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The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/1/2008 7:01:20 PM

LarTric

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Interestingly, almost all of them have ended the exact same way:

Masterbating to climax, followed by getting cleaned up with a cloth or paper towel, getting dressed, polite exchange of small talk with the Domme now out of "character", exit to the car.

After all these years, what I wrote described 98% of my sessions no matter the age or experience of the lady involved - like we're all reading the same playbook.

Surprisingly, I've never once had a pro-Domme request/order clean-up duty after ejaculating.

Would you say what I described was common or has anyone else experienced other, more unique ways in which their sessions concluded?

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/1/2008 7:06:00 PM

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Haha, I don't do all of that, but I have a domme friend who will squirt the offending sub with hospital-grade cleaner if he messes up the room.

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/1/2008 7:20:14 PM

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Is this a trick question?

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/1/2008 10:55:40 PM

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Ejaculation or none, I will often tell a client to clean up the room, put away implements, etc, taking things away for putting in the rubbish, washing etc, and when they're done showering they are required to make me a coffee.

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/1/2008 10:58:24 PM

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Jasmyn: . . .and when they're done showering they are required to make me a coffee.

Maaaan. ProDommes get ALL the perks.

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/1/2008 11:54:35 PM

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"Surprisingly"?

Why is it surprising?

Seriously, what else would you expect? Semen can transmit all kinds of nasty diseases.

And anyway, if you're paying for Her services and you want a different ending, why can't you just negotiate that prior to the session?

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/2/2008 1:33:07 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LarTric

Interestingly, almost all of them have ended the exact same way:

Masterbating to climax, followed by getting cleaned up with a cloth or paper towel, getting dressed, polite exchange of small talk with the Domme now out of "character", exit to the car.

After all these years, what I wrote described 98% of my sessions no matter the age or experience of the lady involved - like we're all reading the same playbook.

Surprisingly, I've never once had a pro-Domme request/order clean-up duty after ejaculating.

Would you say what I described was common or has anyone else experienced other, more unique ways in which their sessions concluded?

If you want something done well, do it yourself is my motto.
I like to clean, steralise and put my own tools away after my sessions.
I know where everything goes, in it's rightful place.

I have a domestic slave, that I summon in once or twice a week, so I have no need for my professional clients to clean my chambers

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/2/2008 4:33:30 AM

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A client of a pro-domme usually wants a certain type of dominance to occur. I might pay for some bondage and spanking and humiliation and pain and teasing. I won't pay for the "opportunity" to wax her car, do her taxes, arrange her files, and mop her floor. While there's a thin line on some things (such as making him deal with his own paperwork or mop up the place dressed like a french maid) there are some levels of service most people won't buy. Yes, of course there are men who seek pro-dommes to fulfill domestic slavery wishes, but that's not the bulk. It can't be. If it was, women wouldn't bitch so much about husbands not taking out the trash.

When you, LarTric, say no pro-domme you've ever worked with required "clean up after ejaculation" do you mean cleaning yourself up, or cleaning the workspace? I think its common courtesy to wipe your own load off someone's chair.

... These are the ignorant rantings of the uniformed, but not brain dead.

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/2/2008 5:12:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: LarTric
Masterbating to climax, followed by getting cleaned up with a cloth or paper towel,

I'm not a pro... but I tend to make my boys clean up by eating their own mess. At least the first time. After that, it's sort of a 'if I feel like feeding it to them' sort of thing. Would you prefer that?

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/2/2008 8:56:04 AM

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I never had any client clean up the studio... they cleaned themselves up, and if they made a mess on my shoes... I am not sure what the point of this question is.

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/2/2008 9:25:02 AM

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My Professional sessioins rarely end that way. If they do, it's because the guy thinks he HAS to and insists. (In that case, he can have a condom to contain the mess, and I'll start washing down the tools and such I used on him while he handles his business off to the side. They're generally not asked back.)

If someone makes a mess (not counting the tools that need to be disinfected, etc), I will make them clean it up as punishment. But I'll probably go over it again after they've left: you don't want to leave clean up to someone else in a professional setting. Other people have to use that room, that cross or that horse: it's my responsibility to make sure it's clean for the next set of people.

