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new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to make i... - 9/6/2008 1:21:21 PM   
honestrob


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Status: offline 		New to this lifestyle.Found newer mistress as well, any suggestions on positions or implements that would make it more enjoyable for her to give me spankings?
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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/6/2008 1:48:32 PM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		I had one that a lot of male subs enjoyed:  having them bend over my lap with their erection directly between my knees.  I would find them humping in time to the spanking (done either with hand or leather strap but have easily have been done with a paddle).

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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/6/2008 3:36:13 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		Her hand your  ass ??no implement is better !Position's umm anywhere and any way she puts you  has always  worked well   .

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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/6/2008 3:42:18 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		You sure grow'em big in Ohio... two honest something or other newbies from Ohio, same size, one who wants spanking idea's and one who has ten years experience in spanking, but wants spanking ideas.  You might want to take notes from the other honest one.

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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/6/2008 3:47:08 PM   
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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/6/2008 3:50:11 PM   
azropedntied


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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/6/2008 3:51:35 PM   
Lockit


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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/6/2008 3:53:16 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

LOCKIT C S I  impressive  



CSI=complete spanking instructions  manual

i think the op needs one.....


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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/6/2008 3:58:04 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		They even have that book too , the complete spanker's manual i think its called ..too lazy to look it up .. Also why i did not catch it Lockit  to lazy to do the investigative  work on multi user name posters .

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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

LOCKIT C S I  impressive  



CSI=complete spanking instructions  manual

i think the op needs one.....


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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/6/2008 10:19:06 PM   
ineedotk


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ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

I had one that a lot of male subs enjoyed:  having them bend over my lap with their erection directly between my knees.  I would find them humping in time to the spanking (done either with hand or leather strap but have easily have been done with a paddle).



I would enjoy that immensely.

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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/7/2008 2:17:05 AM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		Don't forget the value of the warm up ... starting lightly and gradually increasing the intensity is generally more pleasurable for the sub ... and lets the scene last longer. If Her hand gets sore, a paddle is a relatively easy instrument to get the hang of. Can use hair brush, flat wooden spoon, ruler as a simple paddle!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/7/2008 7:51:01 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Leather glove will also spare her hand, I'm told. Plus a hairbrush can come in handy.

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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/7/2008 2:01:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit

It wasn't rocket science... lol


It was Lockit science Ma`am

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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/7/2008 2:35:36 PM   
Lockit


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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

It wasn't rocket science... lol


LOL... scary!

It was Lockit science Ma`am

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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/7/2008 8:53:21 PM   
ineedotk


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ORIGINAL: MaamJay

Don't forget the value of the warm up ... starting lightly and gradually increasing the intensity is generally more pleasurable for the sub ... and lets the scene last longer. If Her hand gets sore, a paddle is a relatively easy instrument to get the hang of. Can use hair brush, flat wooden spoon, ruler as a simple paddle!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]



You're so right, Maam Jay. 

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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/7/2008 9:01:02 PM   
DominaSusan


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Status: offline 		My First toy was a paddle. One side was ‘furry’ the other leather. It works just great. I use the furry side to warm up and then switch over to the leather side to get things really hot. You should definitely bend over, say knees on floor and laying face down on your sofa. Your bed with you kneeling, ass in air, is another option if she has any height issues. Oh, have fun! Spanking is such a great way to start a relationship.

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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/9/2008 11:23:26 PM   
ineedotk


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ORIGINAL: DominaSusan

My First toy was a paddle. One side was ‘furry’ the other leather. It works just great. I use the furry side to warm up and then switch over to the leather side to get things really hot. You should definitely bend over, say knees on floor and laying face down on your sofa. Your bed with you kneeling, ass in air, is another option if she has any height issues. Oh, have fun! Spanking is such a great way to start a relationship.



So well put, Domina Susan.

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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/10/2008 4:51:21 AM   
TheLadyConstance


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Status: offline 		I have a small arsenal of spanking implements that I employ.  My hand can only last so long before I have to switch to something more rugged.  I prefer my victims to be on the bed (or other raised, sturdy surface) with their ass in the air and their head down.  I'd lovelovelove to have a spanking bench or similar that I can securely lock a victim down to.

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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/10/2008 7:54:30 AM   
Pyrrsefanie


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Status: offline 		This is 100% not an attempt at wank material, don't hold back ladies, he even SAYS he's honest!

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RE: new to lifestyle what are some spanking ideas to ma... - 9/10/2008 11:16:46 PM   
ineedotk


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ORIGINAL: TheLadyConstance

I have a small arsenal of spanking implements that I employ.  My hand can only last so long before I have to switch to something more rugged.  I prefer my victims to be on the bed (or other raised, sturdy surface) with their ass in the air and their head down.  I'd lovelovelove to have a spanking bench or similar that I can securely lock a victim down to.



And I have no doubt that you are well experienced with all those implements, Lady Constance.

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