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cravesdom -> RE: Size Matters? (9/17/2008 11:34:00 PM)

I have to say that size is definitely not the most important factor to me. I love sex, in oh so many ways, but vaginal sex will not make me cum on its own. So the size doesn't really make a huge difference. That being said, a man's (or woman's) skill with his or her tongue and fingers will definitely make me cum much more easily and more often. I have been with men of all sizes, from one who was so small he wouldn't even have any other type of sex than oral to a man who was so large it was literally painful to have sex with him. I have to admit though that the best lovers I have had have not been the men with the largest penises. Makes you wonder.




FaerieQueene -> RE: Size Matters? (9/17/2008 11:45:17 PM)

I have no idea if this has been mentioned yet, as this is quite the long thread but...
"Its not the size of the boat, its the motion of the ocean.... but you can't get to China in a rowboat." (Ron White, I think)
I've noticed that small guys (who may want to consider working on manual or oral technique to compensate) generally refuse to believe they have anything to compensate for, and well-endowed guys generally think that they're big enough to get away with the ol' pump-and-grind routine. Still looking for that guy who knows how to rock what he's got.




littlebitxxx -> RE: Size Matters? (9/17/2008 11:49:47 PM)

Well said, FQ.




TazDevil -> RE: Size Matters? (9/17/2008 11:51:51 PM)


post about size all ways make me laugh one think 7 inch is average.. well IT NOT 3-4 inch is, most would see some one that big and laugh at how small it is, I wonder if now knowing that 3 is by science to be the just right size, if one here change there vote




SaraZeal -> RE: Size Matters? (9/18/2008 4:09:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TazDevil


post about size all ways make me laugh one think 7 inch is average.. well IT NOT 3-4 inch is, most would see some one that big and laugh at how small it is, I wonder if now knowing that 3 is by science to be the just right size, if one here change there vote


Average is 5.5 inches erect. Flaccid size varies widely.

3 inches erect qualifies as a micropenis* and is 1st percentile or so (99% are bigger).
4 inches erect is 10th percentile size (90% are bigger)
7 inches erect is 90th percentile size (10% are bigger)
8 inches is probably above, like 97th percentile or higher.

So yeah average is between 5 and 6 inches, not 3 or 4. Very few have it below 3 or at 3.

*Must be smaller than average by 2.5+ standard deviations (around 99+%)




uliveonce -> RE: Size Matters? (9/18/2008 8:47:18 AM)

9 inch circumference when streamlined
10 1/2 inch circumference when hardened

17 inch length if extended
14 inches when compressed

and before you freak out and call me a liar.  I am talking about from my fingertip to my elbow.

I have yet to meet the woman that could take much past a few inches beyond my wrist

My cock is within the realm of average, 6 inches long and just under 2 inches in diameter.  My stamina is extra-ordinary as is my level of hardness (or so I am told from unsolicited comments).  Many women are rather happy with my cock.  A few have had a great time (orgasms and squirting being indicators), but I felt very little other than like a hotdog in a hallway.  Which is saying a lot seeing as I ENJOY post-fisting fucking.  A few others have admitted that they would have liked more length or girth (quite often they shut up when I offer fisting as an alternative).  Did I call their bluff?  Who knows.  I once dated a woman who I had to leave an inch or so out because she was that shallow.  Others have been very happy with my size (and 50/50) have exclaimed it to be refreshingly easier to deal with than the larger /  smaller one they were used to.  Some call it just right for ass fucking others have balked quite visibly when I suggest anal.  Some have suggested bigger has advantages but lasting so long / being so hard is so good too.  All kinds of things.  So obviously, it isn't ALL about the size.

I also routinely fist and fuck women.  Yes, I fist them, then stick my cock inside of my fist and jerk myself off inside of their pussy's.  Wet, tight and hot for me.  Wet, tight and confusing for them.  But lots of pleasure for everyone.

Have we mentioned fisting coupled with a good assfucking.  Something I happen to completely enjoy.  More than a few women have been very thankful that my cock wasn't any bigger when we do that.  Some have been completely unable to accomodate, despite loving both separately.

Like most things, a compromise is often the best solution.  Average being more versatile.  Each has their own desire, need and fantasy.  However nothing in that suggests that one should be rude if confronted with something that otherly conforms to that desire, need or fantasy.

