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DesFIP -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 5:40:34 AM)

We live together and spend as much time as possible together. But we have offspring and other family members so I can't be naked and cuffed all day. Couldn't anyway, I'd freeze to death!

Beyond that, our friends and families think we have an admirable relationship because after 5 years, we're still together as much as possible, we still hold hands, we still show each other sincere affection. They judge on what they see and observe. And what they see is that we respect and love each other.



persephonee -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 5:46:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: variation30

I'd like to, but I've yet to find anyone. That being the case, I have no idea whether or not my life would allow it.


um...your sig line speaks volumes here.



thetammyjo -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 6:26:02 AM)

Honestly the answer to this question is: How do you define 24/7?

If for you it must mean the dom always exercising power and authority over the sub then I'm guessing no one lives 24/7 -- parents don't even do that folks over their smallest offspring.

If you mean that one of you has the authority all the time in your dynamic, then a good number of us do this 24/7.

Given my slave's family of origin issues I "free" him before he visits so he has more psychological and emotional power to combat them with -- something we determined was best after several years. So we are more 350 days a year.



azropedntied -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 8:25:28 AM)

U two ROCK ! ^5

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

Darcy and I live 24/7.  Otherwise we would be dead.
24/7 is a metaphor, try not to make it into something it isn't.
 
the.dark.



VampiresLair -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 8:28:44 AM)

We live 24/7. I love him, he loves me. I dont bark orders constantly, and he isnt kno his knees scrambling to do as I please all the time. We do, however, always think about one another and how to make the other happy. We think about things as how they pertain to US now not just ME or HIM. To me, thats 24/7 enough.

DV



knees2you -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 8:54:25 AM)

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If for you it must mean the dom always exercising power and authority over the sub then I'm guessing no one lives 24/7 -- parents don't even do that folks over their smallest offspring.


I Believe Slaves live the 24/7 lifestyle.
 
This works if you have a Job, an outside life.
 
quote:

If you mean that one of you has the authority all the time in your dynamic, then a good number of us do this 24/7.


ALways, knees2you[sm=cactus.gif]




ODadEO -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 8:56:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: califsue

...Though Master is in my mind 24/7 and all my actions and such are based on that.


To me, that is what 24/7 is about.  Unless I win the lottery there would be no way to actually live this all the time, but knowing she accepts and regards me as her owner all the time is the clincher.  That makes it not a game or scene, but a way of life, eh?



akisha -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 9:22:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: knees2you

   knees2you here.
 
Just wondering how many people live 24/7
or can't because of other things?
 

 
I live 24/7 cause i have not yet figured out how to die and come back. Though there have been a few times I wished I could hehehe

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What do Your families think about it?
How many know.
 
Did this come about because of Work, friends, magazine, etc.
 
I myself do not live this 24/7. maybe 5/7 [:D]
 
My Family is all Dominate and I'm the submissve one.
 
Always, knees2you[sm=bowdown.gif][sm=ballchain.gif]


I live the life that makes sense.

Master is Master, I am his. Do i kneel and call him Master everywhere every time?  Hell no, one it would be seriously innapropriate alot of the time, and two, i feel no need to advertise my personal life to strangers or co-workers.

My family and freinds know as much as they care to know and I leave it at that. My mother is happy as long as I am happy, even if she doesn't understand my motivation at times.



AnnaOfAramis -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 9:26:27 AM)

To me 24/7 is living with my Master and being under his will and authority for everything that comes up in life. Does this mean I am with him every second of every day? No! No more than a husband and wife in a vanilla marriage are together every second. Does this mean he makes all the decisions? No, but it does mean he has the final word. Some decisions, I know I must seek his permission or input first and others I know he trusts me to make on my own....what to buy at the grocery store, how to structure my time during the day to get things done- these I can do by myself and he wouldn't want someone that. But he has the power to step in and provide direction should I seem in need of it for whatever reason. BDSM activities have nothing to do with 24/7. Those activities may be done occasionally within a 24/7 dynamic, but the dynamic does not exist because of them. I do not need to be naked and sucking a cock all day for it to be 24/7! As a slave, I keep the Master's household in order, take care of meals and other duties that my Master sees fit for me to do. I also am allowed to work, raise children, and have hobbies. These things feed who I am and enable me to be the person that he wishes to own. When we have guests around, or children around, naturally we aren't doing "BDSM" activities, anymore than most vanilla people would have sex in front of these people! His rules however always remain in place, unless he tell me that they are modified for a certain occasion. I simply follow my rules subtly, and people who don't know, don't even notice because they don't know what to look for. They think sitting on the floor is because the seats are filled, or because I'm one of those people who likes to sit on the floor... they think I wait for my Master to eat first because I am polite. They think he lets me out of the car because he is chivalrous. They see what fits their own reality, not what the real reasons are. And, so yes we live 24/7... He is dominant because that is his nature, and my nature responds to him as a slave. We can't stop being who we are or realting the way we do. We just are.



AquaticSub -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 10:32:56 AM)

~Fast Reply~

24/7 we live, breath and love each other. 24/7 he also has the power to give me orders and make me dance like a monkey should he choose. Some people know about the officaly, nifty, uber-awesome way we define our relationship, some people just know I like my man to wear the pants.

Not everyone needs to know every detail of our relationship and sometimes I just don't feel like explaining it. I think 24/7 comes as easily as being in any other type of committed relationship when it's with the right person.



LaTigresse -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 11:36:50 AM)

I live 24/7 because I haven't figured out any happy medium to the only alternative available right now. Dead 24/7.

Just because a slave isn't naked at my feet begging, doesn't mean she isn't my slave.



stella41b -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 2:13:10 PM)

I think about my own lifestyle 24/7, does that count?

Does thinking 24/7 count (when I sleep I'm dreaming, that's still thinking, isn't it?)



Constrictor1 -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 3:36:52 PM)

Hello kneestoyou,
  I do live the "24/7 lifestyle." I put this in quotations because the reality is more like 16/7. Just a little humor here.[:D]  I find the reference 24/7 to be inaccurate. I do have to sleep sometime and I really don't have any idea how to be dominant or master someone while we are asleep. I guess that make me less than a TWUE master.[:o]

Constrictor1



Morniel -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 6:12:10 PM)

We live 24/7, if by that you mean, we live a D/s, male-led household type of life. 

If you mean do I run around in a corset and wrist cuffs all the time and does he run around flicking my behind with a riding crop all the time?

Hardly. That's bedroom play stuff, not household, lifestyle stuff.
But yes indeed, he is always in charge, and I am always his.

And LOL, Constrictor... good point! I wonder if I am submissive in my sleep?



MAMandSlave -> RE: 24/7 or life doesn't allow it? (9/4/2008 6:24:24 PM)

We live 24/7 and are most often mistake for father and daughter....briefly...
It is just natural for us.



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