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Nipple play - 9/6/2008 2:33:11 PM   
L8bloomer


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Status: offline 		For those of you who have had your nipples clamped/clipped (but NOT pierced), have you experienced desensitization? I'm not talking about what happens at the time. I'm talking about long term effects. Have you found that your nipples are not as sensitive, that it takes more to garner the same sensations than you experienced in the past?

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RE: Nipple play - 9/6/2008 3:11:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've spoken with a submissive male who says he has lost some sensitivity in his nipples as a result of excessive use of clamps, and I believe there was a thread on this very topic a few months ago.  You might try doing a search.  It was quite a lengthy one, as I recall.

Edited to add the link to the thread:  Not as long as I remembered it being, but still some interesting stuff posted.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1076640/mpage_1/key_nipples/tm.htm#1077411

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RE: Nipple play - 9/6/2008 4:08:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		I remember reading somewhere that clamps should not be left on for more than 20 minutes, as the damage is caused by the restricted blood flow. I am always amazed that they hurt more when taken off, than when put on.

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RE: Nipple play - 9/6/2008 4:58:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		desensitization is a possibility.  Sometimes the sensitization will come back and sometimes it will not.  To date, I have never seen a particular way to determine how a person will be affected or not.  It is a risk that people need to be aware of... and make the choice that suits them best.

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RE: Nipple play - 9/6/2008 5:51:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've always thought this was the result of reduced blood flow to them for a long period of time. Long being defined as above 15 to 20 minutes.

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RE: Nipple play - 9/6/2008 7:07:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		I really didn't get my point across, so I will try to rephrase. What I am referring to is long term nipple play, after doing so for about a year or longer. Not an individual occurrence but something that has come about over time. Say, for example, you've not kept them on for too long at any one time, but it's been done repeatedly over time. Has anyone in this situation experienced the aforementioned?





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RE: Nipple play - 9/6/2008 7:20:47 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: L8bloomer

I really didn't get my point across, so I will try to rephrase. What I am referring to is long term nipple play, after doing so for about a year or longer. Not an individual occurrence but something that has come about over time. Say, for example, you've not kept them on for too long at any one time, but it's been done repeatedly over time. Has anyone in this situation experienced the aforementioned?



my answer is the same.  But I will add this

desensitization can be at only a specific intensity... for example... my alandra has little sense to soft touch but the more hard touch has not changed... we been together significantly longer than a year.... about 20.

Kyra has been with me about 3 years and isn't and different now as it was then.  my activity with the two of them is not any different... guess we will see in about 17years.  of course.. there is the question of age too.

Sooooooo many things to consider...

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RE: Nipple play - 9/6/2008 7:32:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		I used to worry about desensitization.  But so far, I've had no issues and I adore breast play and nipple torture (as does the Domly One)

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RE: Nipple play - 9/7/2008 7:16:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not at all. After all these years of using clamps, weights, vacuum devices, etc my nipples are quite prominant and very sensitive all the time. Like when the wind blows, moves my shirt against them, I sometimes get a tingle. Now, a Master recently made me release from noting but nipple play.


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RE: Nipple play - 9/7/2008 7:16:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think, for me, it must depend on the weather or something.

Sometimes I can feel very little, and othertime, they're hyper sensitive.

Pass on whether this is due to playing with them lots and using a variety of clampy/clippy/peggy things.  Or, yanno, the weather.

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RE: Nipple play - 9/7/2008 10:23:11 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I've always thought this was the result of reduced blood flow to them for a long period of time. Long being defined as above 15 to 20 minutes.


I've only had my nipples clamped twice, for about fifteen minutes each time so I can't answer any desensitization questions like the rest.

But it would seem to me like if you are going to potentially encounter a permanent change in sensitivity past 20 or so minutes, then you'd want them off at that point, but knowing when they'd be coming off would sort of take the suspense out of it.

I know when I had them on I was completely restrained and had no idea when they were going to be ripped off and the not knowing part probably made it more enjoyable.

Perhaps this is where 'manual intervention' in the form of biting, pinching, sucking, etc. could come into play, after the clamps are removed.

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RE: Nipple play - 9/7/2008 11:57:45 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53
I remember reading somewhere that clamps should not be left on for more than 20 minutes, as the damage is caused by the restricted blood flow. I am always amazed that they hurt more when taken off, than when put on.


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RE: Nipple play - 9/7/2008 12:11:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		So that would be a YES ... what you describe is NOT a degree of intensity ... it's a totally different touch receptor.  Sensory nerve endings include: Light Touch, Deep Pressure (or Hard Touch), vibration, cool, hot cold, ... there might even be a couple I don't recall ... or newly discovered. 

I infer that she Alandra still has a little bit of light touch sensation, and I can only deduce that still might exist on the periphery where the underlying tissues haven't been deprived of oxygen for too long &/or haven't been directly subject to clamping because it's on the tippy tip tip and the clamp can't hang on w/o more meat under it.

So, if she's lost "soft touch" that equates to permanent damage to those specific nerve endings. 

It COULD also represent accomodation of those nerve endings not to fire off a sensory signal until it has met a higher threshold ... which would be an adaption to frequent very hard pressure ... as opposed to destruction of those nerve endings. But this would be equivalent to changing light touch nerve endings to deep touch nerve endings.  So it works out to about the same thing.

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
desensitization can be at only a specific intensity... for example... my alandra has little sense to soft touch but the more hard touch has not changed

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RE: Nipple play - 9/8/2008 4:35:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well mine have been pierced in the past and are regularly clamped and/or wieghted but lucky for me they stay as sensitive as ever.

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RE: Nipple play - 9/8/2008 6:58:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		then again... the damage could of been nursing 4 little ones ... which is when the actually decrease in sensitivity actually began....... 

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RE: Nipple play - 9/8/2008 7:29:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Quickest way for a woman to turn me on is playing with my nipples.

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RE: Nipple play - 9/8/2008 8:15:55 AM   
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RE: Nipple play - 9/8/2008 11:54:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		this slaves nipples are getting more and more sensitive in time. that means they are erect much quicker (wind can be enough), but of course i am trained to endure pain more and more. This is not a decrease is sensitivity, merely pain-training.

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RE: Nipple play - 2/3/2015 2:23:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		Mine are just as sensitive, if not more so. Yes, the pain is more now esp when the clamps are removed. You ger used to it. It is for me a real sexy pain, that ae both love.

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RE: Nipple play - 2/3/2015 2:24:52 PM   
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