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Dom's who block email - 11/27/2005 7:39:02 PM   
LilWhiteWolf


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I find it truly amazing that i have had a few Doms email me about wanting to get to know me. You know the kind..."hi do you have a pic?" or the other "what do u like". When i respond that i am not interested and they reply back with a nasty message, they actually block me from sending an email back. I know it is a waste of time and typing even to respond back to these little boys playing out a fantasy online but to actually refer to themselves as "Dominant" and then block emails totally baffles me. I try to be polite and thank everyone who corresponds to me even when i state in my profile that i am not looking right now.
I guess i am just ranting here or actually i am sort of laughing....it only goes to show you how Dominant a person is that blocks a return email after they send a nasty one.
Thank You all for listening...smiles
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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/27/2005 7:56:00 PM   
obis


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I understand that would be very frustrating.

So do you have any pics? a/s/l?


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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/27/2005 7:58:55 PM   
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May be its just that they think that it is because they say they are Doms it is their only way of showing to them selves they can be that and not like being reject by any one.
To them that rejection is a slap in the face of what they say they are but makes those who were blocked know otherwise.
Just as some seem to think it is good to tell others they aren't what they say they are or get their thrills from forever putting others down.

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/27/2005 8:19:19 PM   
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Obis, thank you so much for the laugh LOL i needed it right now

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/27/2005 8:23:10 PM   
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a/s/l.........american sign language or ?

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/27/2005 8:31:28 PM   
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Its a piss poor way to deal with rejection. Some Doms believe that relationships are for weaker people.

They just don't realize that there is plenty of room for dehumanization after a trusting friendship has been established.

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/27/2005 8:36:08 PM   
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those are trollers or as we say in the Sooouuttthhhhh--trawwwwwlers (sorry, the accent keeps growing on Me--smiles)---they want a pic so they have something new to ahem well wank to and they want to hear the lurid details of your interests-and as always the male ego cannot take a "no thank you, I'm looking for someone better"----the last one that did that, I told him to take that thang, shove it up his ass and blow himself up---all of course with a Suthren drawl----hugs, keep trying

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/27/2005 9:18:56 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

those are trollers or as we say in the Sooouuttthhhhh--trawwwwwlers (sorry, the accent keeps growing on Me--smiles)---they want a pic so they have something new to ahem well wank to and they want to hear the lurid details of your interests-and as always the male ego cannot take a "no thank you, I'm looking for someone better"----the last one that did that, I told him to take that thang, shove it up his ass and blow himself up---all of course with a Suthren drawl----hugs, keep trying



lol... are you picking on us here southern folks?... lol... yaaaaaaaaaaaaallllllllll... need to watch that.. cause we's gots realtives... with more balls than educashun.....lmao

No seriously.... just shows you who's real.. and who isn't.. have a good laugh at their insecurities... and enjoy yourself...

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/27/2005 10:13:49 PM   
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dear little white wolf
by the way i had a little white wolf and, didnt know i had one, tho
my -missing to fowel play- top
her father raized wolfs;
she always talked, about it ,too;stupid me ;all the dogs kept picking on him and, i had to keep pulling it outta jaws ,of other shepard dogs ;all the time and he had weird frantic 3 foot digging habbits-5-10 holes in a few minutes.so he never stayed white, at all(musta' been 'the wild-life society' visiting me ,again:
i suppose.....),
anyway:
how do you like the doms who write,to you
unsolicited:a few times ,
when you finally answer their semi-objectionable bull
,(ie: greetings," i'm, not a top " opposite their dom iso profile)
,as ,if you need an antagonisitc relationship
;and,they blocked you, so you CANT!
it's ,not unlike ,when someone who hates you; stares, at you
,so long ,until you finally look, at them,
and ,then they give you the nose ,up the air ;
closed eyes;
turn the head ,and, look permanantly away look....
and ,you cant get them!
they know you wanna see them look ,at you ,again ,
so you can snub them back ,
so they don't look, on purpose!,
usually, if they look-good....
i ,just laff like it must be a sadisitic pick-up line, or,
not un- like my last date!

