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help please - 9/6/2008 3:17:16 PM

honest123

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My girlfriend as been very bad.While we have played from time to time before. I need this to be a painful spanking to hurt and teach her a lesson any Ideas how to make this a non forgetable session?

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RE: help please - 9/6/2008 3:25:17 PM

Lockit

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Playing from time to time is not consistant enough to establish any rule or boundries and therefore I would think that it wouldn't be a fair to punish in a way that hurts and is remembered. You might try being consistant in dominance before you ask for consistancy from a submissive. If you just want a kinky spanking, go for it... but you want structure... that starts with you.

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RE: help please - 9/6/2008 3:45:49 PM

faerytattoodgirl

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you want to hurt your girlfriend??? sorry but dom's dont do that. thats just abuse.

< Message edited by faerytattoodgirl -- 9/6/2008 3:46:11 PM >

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RE: help please - 9/6/2008 3:53:07 PM

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why would one wish to break a toy , those are no fun ... agrees with ^^^^ those above . good call !

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RE: help please - 9/6/2008 5:45:32 PM

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If she's your girlfriend, and not your admitted submissive, then you don't have the right to unilaterally make decisions and force her to follow them. You do have the obligation to communicate effectively as to what you are upset by and to listen to her side.

Moreover, if she doesn't agree with your decision she will resent being punished, especially if you claim it is to be a fun spanking and then change it in the middle. Or if she tells you she is withdrawing consent, do you propose to ignore this and hurt her by force?

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RE: help please - 9/6/2008 7:01:14 PM

darchChylde

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Not to mention that her butt most likely already has a crack and a hole, why would you want to to even more damage to it?

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RE: help please - 9/6/2008 7:05:15 PM

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My, aren't we the smart crack and hole tonight, dc?

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RE: help please - 9/6/2008 10:00:19 PM

Owned1

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......sniff....sniff.....I think I smell a hng.

Seriously though why would a "Dom" post on the Ask Mistress board about his girlfriend.........me thinks someone needs a clue

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RE: help please - 9/6/2008 10:04:33 PM

Lockit

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Oh he had a clue alright... he was just hoping we didn't!

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