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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Donna Reed could handle it..........Carol Brady?, not so much

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


She might be dealing with some stereotypes of what a domina is  - it might be related to the leather-clad dominatrix stereotype, the whip yielding woman "bitch" who barks commands and calls her man a "worthless worm."

Introduce her to some more balanced portrayals of dominant women. Rent "Bull Durham" and see the playful, light nature that Susan Sarandon's character has, which is a nice little mini-intro to dominance.

Instead of the idea of being mean, ask her to consider being things like "unpredictable" or "sweetly selfish" or "mischevious."

Akasha