Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

trigger words


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> trigger words Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
trigger words - 8/28/2008 8:55:02 PM   
Daddyssweetpea


Posts: 89
Joined: 8/23/2008
Status: offline 		I'd love to hear....

what are the magic words that make you reel?

I am partial to "get on your knees and wait for Daddy."  Melts me every time. 
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: trigger words - 8/28/2008 8:56:31 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline 		"mine" and "good girl" are the most common

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1949074/mpage_1/key_mine/tm.htm#1949088
favorite things your master says



_____________________________

Find stable partners, not a stable of partners.

"Sometimes my whore logic gets all fuzzy"- Californication

(in reply to Daddyssweetpea)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: trigger words - 8/28/2008 9:06:25 PM   
Daddyssweetpea


Posts: 89
Joined: 8/23/2008
Status: offline 		how lovely to read those.

but I'd also like to hear from the other side....
it's not just us subbies who have magic words.

(in reply to LuckyAlbatross)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: trigger words - 8/28/2008 9:24:46 PM   
yourMissTress


Posts: 1665
Joined: 6/14/2005
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		What words make me melt?  I don't think there is any one word or phrase that could be uttered by any or all that would make me melt.  I think it would depend on the person saying them, and what I know those words mean to them.  Here are a few that I enjoy hearing almost regardless of the person saying them, and not in any particular order...
 
FUCK THAT HURT!
Yes, Miss Tress, I am here to please you.
May I (fill in the blank) for you, Miss Tress?
Oh you evil bitch!
Thank you, Miss Tress.
 
but what makes me melt is to look down into the eyes of a lovely girl or a sweet boy, when he or she are soaked with sweat and blood and see that look that says "I'm ready when you are".  MMM, yes, melt.

_____________________________

Tress


"If you have to tell people that you are a lady, you are not." My Grandmother


(in reply to Daddyssweetpea)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: trigger words - 8/29/2008 8:57:42 AM   
XxSpiderxX


Posts: 12
Joined: 6/5/2008
Status: offline 		I enjoy it when, regardless of how many times Ive issued the instruction,  my sub says to me, "Would you like me to find the bight?"
It makes me very happy. That and whatever safe word we have set up. Not because I am sick and try to press until I hear it, however, because it lets me know that my sub trusts in the dynamic, knows her own limits and isnt afraid to speak up. You'd be suprized how many subs I have had that were "afraid" to say the safe word and condemned me for my actions.
"You evil bastard" kinda turns me on as well.
And of course, "Yes, Master" always gives me a nice cold chill.


_____________________________

-Master Spider


"Expect my visit when darkness falls, the night, I think, is best for hiding all"

(in reply to yourMissTress)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: trigger words - 8/29/2008 11:41:25 AM   
lessthanthree


Posts: 10
Joined: 8/22/2008
Status: offline 		I like ritual. Something about hearing preordained questions or responses melts me every time. Things like thanking me for each blow of a spanking, or reciting a wordy, scripted request before being allowed to orgasm. These things tell me that she takes both of our roles seriously, which melts my heart and gets my horrid little mind thinking up new ideas.


(in reply to XxSpiderxX)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: trigger words - 8/29/2008 11:50:51 AM   
BKSir


Posts: 4037
Joined: 4/8/2008
From: Salt Lake City, UT
Status: offline 		When he bows his head and holds his hands out, palms upright, with something in them for me, because he thought I might like it, saying simply "For Sir?".  For example, wandering off for no apparent reason, and coming back in with a pb&j and glass of milk for me, without me even mentioning I would like a snack (which he did the other day).  Little things like that just melt my heart completely.  The milk and sammich had to wait a few minutes though, as I set them down and hugged him and held onto him for a while.  How could I not?


_____________________________

We'll begin with a spin, traveling in a world of my creation. What we'll see will defy explanation.

I am the voices in your head.

BiggKatt Studios

(in reply to lessthanthree)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: trigger words - 8/29/2008 12:08:20 PM   
CreativeDominant


Posts: 11032
Joined: 3/11/2006
Status: offline 		For me, it depends on the situation and the person using the words.  My insides got all gooey whenever my first submissive would look at me very solemnly after I had finished correcting her and say softly "yes, Master" or "yes, Daddy-kins".
I've always felt a tingle go through me whenever girlfriends/wives have told me "I love you" out of the blue without my having said it first and especially when it was for no reason at all other than to just make sure I knew.
There is someone who is very special to me who calls me "sweet" or "sweet Sir" and it touches everything about me that makes up the full, complex man/dominant/human being that I am.
Despite the way it ended, I still carry warm memories of the feeling it created when my last submissive would softly say "my Sir" in her own possessive fashion.
I admit to really having it touch me when I've heard "yes, Daddy" or "please, Daddy", though in differing ways depending on whether it was my ums or a submissive.
And finally...it touched and tickled me when I've been referred to as a "WET dominant bastard".  When I asked them what the hell they meant by "WET", it was explained that it stood for "Warped, Evil, Twisted".  That would be...me.

