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Ideas please! - 8/30/2008 6:06:28 AM

naughtyboy8807

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So I have talked my girlfreind into trying to tie me up and play some games or whatever, and she has agreed to it. Im pretty kinky and she is when she wants to be but she says she doesn't know what she'd do with me once she had me tied up. Any ideas please.

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RE: Ideas please! - 8/30/2008 7:21:23 AM

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It depends upon how intense either of you are. A blindfold and a feather is a nice start if either of you aren't into pain. If she is sadistic and you are masochistic there is only your imagination to limit you.

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RE: Ideas please! - 8/30/2008 7:30:59 AM

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Broad question

Some people want to be left alone in bondage to descend into a meditative state.

Some people want stuff to happen.

That stuff could be anything

Obviously sex in bondage can be great. Or boring. Depends what she likes. Only one way to find out - do it

Impact play can be fun too. Being unable to escape heightens the sensation IMO

Looking at your profile, there is an awful lot you want to try. Most of it could be combined successfully with bondage of some type. Show her your laundry list and see if any of it appeals to her too.

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RE: Ideas please! - 8/30/2008 7:44:41 AM

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Maybe she really does have ideas but she doesn't want to scare the crap out of you with them. Perhaps what she does with you while you are helplessly bound, won't be so exciting for you after all. Maybe she'll bring in a real man and make love to him while you can only watch, or listen if she decides to blindfold you. Can you handle just laying there listening to her being pleased by a man. Then what if she decided you need your little hole satisfied? Will it be her strap-on or perhaps her new lover likes to take the sissy bois for a ride as well.

After you have been stretched to the limits, she might put you in a diaper so that you won't make a mess of the bed while she's out on the town with her new lover.

Are these the ideas you were looking for?

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RE: Ideas please! - 8/30/2008 12:28:32 PM

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Inspired by some other threads here, she could superglue some furniture to you.

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RE: Ideas please! - 8/31/2008 2:07:30 PM

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Put you in a box and ship you to Brazil!

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RE: Ideas please! - 8/31/2008 3:41:58 PM

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She may want to flay you and make a man-suit out of you, then dance around to classic rock repeating "Would you fuck me? I'd fuck me."

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RE: Ideas please! - 8/31/2008 4:41:53 PM

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Get a shoebox and fill it with common household items, a plastic fork, wooden spoons, hairbrush, chopsticks, clothespins etc. Write down possible uses for each one. Then have her blindfold you while she looks through the box and reads the suggestions. But basically, have her use the different things on you to see your responses to the different sensations.

If you squeal when she scratches you with a fork, and she enjoys that, then she should spend as much time as she likes doing it. If you jumping when poked randomly with a chopstick makes her giggle, then be prepared to jump quite a lot. Tell her the object is for to experience what she enjoys and do those things, without caring about your enjoyment. Have a safe word obviously, as much so she won't worry about doing harm.

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