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who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 11:56:30 AM   
funnelgag


Posts: 31
Joined: 12/10/2006
Status: offline 		Hi, I was having a chat with a friend today, regarding the ability for people to see who has been looking at their profile in collarme.

What are peoples' opinions.  Does such a feature breach your privacy, or do you like having the ability to know who's been looking at your profile.


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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 12:15:55 PM   
Lynnxz


Posts: 4813
Joined: 10/3/2006
From: Atlanta
Status: offline 		Ok... you lost the 'privacy' when you posted a public profile. That's like running around naked in the street, then yelling at the people who look at you. 

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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 12:18:11 PM   
simpleplan2


Posts: 461
Joined: 7/5/2008
Status: offline 		Public website.  If it bothers anyone, then they shouldn't be on a public website...end of story.

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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 12:26:18 PM   
subtee


Posts: 5133
Joined: 7/26/2007
Status: offline 		I like to see who stopped by...



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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 12:26:46 PM   
TwoNYCDommes


Posts: 237
Joined: 1/14/2007
Status: offline 		I have no objection to people knowing when I view their profiles.

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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 12:28:46 PM   
SilverMark


Posts: 3457
Joined: 5/9/2007
Status: offline 		Always flattering to know that someone has enough interest to take a look.

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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 12:32:01 PM   
littlesarbonn


Posts: 1710
Joined: 12/3/2005
From: Stockton, California
Status: offline 		I have zero problem with other people knowing I viewed their web site. It doesn't mean we've developed a relationship but that I was drawn to their site for some reason or other (often because they posted something that caused me to think "I wonder what kind of person this is").

One time where it really irritates me is if I go into a chatroom that has dominant males in it. Because my name (little sarbonn) doesn't really indicate my gender, I get TONS of people viewing my page THE INSTANT I enter a chatroom here. Personally, I don't care that they do it, but it makes me feel embarrassed for men in general that they're so desperately after ANY woman that they automatically stalk anyone's profile of anyone who comes into a chatroom where they happen to be. It rarely happens in a femdom chatroom, although every now and then someone will view my profile, but nothing like it happens whenever I go into one of the generic submissive rooms where there are male doms trolling like there's no tomorrow.


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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 12:37:20 PM   
subsong


Posts: 77
Joined: 9/22/2005
Status: offline 		      I enjoy seeing those who are looking - often it leads to comment or conversation - or to me looking back .  But then there are those that have chosen to not be detected when looking around - and they contact me without warning !  

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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 12:43:40 PM   
funnelgag


Posts: 31
Joined: 12/10/2006
Status: offline 		thanks for the great feedback everyone.

I'm presently designing a site and this issue was one that came up today again in discussion.

I know exactly where my friend is coming from regarding privacy.  But I actually am happy to have the ability to see who has taken a peek at my profile - like someone else says above, it can often result in a conversation starting.  

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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 1:02:13 PM   
Bstardsbitch


Posts: 154
Joined: 11/19/2005
Status: offline 		How do you get privacy on the net?. you put it out there, you forfeit your privacy in my opinion.
I like to see who's dropped in, even if there's no further contact.

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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 1:45:20 PM   
E2Sweet


Posts: 649
Joined: 7/8/2008
From: TopLeftCornerOf, OH, USA
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quote:

ORIGINAL: subsong

...I enjoy seeing those who are looking - often it leads to comment or conversation - or to me looking back ....


I agree totally. I've had some interesting correspondence with those who have chosen to perv my profile, or that have spotted me perving theirs...


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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 1:46:51 PM   
rockybaynurse


Posts: 23
Joined: 4/5/2008
Status: offline 		Hi, I like the idea of someone looking at my profile and being able to see who that person is, that way I can also check them out.  lol.  rocky

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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 3:56:49 PM   
Raechard


Posts: 3513
Joined: 3/10/2007
From: S.E. London U.K.
Status: offline 		It should have a little number next to it to say how long they took to read it. IMOSHO otherwise it is totally meaningless.

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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/29/2008 4:28:05 PM   
Celeres


Posts: 166
Joined: 3/9/2008
Status: offline 		I like to know who's viewing my profile. Having a decent memory too, I remember roughly how many times they look recently too. Gives me a bit of an idea why they put me on their "favorites" or try to add me as friends without returning my messages. 

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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/30/2008 7:25:34 AM   
rookey


Posts: 100
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: SilverMark

Always flattering to know that someone has enough interest to take a look.


I'll second that

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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/30/2008 10:24:12 AM   
girlivy


Posts: 699
Joined: 7/6/2007
Status: offline 		I tend to like it... It can act as a conduit for the start of wonderful friendships and then some!

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RE: who's viewing my profile feature - 8/30/2008 10:27:55 AM   
AMaster


Posts: 814
Joined: 8/4/2005
Status: offline 		I like it.  I want to know who finds me interesting enough to read my profile.  I also want others to know I have looked at their profiles. 

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