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hopelessfool -> RE: Mentoring... (8/28/2008 6:57:44 AM)
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Pers, I know full well Im accountable for my actions, and that making a bad decision like mentorship with a user, is my choice, but they are also in the wrong for starting with people who arent quite so sure about grasping concepts.
i equate it to someone just moving to a country and not knowing the language, They are in no way stupid, or anything else but they do need some help, I commend the person down the street offering directions to a hotel or such other wise helping them transition. I score the one that says you must do x for me, Its the "such and such" way, and thats how I see mentorship with men who dont want a commitment, but stimply to play and call it mentorship.
Sure Its not like learnign a new language in most cases, but i remember when i first started out legally, and could go to the toy store, and I could finally play, It was so exciting and rushful and I wanted everything at once, I learned restraint quickly, but some take more time, they need to make the mistakes yes, and its their choice yes. But in many cases they are swayed and lured by pretty and shiney, and get hurt.
Would I mock someone going poor me I was in a mentorship and he used me and now I have "xyz" most probably would, but still even though they messed up doesnt mean the mentor didnt either.
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