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Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 6:35:22 AM   
Goldenthirst


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Status: offline 		I am wondering why it's so hard to find others who are into Watersports as a way of humiliation. I have been in swinging, poly, pagan gone to BDSM parties, Beltane and yet I can find a woman or group of people that love Watersports (Real time not fantasy). I am a very oral person and love drinking pee from a woman, love to clean her/him up after sex (cuck) I was used by last Mistress as a toilet piss slave at her parties etc. But since she moved I have yet to find another woman who is serious about this type of use. I live in Philly area and would appreciate hearing from anyone who can guide me. This is not spam it's a real request. Rob.
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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 7:21:25 AM   
CaSlut


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Status: offline 		I am continually amazed at how some profess to be into "edge" play but in reality, are just scared. Watersports, sounding, needles, wax, fireplay, etc are exciting to profess but difficult to find those into them.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 7:35:11 AM   
Twicehappy2x


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ORIGINAL: Goldenthirst

I. I have been in swinging, poly, pagan gone to BDSM parties, Beltane and yet I can find a woman or group of people that love Watersports (Real time not fantasy).


As a practicing Druid i have to tell you, Beltaine is the rite of spring and a religious festival which has zero to do with watersports. That may have something to do with your failure to hookup with someone there who shares your interests.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 7:56:03 AM   
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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 8:14:56 AM   
catize


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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 8:19:06 AM   
candystripper


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Goldenthirst

I am wondering why it's so hard to find others who are into Watersports as a way of humiliation. I have been in swinging, poly, pagan gone to BDSM parties, Beltane and yet I can find a woman or group of people that love Watersports (Real time not fantasy). I am a very oral person and love drinking pee from a woman, love to clean her/him up after sex (cuck) I was used by last Mistress as a toilet piss slave at her parties etc. But since she moved I have yet to find another woman who is serious about this type of use. I live in Philly area and would appreciate hearing from anyone who can guide me. This is not spam it's a real request. Rob.


Well, pardon me for saying so, but it does sound as if the fetish of being a toilet-slave has overtaken all other considerations.  I cannot even tell from your Op if you seek a fem Domme...apparently any woman will do.
 
If you objectify people into ther various functions, you are not likely to attract them.  Women (and presumably men) no more care to be thought of as an object by those who call us 'f**kmeat' than by you.
 
Look for a whole person you can relate to...leave your fetsih at the door till you find one.  If that person is willing, then introduce the matter.
 
Otherwise, there are people who will do as you wish...for a price.
 
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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 8:51:29 AM   
faerytattoodgirl


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Status: offline 		um lets see why....because its gross...disgusting....dangerous...can pass diseases if swallowed...isnt safe...isnt sane....and its gross.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 8:55:15 AM   
christine1


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Status: offline 		huh, i happen to love golden showers and watersports, but then again i'm quite gross and insane to boot.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 9:00:29 AM   
faerytattoodgirl


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i'm quite gross and insane to boot.


you insane??? pfft.


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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 9:18:54 AM   
zakkan


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Status: offline 		Well, if you have a few thousand euros to spend you can always apply at the OWK. They have been looking forever for someone like you and you will be welcome with open arms.

Just stick with beer.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 9:49:11 AM   
WhiplashSmile2


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ORIGINAL: CaSlut
I am continually amazed at how some profess to be into "edge" play but in reality, are just scared. Watersports, sounding, needles, wax, fireplay, etc are exciting to profess but difficult to find those into them.

Aaaahhhh hahaha... just a bunch of sissys trying to pass themselves off as BDSM badasses.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 10:53:03 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Will you love me for my pee or for me?  I never thought I might have to ask that... in a sing song voice of course... but damn... another thing a person has to wonder about. 

Actually, some are into it and some are not, but when a guy pushes for that... I tend to walk away for a couple reasons.  I think of what a bother it would be to have to go to the bathroom knowing he was salvatating every time and wanted a quick trip to turn into play...

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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 11:24:36 AM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		The fetishist has a difficult reality because of the law of averages, in that they are typically a minority among an already small minority set. 


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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 1:48:41 PM   
ScarlettStangata


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Status: offline 		I honestly would suggest going to Pro-Dommes to get this fantasy fulfilled. I think most women do find this kind of activity a bit unsavory and don't particulary choose to engage in it. If this is something you enjoy you can pay professionals to have a wonderful experience whenever you choose with beautiful women. I think that might be a good road for you.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 2:01:21 PM   
LadyLupineNYC


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Status: offline 		I agree, a Pro might be best until you find someone as 'into' it as you.  I did once know someone who was really into it, both peeing and being peed on...a rare breed.  I do confess as a Pro I was horrible at it and would encourage the client to see someone else as I am toooooo pee shy...the second I noted the client look I just couldn't do it, no matter the amount of water I had drunk in preparation.  It was still a great scene to watch when we would do 'pee trains' and I would just go, pee in a cup and pour it 'sensually', like wax, on the sub.  Honestly, it was just one of these fetishes that it's great if that is your thing but I have noticed that the men I have encountered (Pro and lifestyle) for whom this was a major fetish where really disinterested in me, just how much I could 'produce' for them...not the situation I would consider ideal.

Interestingly, my slave thought he was really into this but when I started to train him (oddly, no issue with him on this and being pee-shy lol) he just couldn't get into the taste.  Turns out sometimes things really can be better in fantasy than in reality and it was great to explore and know for future scenes....

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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 2:21:14 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		the thing that keeps poppin in my head is old  frank zappa " watch out where you go watch out  where those huskies go dont eat that yellow snow "

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RE: Why is it so hard to find? - 9/7/2008 2:29:00 PM   
Prinsexx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Goldenthirst

I am wondering why it's so hard to find others who are into Watersports as a way of humiliation. I have been in swinging, poly, pagan gone to BDSM parties, Beltane and yet I can find a woman or group of people that love Watersports (Real time not fantasy). I am a very oral person and love drinking pee from a woman, love to clean her/him up after sex (cuck) I was used by last Mistress as a toilet piss slave at her parties etc. But since she moved I have yet to find another woman who is serious about this type of use. I live in Philly area and would appreciate hearing from anyone who can guide me. This is not spam it's a real request. Rob.

It's the nayutr of esire rather than the fetish....the less you have of something the more you seek it.



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