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/27/2005 11:27:35 PM   
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This happens to all of us, and it can be frustrating. It seems not to matter what is in the profile, or even what orientation is displayed. I had one email tonight that simply stated, "guess you don't want to chat with me", and the profile is already MIA. I have no idea who this person is (or was) and I wasn't blocked but I didn't even have the opportunity to write a "Whaaaat?"

quote:

they want to hear the lurid details of your interests-and as always the male ego cannot take a "no thank you,


Now this made Me laugh. For I had another email this evening. Verbatim:
"I saw you are Domme and would love to ask you about being cuckolded. If you cuckold males and how hard it is to be trained. I hope you don't mind. "Since I was not interested in pursuing this, I sent a quick note stating that I am not seeking at this time (as My profile states) and that I do not practice cuckolding.
I hadn't bothered to flip over to the profile because it wasn't important to Me, but I did when I got his next email 5 minutes later. This is in its entirety and verbatim also:
"do you use cbt?" I didn't bother to reply to the second email, so now I am sure I am one of those *rude Dommes*.
His profile is for a Dominant Male.

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/28/2005 5:14:52 AM   
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O goody...another thread on email, LMAO.

Here's a short list of questions i abhore:

1. So, how long have you been in the lifestyle? (Assuming i knew wtf this meant, my profile clearly states i'm new to BDSM.)

2. What makes you think you're a submissive?

3. What's your bra size?

4. How's your libido?

5. What do you enjoy in BDSM? (My profile also says i expect to learn things from my One.)

6. Got a pic? (There's one on my profile.)

7. From Master of the Universe (aged 26) to slave candy.... (arrrgh!)

8. I'm well-endowed and can do it all nite long; wanna meet?

9. See naked picture of Me attached.

10. Got any naked pictures of you? Can i have them?

However, there is one benefit: i know every time not be bothered with such a Man, as He is a faker.

candystripper

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/28/2005 6:27:41 AM   
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I got my first email like that today. i mean WTF. People talk of respect. On a whole i respond to every one who emails me, even its just to say no thankyou, i am not interested and list a few reasons why. Respect should go both ways.

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/28/2005 7:00:42 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LilWhiteWolf
When i respond that i am not interested and they reply back with a nasty message, they actually block me from sending an email back. I know it is a waste of time and typing even to respond back to these little boys playing out a fantasy online but to actually refer to themselves as "Dominant" and then block emails totally baffles me. I try to be polite and thank everyone who corresponds to me even when i state in my profile that i am not looking right now.


If this happens enough to bother you, I might suggest deleting the e-mails that you receive, "after" you've offered your polite note of rejection.

If you have no interest in corresponding with them, after you've rejected them, should they respond...just delete it, without opening it. Don't waste your time, and the possibility of being hurt or confused by what they might say. You've already made the decision not to deal with them further, by your note to them.

In my own experience, I find it's rare to receive a return note that is positive, after you've rejected a man (for whatever reason). Some respond with a 'thanks for being honest' and not wasting my time, but more will project their feelings of being rejected onto you personally. It's the law of the Internet....for many (and thankfully, not all). Just think of the alternative....those that don't understand, "thanks, but no thanks," and continue to e-mail you, over and over and over again, regardless of your feelings.

K

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/28/2005 9:22:10 AM   
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10. Got any naked pictures of you? Can i have them?



What I would do if I was in a smart ass mood is found the most hidious picture I could find and send it to him hehe

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/28/2005 9:27:49 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion



10. Got any naked pictures of you? Can i have them?



What I would do if I was in a smart ass mood is found the most hidious picture I could find and send it to him hehe


Thats so evil, i love it

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/28/2005 9:58:52 AM   
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Blocking the emails does in my opinion indicate some one who is so unsure of their Dominance and probably themselves that they cant handle any form of rejection. Still they are showing their colours early and saving wasting your time.... I still get requests for pics from one or two cyber subs who offer the world but dont read profiles. I've not blocked them but I used to send a pic (I've lost the bloody thing now damn it ~ grins at candystripper) of my bare arse when I was bending over.. Probably gave them something to wank over if the truth be known for as sure as all hell it never scared them off.......

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/28/2005 1:19:57 PM   
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I believe it is my solemn duty to point interested parties in the direction of the world-infamous Tubgirl and Goatse.cx images.

I am not to be held responsible for any use, misuse, or blindness resulting from these images. And if either one of them turns you on, I don't want to know about it!

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/28/2005 1:23:50 PM   
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That was just nasty. Got any more? :)

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/28/2005 1:50:10 PM   
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quote:

That was just nasty. Got any more? :)


For you, dahling?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_shock_sites

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RE: Dom's who block email - 11/28/2005 2:03:42 PM   
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D'oh, I got the tag backwards: List of shock sites

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