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WhiplashSmile2 -> RE: True Masochists (9/18/2008 2:18:31 AM)
I realize you were asking submissives pespectives here, I'm a Dom that has a maso streak. All for the Friggen Endorphine Rush and release for me, or sexual fight energy or other reasons. But when I want my pain fix, I want my fix. I could give a shit less about if somebody inflicting pain upon me takes pleasure from it either. LOL...

OsideGirl -> RE: True Masochists (9/18/2008 7:38:14 AM)
I have a friend that is a "true" masochist. She wants to play with you, she wants to fuck you. She doesn't want to be your submissive and she doesn't want you to be her Dom. She won't call you Sir. While she's the bottom in a scene, she's not really submissive during the scene. For her it's all about the pain play.

scarlethiney -> RE: True Masochists (9/18/2008 10:02:48 AM)
You described my thoughts and feelings exactly! scarlet

beltainefaerie -> RE: True Masochists (9/18/2008 12:32:53 PM)
I agree with catize. It can be different at differenttimes. Sometimes I like the actual sensation of the pain. It makes me wet. I've come just from being flogged before. Other times, I enjoy that my pain is pleasing to him and it is simply part of my service. In that case, the enjoyment comes, not from the sensation itself, but from serving.

AlkemieJane -> RE: True Masochists (9/18/2008 8:11:57 PM)
speaking of pain.... OH MY GOD do i want to be hurt right now...

ohiocandy -> RE: True Masochists (7/18/2009 4:53:02 AM)
im i your mixture

Missokyst -> RE: True Masochists (7/18/2009 7:30:44 AM)
I am one of those odd "true" masochists, the type that enjoys pain because it brings me into that wet hazy place. And also the type that can convert unconsentual pain into a calm state should I injure myself accidentally. It is also enjoyable to take pain at times, because my partner likes it. Kyst

vasha -> RE: True Masochists (7/18/2009 8:30:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Inglevine So, are there subs out there who truly, selfishly enjoy pain? I've talked to many subs who say they "like" pain, but then it turns out that they really like taking pain because it pleases their Domme. I'd love to hear about the experience of pain from subs perspectives. honestly? it depends greatly on the kind, ammount, and often the situation. i sure as *** dont enjoy a massive toothache, or migraine (seroius pain sometimes, both) but i do very much enjoy many many other things. once i nearly put myself in subspace by driving my car .. slightly over the speed limit, down a major road... the window open, and the rain stinging the tender skin of the back of my bare arm in a delicious way. (edit!* oh, and i was alone in the car at the time) this is just one example corse i also very much enjoy a good SM scene too... and not just because its pleasing to my partner/Owner. a place for everything, everthing in its place ~vasha

LATEXBABY64 -> RE: True Masochists (7/18/2009 5:39:14 PM)
achie pain is not fun

Arpig -> RE: True Masochists (7/18/2009 10:53:57 PM)
I have not read through the replies, but to be honest I doubt there is anything in them that will affect my reply. yes there are subs out there who desire nothing beyond the infliction of pain. Yes there are Doms out there who desire nothing beyond the infliction af pain. In a perfect world those in the first category would meet up with those in the second. But unhappily life doesn't work that way. but the desires still remain

painpleasure1966 -> RE: True Masochists (7/19/2009 1:02:21 AM)
Certain types of pain for me are a real buzz. It is still an "erotic" pain though - not an out and cold ruthless beating. I have not had a problem saying "I want this or that". However, to get the best out of a domme I have always found that their enjoyment is equally important. People tend to do things better when they are doing what they enjoy and the feelings are mutually more enjoyable when both people are having fun. As a result I tend to seek out people who enjoy the same things as me anyway.

