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kiwisub12 -> hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 8:46:38 PM)

Was watching a kink.com film and as part of the scene the domme asked the audience to walk up to the sub. and spit in her face - and they did, and i couldn't watch...

a new hard limit for me!   and one that it didn't even occur to me to express. Who knew?

what are some of your hard limits that you didn't know about when you started in bdsm?  and how did you find out about them?




CalifChick -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 8:48:21 PM)

I'm thinking that "no spitting" would be covered under the bodily fluids and harm clause.


Cali




CalifChick -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 8:50:24 PM)

Oh, oops... to answer the question:  Clown sex.  That's a hard limit. 


Cali




stormgirl -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 8:51:50 PM)

it turns out i dont like having my hair pulled after all . . . . i found out after i told my partner i liked it  . . . whoops!

multiple partners - turns out i do have a jealous bone in my body.




kiwisub12 -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 8:52:06 PM)

Who would even think to say - no spitting in my face?
Its sort of like saying " no crushing eggs on my navel".  It just didn't even occur to me that someone would want to do it. [:)]




Leatherist -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 8:53:05 PM)

I definitley know that "earning the red wings" is a hard limit for me............eeeeewwwwwwwwwwwww




NumberSix -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 8:54:20 PM)

Hi, my name's Bozo, I thought that we might share makeup tips and funny stories while I fuck you up the ass.
 
I know you are a little scared, but I got some big feet and when you see my clown cock, you're gonna laugh.....can't we be friends?
 




CalifChick -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 8:57:31 PM)

Hmmmm.... do me from behind so I don't have to see the scary clown makeup??


Cali




kiwisub12 -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 8:57:35 PM)

if what they say about the size of feet corrolating with the size of the throbbing love lance, i wouldn't be laughing if a clown came towards me    -   no way Bozo!!!!

*runs screaming in the opposite direction , clutching her pussy*




leakylee -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 9:00:33 PM)

nooo shaving my head. i dont care how much money that creep lil guy offered me. that is just wrong on some level..




CruelDesires -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 9:17:14 PM)

No nose picking during aftercare?

C-D




trusting -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 9:29:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: NumberSix

Hi, my name's Bozo, I thought that we might share makeup tips and funny stories while I fuck you up the ass.
 
I know you are a little scared, but I got some big feet and when you see my clown cock, you're gonna laugh.....can't we be friends?
 




I was in the worst mood until I read this! [;)]

Thank you!




ResidentSadist -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 9:37:19 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick
Oh, oops... to answer the question:  Clown sex.  That's a hard limit. 

I would say Clown sex was a limit for me too …except that one time in band camp.   She was a real clown whether she had the outfit or not!  Our 90 day trial lasted 92 days.  Thanks to collarme for the misunderstood Goreans that believe experiences with role playing swingers carrying whips equated to living a TPE with someone who actual exchanges control.




Missokyst -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 9:40:02 PM)

There is a lot of stuff I don't get.  Vomit for one.  How is that sexy and hot?  And while I don't mind giving foot rubs, I dont have a wild desire to lick and suck on toes.  Spit always lands in eyes and dang that burns!  I also don't understand the mentality behind it.  But I am not into feeling worthless, in fact I run from that.
Oddly I dont regard those things as limits.  For me they are carefully determined prior to committing to anything, in finding a partner who has no interest in them.

One limit I do have which I never thought I might, is face slapping.  I find it makes me slide into a headspace which nothing can break for days. 
Kyst




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 9:40:36 PM)

kraft dinner (mac n cheese in the usa as its called)

i will NOT eat that shit...ever....HARD HARD limit.

oh and i hate clowns....anything to do with clowns...including the ones not dressed as a clown.




leakylee -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 9:43:43 PM)

ohoh.. and wearing baby pink.. hard limit, if not limit then a pure punishment. just way way to girly.. omg.. what is up with that color?

no offense to those that love it.





Lynnxz -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 9:43:59 PM)

Haha, new hard limit for me is castrating a guy with a blow torch. And  yes, it's come up before. 




ResidentSadist -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 10:08:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst
There is a lot of stuff I don't get.  Vomit for one.  How is that sexy and hot? 

Ask Kali, she loves my shower story.  LOL
Here is a look at what it means to me.
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http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=1897654
Some sadists love life most when it's 'not pretty'.  I shall not recount the stories of my encounters with nausea but rather just say, it enhances the illusion of nonconsensuality like pissing yourself in fear, tears and crying do. 

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=1897764
I did not tell the story about the 3 kinds of partially digested shrimp that lay on my shower floor in a puddle of wine as she kneeled in it and I made her finish what she started.  God.. I miss amiee on days like this. 

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=1897802
aimee was the one kneeling in predigested shrimp & wine ... it was a 2 year long livein affair, she puked on me more than a few dozen times (at least once a month)... it sorta' became a sign of her dedication to me when she finished what she started even if she barfed. 

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2049544/mpage_2/tm.htm#2050780
I am super genius and a control addict.  Not in the micromanage/OCD something to death kind of way but more in the General Patton “tell people what to not how to do it and you’ll be surprised by their ingenuity” kind of way. 

That control represent security and it has made me learn about love and sex so I can use them as tools to forge strong bonds… I will be the best lay, your strongest love and your wildest fantasy.  I will give the things no one else ever has because it insures that you *need* me.

My counterpart is the type of girl that needs to be needed.  The kind that “will happily choke on and get covered by her own vomit in order to hear “Good girl” after a blow job”… even if there is 3 kinds of shrimp all over the shower floor.




cravesdom -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 10:26:34 PM)

Yeah, I think vomit is now a hard limit for me! And definitely not into castration, in any way shape or form.

One that came up in a past getting to know you chat was sex with bums. Needless to say I decided I was not the kind of sub he needed! Didn't know I needed to add that to my hard limits list. Live and learn.




leakylee -> RE: hard limits that never occurred to me ........ (8/29/2008 11:28:03 PM)

yeah sometimes that um coming up thing, makes you realize that when they say practice certain things on your own time. damn do they ever mean it. eek, really makes you hate getting out of practice on those skills.





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