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colouredin -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:23:14 AM)

and for long distance they are as close to 24/7 as they can be, isnt that it really because surely your argument is no differant from the having to pee one, really we can only be as much as we can be and we then get to decide what terminology fits what we are. If you dont get it thats cool but that doesnt mean that you are right, its an opinion and at the end of the day there isnt a universal definition for what any of this stuff means because life gets in the way there is no true anything.




Icarys -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:23:50 AM)

I can understand how you might be offended..you live exactly the way i'm saying is bullshit. You have a relationship with a female long distance or have had and want to call it 24/7 but it just isn't bud.




RCdc -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:26:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

That's where we have a different opinion again. service is part of it for me. as for a 24/7 slave..hell they all could be classified as that i guess but the truth is..we'd be squeezing them into a box that doesn't fit them all.


That is cool that we don't agree.  But I will ask then - if you have no submissive or slave - no one to service you- does that make you not dominant during those periods of time?
 
the.dark.




Icarys -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:28:16 AM)

That's off topic isn't it? Will you feel better if i don't have one?




RCdc -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:31:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

What he said


It also doesn't discount other peoples relationships. If you want to consider your relationship with a master when you aren't living with them 24/7 - have at it. You aren't going to convince everyone that  it is 24/7.
For myself i consider 24/7 physical access, not mental. C'est la vie. C'est la geir. 

next question?


And for other people it isn't only physical or sexual, it is mental and a state of mind and authority.  And for some people it isn't a role they play at a certain time, it is their being.
 
Again, I did not see this as a relationship question, but a orientation question.
 
the.dark.




RCdc -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:34:22 AM)

Oh I completely agree with the 'fulltime' and 'parttime' usage.  I am not a big fan of 24/7... but I can see why it is used, when there are so many types of of people.
 
.... and I don't believe you could be disparaging if you tried Treasure!
 
the.dark.




RCdc -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:36:28 AM)

So when you do not see your(generic) mother for more than a week, you aren't her daughter.  Got it.
 
the.dark.




natasha66 -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:38:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

So when you do not see your(generic) mother for more than a week, you aren't her daughter.  Got it.
 
the.dark.

 
LMAO....ok, i guess i am not my mother's daughter anymore since i haven't seen her in about a week, maybe more.  Oh well...sorry Mom [:D].




Icarys -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:39:46 AM)

I think that's where all differ..maybe if we had some consistency  when it came to word usage..(I know it was a lot better 10 years ago, at least to my recollection ) we might not have as many disagreements. I know some of you "hate labels" and profess that we don't fit into them but that's yet another crock lol..you fit somewhere somehow, trust me.





RCdc -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:40:20 AM)

Its not off topic - it relates to your definition.  By your definition, if there is no service, then it cannot be 24/7 anything - ergo- if you have no one servicing you right now, or have not in the past, then at that point, you were or are not dominant.
If you are unable to answer it because it contradicts your definition, sobeit.  I can accept that.
 
the.dark.




Icarys -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:47:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

Its not off topic - it relates to your definition.  By your definition, if there is no service, then it cannot be 24/7 anything - ergo- if you have no one servicing you right now, or have not in the past, then at that point, you were or are not dominant.
If you are unable to answer it because it contradicts your definition, sobeit.  I can accept that.
 
the.dark.


That's gotta be the silliest way to make yourself seem right i've seen tried in awhile lol. Where did i say that. All your trying to do is twist the words to fit your needs..Much like 24/7..I get where you are going but it's been said before. No it's not what was said... maybe that's how you percieved it.[:D]




colouredin -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:49:41 AM)

Ive gotta say im reading your sig line a lot and totally getting the irony




Icarys -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:50:54 AM)

Maybe try and read my entire posts?




RCdc -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:51:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

That's where we have a different opinion again. service is part of it for me. as for a 24/7 slave


I find that as clear as day.  In which case, without service, the same can be said for all dominants in the same breath...and you could fit all into the box that they might not have the room for.
 
he.dark.




littlekitten1 -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:52:19 AM)

Lol.. it feels so nice "Fitting" somewhere right? So you can feel like you're special or whatever...

I think this debate is kind of pointless, and it also shows how arrogant some people can be :-/

I still think we're arguing whether 24/7 is a blueberry pie or a strawberry pie... it doesn't matter. They are both pies! jeez lol.




softness -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:53:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: backseatbebe

if a computer is involved im sorry i see that as virtual, simple as that computer=virtual
i dont even need to worry about the actual debate about what type of relationship it is if there is a computer involved to provide service
im just saying why its not 24/7 because it involves a computer (if anything the computer is more 24/7 than her!!), in my opinion


So when for the last 6 months every mouthfull of food I ate was strictly controlled by another that was "virtual" was it? Because my food allowances were recorded in an email they were not 24? ... they were virtual food allowances?

When I was there to listen to worries about how divorce and changes of home and school would disturb his kids .. thats wasn't a real service? it was a virtual one because I was listening and supporting through a skype call rather than from a nadu at his feet?

I understand your difficulty ... life must be very limiting  .. when your imagination is so limited but trust me when I and others say that "virtual" slavery as you put it .. is not the slavering cyber sex you obviously imagine.

It might not be as real and true as whatever you have... but trust me ... its real and true.




Icarys -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 11:55:55 AM)

Your cute




Icarys -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 12:00:06 PM)

so from that simple line you deduced this extravagant definition. yes service is part of it for me.first hand service up close and personal. Does it mean I'm not a Dominant or she isn't a slave because of it..that's just nonsense. Still doesn't mean they are 24/7 . Service is definitely one of the needs for 24/7 doesn't mean it's all of them...




natasha66 -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 12:08:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: backseatbebe

if a computer is involved im sorry i see that as virtual, simple as that computer=virtual i dont even need to worry about the actual debate about what type of relationship it is if there is a computer involved to provide service im just saying why its not 24/7 because it involves a computer (if anything the computer is more 24/7 than her!!), in my opinion


Ok, let me get this straight:   To your way of thinking if i email Him (using my handy dandy computer) to tell Him i am thinking of Him, that means we do not have a "real" relationship by the mere fact i am not in His presence telling Him that.  Ya, that makes a whole boatload of sense to me.....NOT.




Icarys -> RE: What does 24/7 mean to you? (and a mini rant i suppose) (9/1/2008 12:12:47 PM)

I don't think i'm special..I just am sure where i belong. To some degree i would agree..it can be pointless. nothing wrong with a good heated talk from time to time.

As for changing anyone's mind about anything.. I never think it will..we all have different views and i'm sure for the most part it will stay that way. It would be nice to see some consistency though.




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