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heyjohn56 -> Mentoring (9/4/2008 11:42:50 AM)
I'm a novice Master who has done a lot of reading and research, but there's nothing like experience. I'd like to know where I might get some 'mentoring'. I want to know more about what to do when considering a sub, what kinds of assignments to give, and of course more about scenes, how to make them safe and pleasurable. Thanks in advance for any advice.

GabrielleSlave -> RE: Mentoring (9/4/2008 11:46:28 AM)
Hey, just perved Your profile to find You don't exist... Gabrielle x

LaTigresse -> RE: Mentoring (9/4/2008 12:11:58 PM)
Mentoring 101, How to Mentor the Non-Existance Dominant

CalifChick -> RE: Mentoring (9/4/2008 12:14:36 PM)
A location would be helpful. Cali

azropedntied -> RE: Mentoring (9/4/2008 12:24:48 PM)
use the force ? U all crack me up .. john in case your existence maybe real and question as well , I suggest you get involved in your areas community , observe and take notice of Tops you admire then approach respectfully and ask for tips and guidance .

heyjohn56 -> RE: Mentoring (9/4/2008 12:28:46 PM)
On CM my profile is SirLucas.

heyjohn56 -> RE: Mentoring (9/4/2008 12:33:05 PM)
Sorry for my improper introduction. On CM I'm SirLucas. I'm a novice in the Chicago area. I'm more interested in learning how to apply the mental and emotional aspects of D/s in establishing and maintaining a relationship with a prospective sub. We're both married so this will be done part-time and most of our discussions will happen online. If there's anything else I left out due to my ineptness at this point, please let me know. I'm a quick learner.

GabrielleSlave -> RE: Mentoring (9/4/2008 12:36:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: heyjohn56 On CM I'm SirLucas. This is isn't CM then? Blimey i'm in the wrong place runs for the door before anyone sees

LaTigresse -> RE: Mentoring (9/4/2008 12:36:15 PM)
Married, sneaking behind a spouses back, and online. I am bowing out of this one before I give Madame Eleven just cause to write me a love note.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Mentoring (9/4/2008 12:37:26 PM)
You are probably in the wrong place to get mentoring for a cheating relationship. The majority of us frown upon that, so we arent going to be very keen to help you learn. Good luck DV

sirsholly -> RE: Mentoring (9/4/2008 12:39:58 PM)
what LadyT and Diurnal said.......

kinkypuppy2 -> RE: Mentoring (9/4/2008 12:46:54 PM)
The honor of being asked to mentor someone is right near the top. Best place is to get involved with your local bdsm community and just talk to and learn about who is who, then approch them with your request. Get references

BDezy00 -> RE: Mentoring (9/4/2008 4:53:25 PM)
I'm a novice master seeking mentoring as well. I'm in Maryland just north of DC.

kiwisub12 -> RE: Mentoring (9/4/2008 5:07:15 PM)
same advice - check out your local bdsm community.

AnnaOfAramis -> RE: Mentoring (9/6/2008 6:05:31 AM)
This girl's Master, MasterAramis is happy to mentor novice dominants; however he will have no part in someone who is cheating on a spouse. Honor, integrity, and trust are the foundation of what he teaches, so the idea would be incompatible. Regards, anna

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