how can they abide being in a vanilla relationship
I would guess because many of their needs are being met there. Perhaps the only need not being met is kink or D/s and that the other things are equally important to them, <gasp> even more important. Perhaps that little lift of kink is what they need to make their life work. I don't know. Life is not black and white, there are shades of gray.
Sad but a lot of these female submissives are looking for the Prince to come and save them, make them feel special. Alot of the male doms are looking for no-string holes. That's all.
Sad but a lot of these female submissives are looking for the Prince to come and save them, make them feel special. Alot of the male doms are looking for no-string holes. That's all.