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Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 11:58:04 AM   
MistressYlwa


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Has anyone else had to deal with this?

Received a lovely, long email from someone requesting ownership. I replied and spoke with them in chat. They were rude and obnoxious, so I told them I was not interested and deleted them from my friends list. As I am serious about my life and what I desire, do not think this should have been a surprise.

Have recently received three emails from him again. All three have said exactly the same thing as the first I received. Are these people really that stupid? Or do they think we are that stupid and not realize that they have emailed us before? lol

Just curious.

Mistress Ylwa

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 12:51:56 PM   
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I think it may be a mixture of both. Some people are genuinely that stupid I suspect. But in a lot of cases I'm thinking you probably meet all of his criteria (whatever that may be) and so every so often he thinks to himself, "Well, I'll spam the lot of 'em and see what comes back."

He neither cares about nor commits to memory the women who refuse him. He'll be back whenever the mood to troll strikes him.

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 1:08:57 PM   
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dearest mistress,to THE honarbale ms.y L waa,
greetings
,and,happy thanksgiving!
i am alone(watching animal programs;trying ,to, understand the world...).
...thinking ,of you ,because,of this slight;but,i ...
hope you are creamin ,and, very exalted, and, happy, with reasons, to celebrate,today ,it's ,with your express
permission,to speak:i post my humble reply:
i am ,so truly sorry you have been subjected ,to someone who feels inferior, enuff, to swere ,at the moment ,of communication,with you
you are special ;let them find ,another,if they can take you ,for granted ,and ,mistreat you .i would take offense, for you .i'd be beaten, as a "whipping-boy" ,because, you are a top, and, you were ,offended.
sometimes: you dont feel "owned" ,and, someone seems phoney, and ,takes privilages, with making the most, of your "slave", inclinations,when they have no-business talking,to you,in the first place slave or not....however, this slave is'nt thinking ,of their own "slave-image",if doms here take notes,as is custom ,in all ,of my experience.
please: feel free ,to make the person known ,if you are absolutely positive ,in your mind ;he is THE mystery dudd date, from slave-hell.
i can, only apologize ,for a non-fellow slave,if rude-sweres, or crude- language is what what you mean ,by rude...,and, ALTHO WE ALL HAVE MOMENTS;i'm sure similar ,upbringing, or backgrounds may have helped, but, i'd love, to see what you are talking, about specifically, before i can say anything;
creatures, of habbit: can i write you a very long letter asking you, to be your slave, ....if i'm rude ;hang me ,in the morning....
please?.

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 1:17:54 PM   
SlayerZ


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I was going to go with persistent, but I'm leaning towards stupid.

Maybe they have a "template" message that they send to people that they interested in. If that is true, then that is ridiculous. lol You're suppose to approach someone, and a situation, on it's own merits. I mean, if you're going to spout the same ol' thing to everything and anyone, then where's the originality?

Since this person came off as being rude and obnoxious, I would suggest that the "template" idea is probably correct.

If I were you I'd just ignore him.

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 1:25:27 PM   
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It's nice to be made feel like the recipient of an inter-office general memo huh Mistress Ylwa *tongue in cheek*

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 1:37:04 PM   
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I've had that repeated contact from someone you rejected happen lol. I told him you didn't pay any attention to my profile if you had you would of seen you don't qualify for what I want, and when I put up new pictures the guy was back asking if I shave my pussy and do I party lol. And I clearly state I don't respond to blatent crudeness in my profile. I just blocked him.


Now the guy who keeps emailing you , I guess to get into your friends list he started out pretty civial? And then just behaved like an idiot later?

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 1:48:03 PM   
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My emails follow the same basic format but are made individually for the person I am emailing. Basically it is a hi, what it is that sparked my interest and that got me to message you, and followed up with questions, comments, or complements. After that I give a brief description of myself and my experience so you can get an idea who is mailing you before reading over a profile. Then close it off with a request to talk and a goodbye of some sort. Each mail is individual, each one is made for the person I am mailing even if they follow a same format since that is just my writing style.

As for more mails without a response if it is someone who from their profile and interests seemed very compatible I will check to see if it was read how long ago and maybe another email will be sent. If after that no response I leave them alone rather then pestering them with email after email. Also I'm bad with names so a lot of the time I will check my sent mail to double check I haven't mailed someone before. There is interested, persistent, and then there is get a life.

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 1:52:54 PM   
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Well, i don't get too many begging me to own them..lol.. but every so often i do get one from a male sub, saying how much they want to get to know me. i haven't figured that out yet, but when i write em back and ask, i'm greeted with silence. i just chalk it up to another person not bothering to read profiles.

If it were me, getting repeated emails from the same person with the same plea, i'd just block em..but that's just me.

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 3:14:51 PM   
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Stupidly persistent or persistently stupid... both work!

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 4:44:07 PM   
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i think persistently stupid.

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 4:53:31 PM   
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momma always said, "stupid is as astupid does" Forrest Gump


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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 5:17:44 PM   
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G'evening all:


What did you expect? LoL. He's thinking with the little head. It's quite common. Sadly, there are folks in this world, let alone this lifestyle, that I seriously do not know how they tie their own shoelaces. They may even have degrees, but no common sense.

Thank heaven for the ignore button!



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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 5:19:49 PM   
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i think it is to many tourest to our lifestyle :)

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 6:31:41 PM   
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I've had the same thing happen. Email sounded ok but he DEMANDED that we switch to yahoo to chat. I said no I don't move to chat with people I don't know. He replied that he can't chat on here...funny the THIRD profile he created to get to me could. He didn't understand you're rude go away. Then replied that if I didn't want to move to yahoo I was obviously a fake blah, blah, blah. This got him the ignore button. He THEN creates not one but TWO MORE profiles that are also blocked in trying to "prove himself" to me. The scariest part is that he identified as an EXPERIENCED SLAVE

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 6:33:37 PM   
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ah yes the lovely form letters,lol. yes they are that stupid

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 6:59:24 PM   
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yup gotta love those that feel they can order you to do yahoo or msn so they can bug the hell out of you when ever your online
i dont msn or yahoo with anyone till i know them well
i learned that the hard way when i was new to the net
and i really hate the ones that ask the jouvinille questions is it really important to know what my favourite colour of underwear is?

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 7:08:31 PM   
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stupidly persistent or persistently stupid?

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 7:11:40 PM   
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Someone acting dorky online in emails? Wow we've never had that come up before.

Seriously people, how are we going to make our quota for next week now?

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 7:50:03 PM   
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quote:

I think it may be a mixture of both. Some people are genuinely that stupid I suspect. But in a lot of cases I'm thinking you probably meet all of his criteria (whatever that may be) and so every so often he thinks to himself, "Well, I'll spam the lot of 'em and see what comes back."

He neither cares about nor commits to memory the women who refuse him. He'll be back whenever the mood to troll strikes him.
I agree, and am awestruck/dumbfounded every time it happens. M

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RE: Stupid or Persistent? - 11/24/2005 7:54:15 PM   
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quote:

i really hate the ones that ask the jouvinille questions is it really important to know what my favourite colour of underwear is?
Hey it's better than the attempt at coercing me into sex chat, by asking me "what do you like?" I reply I like obedience and male submission... He comes back with but what do you like to do to him? How would you punish me, blah blah... Everywhere whether on here or yahoo, I clearly state that online play/sex does nothing for me. M

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