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slavedesires -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/27/2005 1:14:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelMI suppose there is a distance factor and one cannot beg to be released in person? just curious. how do you normally communicate? do it that way.

Misstoyou -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/27/2005 3:57:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jouet But now, the time has come. i want to move on. Guys, what can i do or say? Um, you can show her you have a profile here searching for her replacement? (Sorry, I couldn't help myself.) In addition, you can treat it like any other breakup (assuming you are not Gorean and therefore don't have to beg release.) You can tweak what you've said here: "I let myself get involved" but that "the time has come. I need (better than want IMO) to move on." "i'm not ready (better than interested) for a long term relationship (leave off the Her.) Keep to "I" statements. She will be unhappy, but it shouldn't kill her (and she shouldn't kill you.) Edited to take out something inappropriate.

orfunboi -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/27/2005 4:51:04 PM)
So tell her your not interested in a long term relationship....i don't see this being any different from breaking up with a vanilla girlfriend, just be honest and tell her how you feel.

krikket -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/27/2005 5:35:06 PM)
"ditto" (never thought i'd say that, but it needs nothing else..lol) quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied I speak for thousands of women when I say.....please be direct, don't hide, don't avoid confrontation. Bingo. Be direct, be honest, don't hide...Most of all, do it in person. Using a note, or an email, or the phone is just plain cowardly ( No offense meant to anyone) .

openmindedslave -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/27/2005 5:43:12 PM)
If you made a friend in her ...and many of do .... respect her and tell her you simply dont see a future in a longterm commitment. Tell her you dont want to waste her time in trying to stay exclusive to someone who isin't going to be there for her. Thats if your straight with her. Remember , you are doing her a favor by getting out quickly. She can get on with her life. And if you have made a friend out , then maybe you can still be friends afterwards... That will be up to her

orfunboi -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/27/2005 8:52:19 PM)
i know i've seen that crayon thing before.....hey krikket...is that you? calli

RiotGirl -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/28/2005 3:41:51 PM)
good luck

FelinePersuasion -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/28/2005 6:06:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MHOO314 No matter what end it, its no easier because its in the life---but some win and some lose--end it though with grace and dignity especially if She is in your area, as people in the life talk--- Hell people not in the life talk, my bf and I while both kinky was not DS and when he treated me like shit the 5 months before our breakup I had no qualms about letting any one know if they asked what a jerk he was and a liar, and lazy with no money

FelinePersuasion -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/28/2005 6:09:31 PM)
[ No matter what end it, its no easier because its in the life---but some win and some lose--end it though with grace and dignity especially if She is in your area, as people in the life talk--- Hell people not in the life talk, my bf and I while both kinky was not DS or in the comunity scene and when he treated me like shit the entire 5 months before our breakup I had no qualms about letting any one know if they asked what a jerk he was and a liar, and lazy with no money and how he was less than honorable in the waywe ended.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/28/2005 7:31:13 PM)
ok I don't know why that did a double post. I hit edit edited out the extrea quote code in there and hit ok not resend lol

plantlady64 -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/29/2005 9:19:34 AM)
Hello There, I'm sorry to say it so bluntly but SHAME ON YOU!! What on earth did you get into a relationship with someone you didn't want to have one with. I hope you don't hurt her too badly by your grand deception. I think for once you should be honest with her and tell her what a jerk you've been by using her for your own purposes while she was falling for you. Sincerely, sub suzanne

Sartoris32801 -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/29/2005 10:10:26 AM)
You;ll always have Paris: The problem is all inside your head Just slip out the back, Jack Make a new plan, Stan You don't need to be coy, Roy Just get yourself free Hop on the bus, Gus You don't need to discuss much Just drop off the key, Lee And get yourself free Printed without the permission of Paul Simon...but credit given for a great oldie Sartoris

Dracironsgirl -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/29/2005 5:37:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied I speak for thousands of women when I say.....please be direct, don't hide, don't avoid confrontation. best advice i could give you as well ...wish you well

PhoenixRisen -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (11/29/2005 6:06:44 PM)
quote: @jamesthehumanrug Can you please stop using commer's after every second word. Makes what you write hard to read and others would feel the same.... Thank you.... thank you... thank you.... thank you!!! quote: oh thank the gods!!!!!!!!! after 196 posts i was wondering if SOMEONE would say something about all those comma's and period's..damn, punctuations!! At first i excused it cause i thought English was NOT his mother tongue. And God bless you too. ShiftedJewel

trueshadow -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (12/1/2005 3:14:56 PM)
Commers? What the hell are commers? You mean, commas? The trend in English is for the comma to be used less and less. It used to be taught that you should use a comma everytime you would take a breath if you were reading the passage. Now, it's just for defining a list, for effect, and for a separate differnent parts of a sentence. It's a darn, darn shame. Whether young or old, a comma can come in handy. I have used them in sentences, when I'm speaking, or just for the heck of it. One thought is that the hurried nature of the times is reflected in a more punchy style of writing, e.g. with fewer commas. The writer who is more reflective, though, may be more inclined to use the comma. I'm a real, real traditionalist. As to the main topic of this thread, I like the 'lets be friends' line. Heck, women have used it on men for a millenium (or longer).

fastlane -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (12/1/2005 3:22:17 PM)
you fucked up....so hit yourself over the head with a mallet and claim amnesia. Works for me!

MadameDahlia -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (12/1/2005 3:26:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane you fucked up....so hit yourself over the head with a mallet and claim amnesia. Works for me! I scared the cat right off the bed when I started laughing. Poor little furball.

girl4you2 -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (12/1/2005 3:34:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied I speak for thousands of women when I say.....please be direct, don't hide, don't avoid confrontation. Bingo. Be direct, be honest, don't hide...Most of all, do it in person. Using a note, or an email, or the phone is just plain cowardly ( No offense meant to anyone) . yes, yes, and yes. honesty, dignity, directness, and in person if at all possible. as to the drama thing, that just perpetuates the myth that someone will scream, die, or some other catastrophic event will occur if you tell them the relationship is over. that just serves to keep honesty out of the relationship and/or the ending of it. trust me, we don't die when a relationship ends, and we don't hunt you down with an axe, either. be honest. with yourself and the other person.

fastlane -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (12/1/2005 3:43:05 PM)
I'd stick to the Mallet....personally!

girl4you2 -> RE: want to break up with my Mistress (12/1/2005 3:46:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane I'd stick to the Mallet....personally! for some, we do make exceptions to that mythical drama thing...cmere, i'll help you with that mallet!

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