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finding a pet - 7/31/2004 7:07:42 PM

Hisdixiegirl

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Hi all. Master and i have been searching for a pet/playmate for such a long time. What are we doing wrong? Is there anywhere else we can look that you know of where we might have better luck? Any advice you can give will be appreciated. Thanks

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RE: finding a pet - 7/31/2004 7:34:17 PM

Sundew02

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If you are truly serious about finding another to live with you, then my suggestion is to go to any local D/s group events. Your posting and profile is fine, but anyone coming into your house will want more information about the dominant and how they will fit into the household. I can not say this strongly enough, up close and personal is the best way to find a "pet" for you Dom. Sundew

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RE: finding a pet - 8/1/2004 9:20:32 AM

Leonidas

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You aren't doing anything wrong. Couples looking for a submissive female third far outnumber submissive women who want that situation. You're just fighting the laws of supply and demand. Often, submissive women who are open to that situation are bisexual, and will gravitate toward couples where they feel some chemistry with the woman. If you search through this site you will find some women who say they are open to couples, but I guarantee you that if the woman in question is reasonably attractive, she will be overrun with offers. Your best bet, in terms of online, is to get active in a chatroom or two, and simply make friends with other submissive women. Your most likely "playmate" is going to be a woman that you have made friends with, and would therefore feel comfortable exploring a more intimate relationship with you and hubby.

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RE: finding a pet - 8/1/2004 5:53:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: Hisdixiegirl

Hi all. Master and i have been searching for a pet/playmate for such a long time. What are we doing wrong? Is there anywhere else we can look that you know of where we might have better luck? Any advice you can give will be appreciated. Thanks

Well i know it is not an easy task. My former dom had me on a quest as well to find another partner. And i placed ads and went on sites and talked to so many people. The relationship between he and i ended and it wasn't until after that i met someone who i have played with since (she is a switch) that might have worked out for occasional play for all of us.

If i had still been with him hwoever, we would not have met. It was a friend of a friend kind of a thing. My thought is keep positive and know it is a difficult task, but when the time is right i think you will find someone. Good luck.

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