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Bstardsbitch -> RE: oh wow not again (8/31/2008 9:28:08 AM)

"The fantasy is certainly hot for this male sub. To be so controlled that you sign over everything: the house, the bank accounts, the investments, the car. Your pay is direct-deposited to an account your Mistress controls. And in return, out of her generosity, she gives you an allowance. Of course, out of that allowance, you must per her rent on what was once your house. Sure, she could skip the rent and lower the allowance, but it's all about the mind-f*ck. Plus, she can always raise the rent and watch you squirm as you try to stretch your pennies, even as your nice paychecks from your hard work hit her bank account"
 
That's exactly what that is.......FANTASY. how many people do you think live like that?
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MzDeadlyRed -> RE: oh wow not again (8/31/2008 4:34:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bstardsbitch

"The fantasy is certainly hot for this male sub. To be so controlled that you sign over everything: the house, the bank accounts, the investments, the car. Your pay is direct-deposited to an account your Mistress controls. And in return, out of her generosity, she gives you an allowance. Of course, out of that allowance, you must per her rent on what was once your house. Sure, she could skip the rent and lower the allowance, but it's all about the mind-f*ck. Plus, she can always raise the rent and watch you squirm as you try to stretch your pennies, even as your nice paychecks from your hard work hit her bank account"
 
That's exactly what that is.......FANTASY. how many people do you think live like that?
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More than you realize.




CallaFirestormBW -> RE: oh wow not again (8/31/2008 4:59:11 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Bstardsbitch

"The fantasy is certainly hot for this male sub. To be so controlled that you sign over everything: the house, the bank accounts, the investments, the car. Your pay is direct-deposited to an account your Mistress controls. And in return, out of her generosity, she gives you an allowance. Of course, out of that allowance, you must per her rent on what was once your house. Sure, she could skip the rent and lower the allowance, but it's all about the mind-f*ck. Plus, she can always raise the rent and watch you squirm as you try to stretch your pennies, even as your nice paychecks from your hard work hit her bank account"
 
That's exactly what that is.......FANTASY. how many people do you think live like that?
.


Actually, a number of people (both in and out of the realm of BDSM) live this way very successfully.

CFB




KatyLied -> RE: oh wow not again (8/31/2008 5:01:37 PM)

Actually many people enter into marriage and combine everything (give up their good for the power of the couple), with little thought about how risky it is.  This isn't much different.




OrionTheWolf -> RE: oh wow not again (8/31/2008 6:17:07 PM)

Just because you have determined it is impossible, does not mean the rest of us have to accept that it cannot be done. Especially when we live it every day.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Bstardsbitch

"The fantasy is certainly hot for this male sub. To be so controlled that you sign over everything: the house, the bank accounts, the investments, the car. Your pay is direct-deposited to an account your Mistress controls. And in return, out of her generosity, she gives you an allowance. Of course, out of that allowance, you must per her rent on what was once your house. Sure, she could skip the rent and lower the allowance, but it's all about the mind-f*ck. Plus, she can always raise the rent and watch you squirm as you try to stretch your pennies, even as your nice paychecks from your hard work hit her bank account"
 
That's exactly what that is.......FANTASY. how many people do you think live like that?
.




Bstardsbitch -> RE: oh wow not again (9/1/2008 9:29:33 AM)

Well if you had read my other posts on this topic, you would see I live with sir who has financial control, cars everything. I just don't see how that kind of relationship can be healthy. Nowhere did I say it was impossible, just seems like fantasy to me.




IvyMorgan -> RE: oh wow not again (9/1/2008 10:09:28 AM)

My parents do this.  Everything being in my mother's name for tax reasons.

I guess I'd do this too, merge finances, when I finally wind up in a relationship like theirs.




littlewonder -> RE: oh wow not again (9/1/2008 2:33:04 PM)

This doesn't seem all that strange to me. It seems traditional to me. I grew up in an atmosphere where everything was in the husband's name and the wife didn't work. It was the typical traditional family life.

Some people still enjoy this style of living. Not all that strange or difficult to me to grasp.




OrionTheWolf -> RE: oh wow not again (9/1/2008 6:24:26 PM)

Have you ever read the definition of fantasy? Not healthy? Depends on what you consider healthy. The nilla world considers just about everything on this site as unhealthy.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bstardsbitch

Well if you had read my other posts on this topic, you would see I live with sir who has financial control, cars everything. I just don't see how that kind of relationship can be healthy. Nowhere did I say it was impossible, just seems like fantasy to me.




LATEXBABY64 -> RE: oh wow not again (9/1/2008 7:12:51 PM)

i always hear this term of how many people are sucessful and how many are not wither it be poly or other things remeber we are in the minority of life the universe and things so you have see what standards y ou set that make it a fact or theory    

2 out of ten does not make it good odds




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