrsefanie -> RE: Seeking Training (8/26/2008 2:18:48 PM)

I'm going to say the same thing I always do in these kinds of posts:

Fuck what he wants, do YOU want it?  The first step to domination is doing what you want to do, not trying to fulfill a fantasy of his.  Otherwise you're just being topped from the bottom, i.e. he's "submissive" but calling all of the shots as to what you decide to do to him.



MizSexyVixen -> RE: Seeking Training (8/26/2008 2:22:02 PM)

I offer the type of training you seek. However, I agree, if you do not feel this is something that will "float your boat" why bother?

That he wants it does not mean you can provide it.






ElanSubdued -> RE: Seeking Training (8/26/2008 6:06:49 PM)

MistressJadeSTL,

wickedgame916 asked a similar question and I replied to her by posting my own thread.  Some of these thoughts may be applicable to your situation too.  You can find my thread here:

Advice for New Dommes
http://www.collarchat.com/m_2094679/tm.htm

Hope this helps,

Elan.



LookieNoNookie -> RE: Seeking Training (8/26/2008 7:21:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressJadeSTL

Greetings,

I am seeking someone who is willing to assist me in learning to become a Domne.  My current boyfriend wants me to Domne him and cockold him and I am unexperienced in this.  If you are willing I would be happy to meet in real life or discuss over the internet.

Thank you,
Jade


("Cuckold")



MISTRESSKUMA -> RE: Seeking Training (8/26/2008 9:06:45 PM)

Hi, seeker!! If you want to dominant your partner beyond the bedroom, and not just cater to and service his kink (a top), ya may want to check this out:

http://www.jzara.com/start.htm
http://femaleauthority.blogspot.com/2008/01/slave-to-dollar.html - Wife led marriages.

But if all you care about his servicing his needs in the bedroom, you can do a search on "topping" ideas right here in collarme where many are tops and bottoms and write about ideas. Find out what you both like. If he wants to be served in the bedroom and "play" submissive when the lights go out, you can learn fun topping games to play.



MISTRESSKUMA -> RE: Seeking Training (8/27/2008 9:02:47 AM)

Hi, I just want to add for you this: http://www.asia.si.edu/devi/whoisdevi.htm: and also, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SanctuaryofFemaleSupremacy/.




It focuses on bringing out the Goddess in you!!!!!!

And manifesting your Female powers in the world and in your relationship with men.

It promotes labor and obedience training of men in addition to the liberation of men from egoism, narcissism and "paranoid trappings of patriarchy".



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But you might not want service and worship to this level and I can help you gain some kinky Top Servicing ideas by pointing you to the way of here..... http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdlinks.html

Thanks!!!

quote:

ORIGINAL: MISTRESSKUMA

Hi, seeker!! If you want to dominant your partner beyond the bedroom, and not just cater to and service his kink (a top), ya may want to check this out:

http://www.jzara.com/start.htm
http://femaleauthority.blogspot.com/2008/01/slave-to-dollar.html - Wife led marriages.

But if all you care about his servicing his needs in the bedroom, you can do a search on "topping" ideas right here in collarme where many are tops and bottoms and write about ideas. Find out what you both like. If he wants to be served in the bedroom and "play" submissive when the lights go out, you can learn fun topping games to play.



hisgirl2011 -> RE: Seeking Training (9/1/2008 5:52:48 PM)

There are many rope techniques I can give you links to that master uses. Pls. e-mail me.



Pyrrsefanie -> RE: Seeking Training (9/2/2008 8:32:06 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MISTRESSKUMA
And manifesting your Female powers in the world and in your relationship with men.


WHOA!  I get powers?  Fucking sweet, I'm like Wolverine with a vagina!



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