Flat chested women have silicon and saline to "help" them.  Small dicked guys have nothing and are routinely the joke about town.  Hell, even cavern pussy's can do kegels or get tightening surgery.




rhpaw -> RE: Size Matters? (9/18/2008 10:37:03 AM)

Sounds like the old joke give me twelve inches and make it hurt. Six inches twice and stepped on her toe. Maybe that could be the standard if everbody had six inches and you could order it in EEE like shoes. That way everyone would be happy.




hardbodysub -> RE: Size Matters? (9/19/2008 10:38:20 AM)


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ORIGINAL: rhpaw

Sounds like the old joke give me twelve inches and make it hurt. Six inches twice and stepped on her toe. Maybe that could be the standard if everbody had six inches and you could order it in EEE like shoes. That way everyone would be happy.


Or you could just whack her on the knuckles with a ruler.




PrincessJ77 -> RE: Size Matters? (9/19/2008 1:07:44 PM)

I have Joe Nichols' "Size Matters"  in my head right now.  As long as he's big hearted and evil, I'm happy.




trueshadow -> RE: Size Matters? (9/19/2008 9:45:31 PM)

I'd say I'm average in size.  However, I could feel the IUD in my first (rather small and tight) girlfriend.  I do find the whole notion that a guy has to be huge to 'take up the slack' in women who have been 'stretched' an impossible demand. 

Sex is nice, but if a woman loves you, truly, she and you will make it work.  As well as making up for her deficiencies.




MadAxeman -> RE: Size Matters? (9/19/2008 10:28:12 PM)

 I walked into my doctor's office this week. The doc asked me why I was there. I replied,
"It's my penis, Doc. I want you to take a look at it."
So, the doctor said,
"Ok, get up on the bed and get it out. I'll have a look at it for you."
I got up on the bed and whipped out my twelve incher. The doc examined it for a few moments, then bemusedly said

"I gotta tell you, I don't see anything wrong with it."
I replied, "Yeah, I know. It's a fucking beauty, ain't it?"




GreedyTop -> RE: Size Matters? (9/20/2008 12:09:29 AM)

*snort*




subboi3382 -> RE: Size Matters? (9/20/2008 1:41:13 AM)

i dont really care much about a dom's size, though my master is bigger than average




WyldHrt -> RE: Size Matters? (9/20/2008 3:34:08 AM)

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I do find the whole notion that a guy has to be huge to 'take up the slack' in women who have been 'stretched' an impossible demand.... As well as making up for her deficiencies.

Nice attempt to turn the tables, but your "counter attack" is a bit unwarrented. You seem to have missed the point that many folks have made here. By and large (pun intended), most of the females, myself included (and not a few of the males) who have responded to this thread rate emotional attachment and pleasing one's partner sexually far above penis/ vagina size. That said, no one is "damanding" anything, just stating preferences.

I really don't get what your issue is, esp since you state that your are "average"... but maybe it's just me.






SimplyMichael -> RE: Size Matters? (9/20/2008 7:10:26 AM)

Cock size is overrated and I say that having a rather nice one.  My tongue is very much on the short side and yet I think it is the thing women think of most fondly.




substobbws -> RE: Size Matters? (9/20/2008 3:15:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight

If a man has a small cock "It should say warning I am a man with a small cock" instead of telling a woman that it is a monster when the cock is a size ex-ex-small. This way he is not wasting my time. 


Maybe the problem is a cavernous pussy.


I believe Felicia Michaels is the comedian I've heard on XM covering the topic "What if women bragged the same way?" "My pussy is SOOOO big....."   [:D]




CalifChick -> RE: Size Matters? (9/20/2008 3:26:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Cock size is overrated and I say that having a rather nice one.  My tongue is very much on the short side and yet I think it is the thing women think of most fondly.


And don't forget your ears... so nice to hold on to.


Cali




Dnomyar -> RE: Size Matters? (9/22/2008 8:28:23 AM)

Cali you would love my ears. My dad pulled on them enough times. Not quite dumbo size.




MistresseLotus -> RE: Size Matters? (9/22/2008 9:32:17 AM)

All  male members of CM are 8 inches... 4" going in.. 4" coming out....




MISTRESSKUMA -> RE: Size Matters? (9/22/2008 9:33:54 AM)

men with thumb-dicks should be cuckheld or turned into a sissy.




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