The session itself supplies "release": when I'm done tormenting/teasing you, there's an end to the play and we can go into aftercare. I would say that you need to find people who structure their sessions differently than the norm: even most people who are used to touching themselves feel that it would be odd to do so when playing with me, because it doesn't fit in.

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/2/2008 10:57:23 AM

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LH the shoes have to come off.

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/2/2008 10:58:09 AM

LadyHibiscus

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Dude, they paid EXTRA for me to wear those uncomfortable shoes!

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/2/2008 11:10:02 AM

Dnomyar

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Well seeing as that Im not going to pay you. Wait a minute was that a hint? Op if a person will not clean up after themselves they should be avoided.

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/2/2008 11:24:27 AM

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Being the servant boi...I've had to do the clean up. Then again...that's never involved semen as MsK doesn't allow Her clients to get off during a session. So I'm not playing with body fluids...and frankly, for my peace of mind, neither is She. Close personal contacts, I don't much get to comment on unless She asks me. When it comes to business, we agree on just about everything...so there's no room really for discussion.

Yes, She gets reved up and ready to go...basically, since the client is paying for a sometimes somewhat scripted session, it's a warm up for Her....and after the session and the client leaves and the boi doing the REAL service of cleaning up the session, She gets off by doing exactly what She wants to do. And since in the session She doesn't get off, due to many reasons not just legal ones, why should a client?...They're paying to be dominated...and get warned that bitching or crying about the fact that they get exactly what they paid for means no more sessions for them.

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PS...yes I posted "REAL service,"...jackasses who want to play the game of "serving" a Domme...Pro or not...by demanding they get what they want through any levrage they can are not serving. It's a bullshit game they tell themselves so that they can have their fantasy the way they want it. And I just don't understand why they can't just own up to needing to roleplay and negotiating a scripted scene...even though those are no fun anyways. Remember, taking it up the ass because you want it does NOT constitute service...it's just plain ole sex. Now taking it up the ass despite that it violates your sense of identity, but you want to please Her and meet Her desires...(obviously this all includes good communication of needs and coping)...that's service.

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/2/2008 11:25:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Well seeing as that Im not going to pay you. Wait a minute was that a hint? Op if a person will not clean up after themselves they should be avoided.

Ray, you never told me you wanted to buy me shoes, how kind! There are some fabulous Jimmy Choo's that I have my eye on...

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/2/2008 5:31:36 PM

LarTric

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By clean up duty, I meant where the sub would be ordered to lick up his mess. Not that I'm complaining, but if you read through Femdom erotica, this is an extremely common theme, yet (as I mentioned above) this has never happened once in all these years.

It's like the climax officially ends the playtime.

In many cases, a professional has a good idea of how she wants a session to play out, thus the question of the different ways in which a session winds down versus the experiences I've had.

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/2/2008 5:36:48 PM

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Many dominants would ask that of a submissive... as for pro's I don't know how they would want it. BUT... if you are dealing in fantasy... and paying for it... ask for it! But most of us are not a fantasy and don't work based on a fantasy, although we might make some come true, we typically don't like to be compared to the fantasy dominant in erotica.

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/2/2008 9:53:10 PM

dreamerdreaming

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Oh. Thank you for clarifying, LarTric.

When I have my boy masturbate for me, I do have him eat his cum. That's good protein, why waste it!
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But I'll take this opportunity to reiterate: you are paying for a service, therefore you should negotiate your terms to your satisfaction prior to the session. If you want to be ordered to eat your cum, and want the Pro Domme to stay "in character" for the duration of your face to face interaction, you can and should make this understood prior to the meeting.

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RE: The last few minutes of a professional session... - 9/3/2008 1:58:43 AM

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As above, thanks for clarifying

... I did wonder if that is what you were alluding to in your op. Depends on the person and if making them eat their cum serves the purpose for the session or my mood... eg if it is a erotic bondage and tease, with no humiliation aspect or ownership aspect to it and they ejaculate, the power play is in the physical, the sensations, not psychological, so I have to ask myself what purpose will it serve to have them clean up every last drop ... for the average eb&t client eating their cum isn't high on their list of must do's that day... some I've teased/cajoled to do it but mostly I won't force it on them...I conduct my sessions fully clothed and most are embarrassed enough about soiling themselves in my presence. .... Humilation/ownership clients it's definitely a potential outcome ..making them eating their cum is symbollic, ritualistic, controlling ..

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