peppermint
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Joined: 10/18/2005 From: Montana Status: offline
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I have read this thread with great amusement. Some like big, some like average, and some like one that is just right. (grinz) More power to all of you. Choose wisely. Just remember that as your beloved Dom gets older, the chances of him having bouts of erectile disfunction increase. Statistics show that 5% of men at 40 are having problems, 25% by age 65. From talking with my friends (yes, women sometimes do discuss their partners' performances at times) those statistics are very low. Perhaps the statistics are for those who are totally impotent, and not just having occasional problems. If size and penis inserted into vagina intercourse is important to you, please research your potential Dom's medical history. Many drugs and conditions can bring on ED...including heart conditions, strokes, diabetes, high blood pressure. If your Dom has one of these conditions or has a family history of these conditions you might wish to rethink your submission to him...especially if you are the type who prefer LTRs that are monogamous and consider intercourse a necessary activity. Now, I'm not saying that all males will have problems. I am saying that many do as they get older. If you NEED intercourse then you need to also carefully choose your partner. If...heaven forbid...your partner begins to experience ED, then hopefully he's an imaginative lover who can be inventive in bed. He might even be so imaginative that you forget he can't "get it up" and enjoy intimacy in a new way. I'm not forgetting the new drugs that assist a man with ED, such as viagra, levitra, or cialis. Those drugs are very good and work for many, but not all, men. However, most insurance companies will limit how many of these little pills they will pay for each month. One man I know normally has a $9 a month co pay. For viagra his co pay is $30 and he is limited to 4 precious pills a month. Also...remember that as women age, they get closer to menopause. Although you might feel it could never ever happen to you...many women lose any desire for sex at this time of their life. It can easily happen to you. Why have I written this? It's because we can all have our preferences, but preferences are just that. Life is funny and can throw you curve balls.....the wonderful Masterly Dom who was dealt the genes for a smaller than average penis, medical problems that no one could foresee when they were 30 become very real at 50, problems with ED, the hassles that can be part of menopause. We all have our preferences...but they are just that, preferences. Let's hope that our preferences are not carved in stone as life is never predictable. Let us adapt to what life throws at us....
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