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AAkasha -> Delicious Dual Penetration...what makes it so hot? (8/28/2008 9:56:46 AM)
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I think a lot of subs eroticize the idea of dual penetration - being violated in his ass and mouth at the same time. I do enjoy it for the sheer objectification factor - if a man is on all fours and both holes are being used, he's pretty much just an object at that point, unable to to anything but be used. Logistically it can be a little hard to put together - you need a girlfriend who is also into the dual-fuck strap on scene, or another man, which then turns it into a "forced" bi scenario also. More personalities, more potential drama.
But for those that want to create this encounter alone, you can do it using a mounted dildo against the wall or refrigerator door, or a tall mirror (better, so he can see what's going on behind him). If you are really going to be giving him a rough ride, he needs to be in fairly good shape, in my experience, so he doesn't get his head slammed into the door. I find it's easier to have him suck the mounted dildo while I fuck his ass, but you can do it the other way around -- most subs end up holding still though and can't concentrate on the back-and-forth motion of their ass without losing the dildo. I don't like the stopping and starting, so that's why I prefer having him on all fours sucking the mounted dildo, because I can control the tempo and the only worry is not making him gag on it by ramming a little too hard.
With another femdom involved, I recommend you make sure she's comfortable with a good rhythm and you are in sync.
Most imporantly though - as with all fairly intense, highly-charged acts - the best advice I can give a lady is relax and don't worry about anything. Rhythm not coming together, dildo keeps popping out, whatever - the reality is that the sub in these cases is so overstimulated by the act that he's not, in the least, critiquing you in his head. Trust me on this. He's wishing he could stop time and memorize the moment if he's a real objectification lover, or he's in his own head hoping you are enjoying it.
For me to enjoy the headspace, I really soak in the knowledge that he's being used in an ultimate way - really objectified, feeling like an objecting, being whored on a very deep and nasty level. Talking about it, talking dirty to him, talking down to him while I am doing it really pushes it over the edge for me. I also love the build up - when he knows he's in for dual-penetration but it has not happened yet. Sometimes dragging out those moments can be absolutely electrifying -- he's just beside himself with arousal, fear, dread, excitement.
Any other tips/ideas from either end of the strapons?
Akasha
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