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Strapon use - 8/28/2008 5:13:50 PM   
OCSurfer


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Status: offline 		Hello,

My question is do Females turly enjoy strapon use on male sub's because of the role reversal or because it actually excites them? What is the best way to find out if a women is into strapon use with out directly asking her?
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RE: Strapon use - 8/28/2008 5:26:20 PM   
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What is the best way to find out if a women is into strapon use with out directly asking her?


Same way you can tell if she likes broccoli.  Learn to read her mind or wait and see if she has some in her refrigerator. 

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RE: Strapon use - 8/28/2008 5:33:36 PM   
JerryFrankster


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Status: offline 		You never know for sure until you ask. Just from your one short post, I'm guessing you're not really looking for submission, just role reversal.

I suggest that you buy your own strapon, and make lots of female friends. After you get to know them, casually start dropping hints like "I don't think a guy should even be asking for anal unless he's willing to give it up.", "What's good for the goose is good for the gander.", "Assholes are like opinions, etc"

The problem with those, though, is it suggests that if you let them stick things in your butt, then they have to let you stick something in theirs. You should probably clear that up immediately or sooner if there seems to be some confusion.

Also, you can kind of profile a little. Women who have a lot of gay friends seem more open to the idea than the general population.


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RE: Strapon use - 8/28/2008 5:35:13 PM   
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RE: Strapon use - 8/28/2008 5:40:59 PM   
slaveinstockings


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Status: offline 		This is someting I wanted to ask my girlfriend to consider, taking me with a strap on, but for a while I was afraid to bring it up. She one day started playing around with her own bum and asked me one day if I'd like to someday take her that way. I said I would and then immediately asked her if she'd like to take me that way too. Her quote, almost to the word was, "oh hell yes! that would be so hot and I'd just feel like I OWNED you!". A while later I found the feeldoe online and showed her a picture and it made her even more excited about doing it. We have a long distance relationship, but she will be back with me in december and I will definitely have a feeldoe by the time she gets here.

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RE: Strapon use - 8/28/2008 7:46:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OCSurfer

Hello,

My question is do Females turly enjoy strapon use on male sub's because of the role reversal or because it actually excites them? What is the best way to find out if a women is into strapon use with out directly asking her?


What's wrong with just asking her?

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RE: Strapon use - 8/28/2008 8:03:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: peppermint

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ORIGINAL: OCSurfer

What is the best way to find out if a women is into strapon use with out directly asking her?


Same way you can tell if she likes broccoli.  Learn to read her mind or wait and see if she has some in her refrigerator. 


I've never put my dildo in the fridge.  I knew I was doing something wrong.

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RE: Strapon use - 8/28/2008 9:39:46 PM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		Nah, you hang your dildoes from the ceiling like dried chili peppers or garlic bunches.

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RE: Strapon use - 8/28/2008 10:18:37 PM   
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Nah, you hang your dildoes from the ceiling like dried chili peppers or garlic bunches.


The frightening thing is, given the number of dildos I have, I probably could. 

Edited to add:  I've probably just frightened off all the guys, huh?

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RE: Strapon use - 8/28/2008 10:20:38 PM   
Vendaval


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RE: Strapon use - 8/29/2008 1:09:52 AM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		something very sexy about a woman wearing a big strapon i think my mistress came over early wednesday and while i was cleaning up and getting ready in the shower she was in the bedroom putting on the strapon ...yes the 10 in one  i walked out of the door and into the bedroom and saw her and we both started laughing as i said geez sexy lady whats on your mind ? we both knew where that was going ..smile ..after a few hugs and hellos ...she told me how good i smelled ..all nice and clean for her ..and next thing she told me was on your knees as she pointed on the bed love how she lubes me up and next thing i know she slid it all the way in ...and i said good morning to you to my lady love how she fucks me doggy style ..gawd that feels good ...when she was done she flipped me over and sat on my face ...couldnt believe how wet she was as i started licking up her wetness until she came for the first time strapon play is wonderfull indeed  have fun ..mal

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RE: Strapon use - 8/29/2008 1:30:56 AM   
UglyTruth


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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

Edited to add:  I've probably just frightened off all the guys, huh?


You most certainly have not.

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RE: Strapon use - 8/29/2008 1:34:53 AM   
Charmarr


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Status: offline 		Not at all....

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RE: Strapon use - 8/29/2008 8:04:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm willing to pretend to be frightened until actual fear sets in.

< Message edited by JerryFrankster -- 8/29/2008 8:05:01 AM >

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RE: Strapon use - 8/29/2008 9:56:01 AM   
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I'm willing to pretend to be frightened until actual fear sets in.


Excellent plan.  I have one dildo that I call the "doorstop."   

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RE: Strapon use - 8/29/2008 10:49:00 AM   
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RE: Strapon use - 8/29/2008 11:00:02 AM   
rhpaw


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Status: offline 		It could have a lot to do if the mistress is BI or not . But any domme i was with always got totally excited from the power said i was alot prettier from that angle.

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RE: Strapon use - 8/29/2008 11:03:38 AM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		by the way, if you search strapon in this forum, you'll find at least one thread a week about them...

hmmm... obsessed or fixated?  which is it?

*smirk*

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RE: Strapon use - 8/29/2008 11:21:33 AM   
Tantriqu


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Would you be up for a special segment on HGTV?


Lol, Totally!!
I'm envisioning a presenter-of-choice with his face on screen and Domme-of-choice unseen behind him as he's announcing:

"Does Her strapon *really* have to match your collar and cuffs?   Join us for an HGTV special presentation on Art Dildeau!  Next on Home . . . oh!  . . . er,  um, .  . . ahhh. .  . . Ho, oh, Home and GaHAAAAAahh . . . " [his eyes roll back, his knuckles on the French Regency chaise longe whiten, rhythmic slapping noises, then a 'Technical Difficulties' card on screen with cheery 70's talk-show music which doesn't quite drown out the various jungle noises and low chuckles.

Now there's a Bravo special I'd sign up for: The Next Top Domme!

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RE: Strapon use - 8/29/2008 11:40:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OCSurfer

Hello,

My question is do Females turly enjoy strapon use on male sub's because of the role reversal or because it actually excites them? What is the best way to find out if a women is into strapon use with out directly asking her?


What's wrong with just asking her?


Absolutely. Within the right context, simply ask...

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