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winterlight -> I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to.. (9/5/2008 7:12:17 AM)
I have tried massaging my clit and also have tried two vibrators and nothing works. I think the nerves in my clit are damaged. Please no jokes as i am serious about this. I feel like i am broken by this.

sirsholly -> RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to.. (9/5/2008 7:13:59 AM)
are you taking any medications? That issue can be a side effect with some of them.

kittinSol -> RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to.. (9/5/2008 7:15:40 AM)
I doubt the nerves are damaged. See a health professional: there are too many factors to take into account to make a diagnostic online.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to.. (9/5/2008 7:17:44 AM)
Have you done any type of play that could have damaged these nerves?

thishereboi -> RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to.. (9/5/2008 7:17:48 AM)
I would go to a Dr I trust and see if they can figure it out. You mentioned nerve damage. Did something happen that you think may of caused it?

persephonee -> RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to.. (9/5/2008 7:19:13 AM)
Not enough information. Do you masturbate daily or more often using a vibrator? Do you soley focus on your clit for an extended period of time? Do your sexual partners treat your clit roughly...with fingernails, foreign objects and the like? Are you pierced? The clit is both mucous membrane and erectile tissue. It can regain sensitivity but that requires a complete lack of contact for an extended period of time...weeks if not months...not 6 months usually, but a looong time. The only contact should be the accidental/hopefully not accidental contact during coitus....this means every one needs to keep their respective paws off her until such a time as she is speaking to you again. Please respond to these questions and if you prefer PM me privately. thank you perse btw....the hitachi magic wand is the hammer of the Gods...but it will defeat you in the end....i know...ive gone thru three of them....and my clit is A-OK...but has to be protected.

baisemoigurl -> RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to.. (9/5/2008 7:23:20 AM)
Don't take anything you hear from people on the internet too seriously, especially when it refers to your health. So here's my advise. You may be having some difficulty in your life, due to stress from relationships, job etc... and you try to put that all to the side so you can enjoy sex or masurbation. It seems like you're not thinking about your problems, but you are. Your subconscious is the puppetmaster for your orgasms (and everything else for that matter). So whether you like it or not, you may have to do some digging to find out what is causing this 'problem'. I put that in quotes because the first step is to just accept things the way they are and then try to deal with them in a non-traumatic way. Be cool, chill about it, and try to go one step at a time to investigate causes. I think I heard that female orgasms are 90 psychologically induced and I can believe it. Best of luck Paris

Dnomyar -> RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to.. (9/5/2008 7:23:28 AM)
BS persephonee I am the hammer of the Gods.

LaTigresse -> RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to.. (9/5/2008 7:23:54 AM)
Do the smart thing, turn your computer off and your phone on. Call your gyno and schedule an appointment.

AnnaOfAramis -> RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to.. (9/5/2008 7:38:30 AM)
Your age may also have something to do with it- ask your doctor. Sometimes, women approaching menopause can lose orgasms because of hormones. Maybe there is something he can do about it. Also, what others have said is true too... stress can impact it, and if you use a lot of vibrators like a bullet, they can make you a little immune to orgasms for awhile. So give those a rest for awhile. Later on, try the hitachi. The hitachi is the BEST. Wish they'd make some higher speed settings though and a longer cord! :D best wishes, anna

Aneirin -> RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to.. (9/5/2008 2:37:20 PM)
Ok, we all know the mind is the biggest and most powerful sex organ, when you pleasure, how do you think. Are you anxious or relaxed ? Now I know something of this, SSRI'S did some damage, but I will admit anxiety is my biggest problem and the anxiety breeds misfunction which breeds anxiety and so on. My cure was to just plain forget about it all and concentrate on other things. Nature did it's thing when one day, out of the blue, totally unexpected I felt arousal. Yeehar, I was back online, nothing like it was, except for a time when I got fed up and quit the meds only to get what the doc called satyriaisis, that was scary, (I wondered why the cats were keeping away) So, you might not be on medication, but misfunction does occur naturally and that causes anxiety and so forth. Perhaps backing off for a while might help you.

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