kiteguy -> RE: True Masochists (7/19/2009 1:53:11 AM)
Im new to all this, im a sub. A mistress tested me out, she said I had no reaction her test (pushing a pen into my hand), so I was of no use to her. Also im told by some that a submissive doesnt mean that your not confident. Heres the lowdown guys: - i dont beleive most self claimed submissives are indeed that at all, and domms who seek a reaction of pleasure from inflicting pain are only out to (get a relationship because they cant get one in normal life), i am authentic submissive, naturally. ther really is such a thing i dont like pain but if its forced onto me to please a mistress id try to take it, but do all i can to avoid it. i have low self esteem and people take advantage of me so i have to act/pretend in vanilla life so i dont get taken advantage of. i have such trouble standing up for myself all the time, im trying to teach myself assertiveness.

maso666 -> RE: True Masochists (8/23/2009 10:27:41 AM)
I would say an indefatigable 'yes' because I am one. I regularly use croc clips on my nipples and other sensitive areas and really enjoy the pain. I don't know why this is, but pain really turns me on. In addition after I 'relieve' myself a sudden rush of additional pain starts to fill my body -its just awesome. Rather ironically, I have always wondered whether there are real sadistic women out there. From what I have read I suspect they are very rare or non-existent. Maso

Missokyst -> RE: True Masochists (8/23/2009 1:22:36 PM)
Nonsense. They are out there, I am also sadistic. I find many women to be sadistic, however, it does not always manifest in a way which is compatible to you. I have known some females to tear someone to shreds without lifting a finger. Sadism comes in many forms. quote: ORIGINAL: maso666 Rather ironically, I have always wondered whether there are real sadistic women out there. From what I have read I suspect they are very rare or non-existent. Maso

Prinsexx -> RE: True Masochists (8/23/2009 1:28:11 PM)
Masochism comes in many forms. Often without wheals or scars. Sometimes with a tiny tears in the eyes no one woud ever notice.

LillyoftheVally -> RE: True Masochists (8/23/2009 2:18:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst Nonsense. They are out there, I am also sadistic. I find many women to be sadistic, quote: ORIGINAL: maso666 Rather ironically, I have always wondered whether there are real sadistic women out there. From what I have read I suspect they are very rare or non-existent. Maso I am sadistic in the 'true' sense, ie the de sade sense, I like to inflict real pain, not enjoyed pain, a masochist would be no good to me, I like to hurt people randomly normally, something since childhood. I would chuck people down stairs, slap people in the face, and now I will pinch randomly, one of my best memories was having the urge to bite down when kissing, I have had many people run up to me post bite and ask if I have punched their mate in the face

porcelaine -> RE: True Masochists (8/23/2009 2:20:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Inglevine So, are there subs out there who truly, selfishly enjoy pain? I've talked to many subs who say they "like" pain, but then it turns out that they really like taking pain because it pleases their Domme. I'd love to hear about the experience of pain from subs perspectives. i'm neither a masochist nor a pain slut. but i enjoy the rush, internal struggle, and the physical manifestations that occur when its applied. i'd never wish to live without it, and truthfully his enjoyment is a factor as well. porcelaine

GoddessImaginos -> RE: True Masochists (8/23/2009 2:23:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst Nonsense. They are out there, I am also sadistic. I find many women to be sadistic, however, it does not always manifest in a way which is compatible to you. I have known some females to tear someone to shreds without lifting a finger. Sadism comes in many forms. quote: ORIGINAL: maso666 Rather ironically, I have always wondered whether there are real sadistic women out there. From what I have read I suspect they are very rare or non-existent. Maso Witness!

scarlethiney -> RE: True Masochists (8/23/2009 2:30:58 PM)
I find pain very arousing. Now I am not sure if that is because Master conditioned me to think of it that way or if I just am wired that way or both. Some days I like it more than others, but I always like it. Just the running of my fingers across a welt is a highly erotic sensation to me.

SadisticStrap -> RE: True Masochists (8/23/2009 2:38:49 PM)
Yes a daily dose of the strap or flogger is just what some need to start and end their day

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