< Message edited by CreativeDominant -- 8/29/2008 12:22:04 PM >

(in reply to BKSir)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: trigger words - 8/30/2008 12:59:41 PM   
CreativeDominant


Posts: 11032
Joined: 3/11/2006
Status: offline 		I'm a bit surprised there aren't more answers here...

(in reply to CreativeDominant)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: trigger words - 8/30/2008 1:04:30 PM   
Kalista07


Posts: 4240
Joined: 7/1/2007
Status: offline 		i guess i'm pretty simple. For me it is words or phrases such as, "Aren't you!!??" Or "Correct?" or "Now Bitch!!"
But seriously, the one that just reached inside and made me feel like he had truly put his hands around my heart was when i was sitting in the ambulance yesterday and He was walking back to His car and i was telling Him what hospital i was being taken to and we were getting off the phone and He said, "I love you.".  It's not like it was the first time He told me He loved me, but it's the first time He said it to me in that manner.
mmmmm
Kali


_____________________________

“Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it.”
~~Sweedish Proverb


(in reply to CreativeDominant)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: trigger words - 8/30/2008 1:16:11 PM   
underHisWing


Posts: 10
Joined: 8/21/2008
Status: offline 		When we're sitting, just talking, looking into each other's eyes, and He says, "you're getting wet, aren't you?"  mmm... wet and getting wetter... 

(in reply to Kalista07)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: trigger words - 8/30/2008 1:37:45 PM   
pompeii


Posts: 934
Joined: 1/4/2007
From: Silicon Valley, San Jose, California
Status: offline 		My fav expression from a willingly obedient sub is "tell me how to please you" ... 

(in reply to underHisWing)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: trigger words - 8/30/2008 2:56:08 PM   
TwilightShadows


Posts: 68
Joined: 1/4/2008
From: twilight
Status: offline 		"good girl," plain and simple  and

"there's my needy, enjoyable slut"

oh, I'm a sub, by the way... <g>


(in reply to pompeii)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: trigger words - 8/30/2008 2:57:24 PM   
TwilightShadows


Posts: 68
Joined: 1/4/2008
From: twilight
Status: offline 		Oh, another one I enjoy...

"unlock your door and strip" 

(in reply to Daddyssweetpea)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: trigger words - 8/31/2008 7:34:58 AM   
persephonee


Posts: 5089
Joined: 12/15/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

I'm a bit surprised there aren't more answers here...


Well, it is Labor Day weekend.

i respond most intensely to "good girl" of course.

However, the other day i went to J's to play as we hadnt been able to see eachother for over a week. When i walked in and stripped, he walked over to me...inspected...and growled..."You come to my  house, and you call me Daddy, covered in alll those other men's marks..." and he ended it up with an order to get into the tub so he could mark me in the way that only he can do.

That was a trigger if i must say....

Happy Labor Day

_____________________________

You be the Captain; i'll be no one.

And You can carry me away....if You want to. ~Kasey Chambers

E*Whore, extraordinaire....

Nothing is exactly as it seems~Nor, is it otherwise.

(in reply to CreativeDominant)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: trigger words - 8/31/2008 8:05:05 AM   
SoulPiercer


Posts: 374
Joined: 5/27/2007
Status: offline 		When Kim says: "Hurt me, daddy."

My spine tingles.

There are a few others .. but since it's Sunday .. I'll refrain from using such language.

_____________________________

Do you have any idea how many bones you have left for me to break? - Batman

(in reply to persephonee)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: trigger words - 8/31/2008 9:47:12 AM   
bratnwranglers


Posts: 113
Joined: 5/24/2007
Status: offline 		i really like My girl or My slut

(in reply to SoulPiercer)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: trigger words - 8/31/2008 1:34:01 PM   
apiercedkitty


Posts: 569
Joined: 2/22/2007
From: Michigan
Status: offline 		When He says, "your such a good cock whore."

_____________________________

normal is a setting on a washing machine...

(in reply to bratnwranglers)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: trigger words - 8/31/2008 5:25:47 PM   
MidMichCowboy


Posts: 665
Joined: 3/23/2007
Status: offline 		When I'm spanking (etc) ... Oooooohhhhh (grunt) f**k Papa

When I'm holding her down ....ggllggg

When I'm sitting and she is at my feet, her head in my lap and I'm stroking her hair .... (soft moan) ooohhh Papa, I love you

When we are curled together in bed, in that foggy state before sleep, in that sleepy voice .... mmmm, love you Papa

My description does not do them justice

_____________________________

I want to capture your mind, your spirit, your soul, your body, your devotion and your love. Then, will I give you my heart.

(in reply to apiercedkitty)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: trigger words - 9/2/2008 6:31:31 PM   
sblady


Posts: 433
Joined: 9/28/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: BKSir

Little things like that just melt my heart completely.  The milk and sammich had to wait a few minutes though, as I set them down and hugged him and held onto him for a while.  How could I not?



That is so sweet. 

I love to hear "good girl" and "silly slut" (cause I giggle at the most inopportune times).  There are others but I'll keep it PG.  

_____________________________

Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values. Dalai Lama





(in reply to BKSir)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> trigger words Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.094