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akisha -> RE: Aesthetics of a Master (9/2/2008 1:18:02 PM)
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ORIGINAL: UBERMUNSCHIST
From canes to capes, leather or denim; What are some of your aesthetic values and why?
Master has no "leather" or "capes" or fet wear. He wears jeans and usualy t-shirts if going to work and button down shirts or polo shirts any other time. Why?/ Because that is what he is comfortable in. He feels no need to "advertise" to people that don't matter, as to who and what he is.
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If you feel as if none are relevant to your D/s relationship please include why.
Clothing does not make the person. The person is whomever they are unto themselves. What does it matter what other people preceive?
Strutting around in leather pants is not going to make him a better Master, tho it may look hot, but if he;s uncomfortable then it's a waste of time and money
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When you get dressed in the morning, what message are you sending your sub?
The message he sends to me with what he's wearing is; " I'm off to work in the shop with grease, oil and other substances so I'm wearing what makes sense instead of some ridiculous costume that cost alot of money and is completely impractical wear for a Heavy Duty Mechanic"
The other message he sends is that he works hard to help make a life for us and our kids. I think that is way more important that trying to look a part for people that do not matter.
He's as much my Dom when he wears his robe, sweats, or nothing at all as when or if he was wearing some "Approved Masterly Costume" [8|]
I think some people spend way to much time worring about what some other Dom or sub in the community will think of them if they are not in "super Dom mode" all the time.
Also, the only message He needs to send me every morning is " You're mine and I love you" Nothing beyond that really matters.
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