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JerryFrankster -> Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 4:25:31 PM)

Ever since I discovered this site, I've wondered why there were separate "Ask a Master/Mistress" forums, but one forum for Ask a Sub/Slave.

Does anybody know why this is?




CalifChick -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 4:36:49 PM)

Because the Dommes skeeeer the Doms but the subs don't skeeer the subs.


Cali




CruelDesires -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 5:21:42 PM)

What sane man wouldn't be skeered of a woman with a large strapon and a whip? [&:]

C-D




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 5:25:25 PM)

Even the insane ones are skeeeeered to us.  And wisely so. [;)]




Tetron -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 5:30:21 PM)

I think the primary reason for this is two fold, first dommes and doms tend not to get along in general and second tend to handle subs and slaves in completely different fashions, from talking to both I have learned that a domme would respond completely differently from a dom to the same question almost 100% of the time. A third reason that just occured to me is that those seeking the advice of a dom, and those seeking the advice of a domme will almost never be the same person, so yet another reason to have 2 seperate forums. Subs and slaves tend to be more shades of grey then the black and white that doms and dommes are. 




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 5:37:42 PM)

Probably because generally speaking, the male sub/slaves don't participate as much as their female counterparts. 

That's a nice way of saying we gurls like to talk, talk, talk.  [;)]




JerryFrankster -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 5:44:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

Probably because generally speaking, the male sub/slaves don't participate as much as their female counterparts. 

That's a nice way of saying we gurls like to talk, talk, talk.  [;)]


I've noticed that, considering the proportion of male subs to everyone else, the male subs seem to be a quiet bunch.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 6:06:11 PM)

The male subs yap away on the Mistress forum.  Thank goodness! 




yourMissTress -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 6:12:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tetron

I think the primary reason for this is two fold, first dommes and doms tend not to get along in general and second tend to handle subs and slaves in completely different fashions, from talking to both I have learned that a domme would respond completely differently from a dom to the same question almost 100% of the time. A third reason that just occured to me is that those seeking the advice of a dom, and those seeking the advice of a domme will almost never be the same person, so yet another reason to have 2 seperate forums. Subs and slaves tend to be more shades of grey then the black and white that doms and dommes are. 


Dominant women and men don't get along?  Uh oh.  I wish someone had told me this earlier.  I have tons of friends who are dominant males, and even a lover who is a dominant male...what the hell am I supposed to do now?  KoM, Merc, Ron, and the rest of the Dom men that I like to read and chat with here on the boards are just fictional?  Well, I know some of them would like to think they are too good to be true.[:D]
 
Tongue out of cheek...
 
I disagree with the assertion that Doms and Dommes don't get along.  And to prove it, take a look at the cross posting on those boards.
 
I disagree that dominant men and women are black and white.  There are as many different dominant persons and styles and ideas as there are submissives.
 
I disagree that we have such different approaches (as the two sexes) from each other.  Many of the specifics may be different, but we are hardly diametrically opposed.
 
 




CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 6:15:25 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: JerryFrankster

Ever since I discovered this site, I've wondered why there were separate "Ask a Master/Mistress" forums, but one forum for Ask a Sub/Slave.

Does anybody know why this is?



I would suspect that it is because the dominant men would prefer not to participate in a forum where CBT, ball-stomping, ball-sack injections, penile piercings, enforced chastity, penis cages, and cuckolding are discussed on a regular basis. [;)]

CFB




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 6:19:26 PM)

quote:

the male subs seem to be a quiet bunch.


odd...i thought they were the ones that post the whining threads???




christine1 -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 6:23:37 PM)

Op would you like some cheese to go with that whine?  who the hell cares?  there's plenty of room here to state your opinions in any thread.




Thadius -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 6:23:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Even the insane ones are skeeeeered to us.  And wisely so. [;)]


Speaking as one of the insane ones... Who is I skeeeeeredededed of again?[;)]




Jeffff -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 6:28:00 PM)

I am not skeeerddddddd.... but I do stand with my back against the wall..............

besides...... we ALL know.. that all Dommes. are just waiting for the right man.... to dom them.........

It's a given

MisogynistDom.............:)




JerryFrankster -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 6:29:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

quote:

the male subs seem to be a quiet bunch.


odd...i thought they were the ones that post the whining threads???



Oh, is that what that sound is?




bipolarber -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 8:57:33 PM)

Male subs tend to be more quiet, simply because they're a little insecure about their desires. They don't see being sub as being "macho." It's stupid, and it's a product of social programming, but it seems to be true in any case.

Unfortunate, too. We're all missing out on their experience, and imagination.




VampiresLair -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 9:01:21 PM)

I always asumed that the aska  sub/slave thread was becsaue there isnt a title for a male slave vs a female slave. There is Master and Mistress... but I call my female submissive a sumissive and I call my male submissive a submissive, Id call my male slave a slave and my female slave a slave. There simply arent 2 names to be used for it... so its open season.

DV




Vendaval -> RE: Why two Dom/me forums, but only one sub forum? (9/3/2008 9:58:32 PM)

That is because the Mistress and Master types just reach down into the cargo hold and pull the nearest leash and out comes a slave!




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